Friends With Benefits Secretly Share Their Feelings For Each Other

  • Published on Jan 28, 2018
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  • Jubilee
    Jubilee  8 months ago +433

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    • Jillian Kulp
      Jillian Kulp 3 days ago


    • Shannon Walters
      Shannon Walters 12 days ago

      He's too young for her she's looking for a partner and at 24 not many men are committed to anyone most are just getting away from mom or worse still stuck on mommy this dude likes her and probably enjoys older women but he seems like he also goes both ways sorry he might ditch you for a dude in his gender neutral world lol

    • Eric B
      Eric B 19 days ago

      Where do u live ?

    • WolfBaneX
      WolfBaneX 23 days ago

      Never ever use the word "fam" ever again.

  • Nour LIGHT
    Nour LIGHT 2 hours ago

    she give her heart to the wrong person.

  • Jillian Modelo
    Jillian Modelo 4 hours ago

    Why do I feel sorry for the girl? And imagine removing all those eye makeup from the guy.. 🙄🤭

  • Fa
    Fa 5 hours ago

    Their bond is just amazing ! You can see how much she truly care about him and every inch of him as for him he cares for her but he was lost for a while before and he doesn't want to assume stuff before he is sure about his feelings but really he doesn't care he just like "them" he doesn't care about what society lable them he just love being around her and feels comforable and that's the important and beautiful part of a deep relationship ❤️

  • I Me
    I Me 7 hours ago

    Ok that dude is cute pretty

  • Reflections of the Soul

    She’s trying to fix him I mean is it just me or is this kinda really pathetic on her end???

  • jiminsyo _
    jiminsyo _ 18 hours ago +1

    I feel bad for her...😥

  • Jade Stone
    Jade Stone Day ago

    She is down to earth, brave and vulnerable. What a sweet woman. I'd love to be her world.

  • WindFlower Gracie

    She seems so ready to be committed and he seems like he is he's just scared to hurt her or that she could hurt him.

  • sylvee Kaydee
    sylvee Kaydee Day ago

    Omg I don’t wanna be her! My heart just broke for her, 😭😭😭

  • Alea Nicole
    Alea Nicole Day ago

    He doesn’t realize what he has

  • Alea Nicole
    Alea Nicole Day ago

    He doesn’t realize what he has

  • Yuqixhope J
    Yuqixhope J Day ago

    Why do I feel like I’m part of their relationship lol

  • Orvana Dawn
    Orvana Dawn Day ago

    This is like the relationship I was in in mine iwas 23 and he was 36 I really really saw through all his wrong his imperfections while he was still playing eenie meenie with so many women let's just say I walked away cause I realised I deserved better

  • Sinead Hinton
    Sinead Hinton 2 days ago

    They dont follow eachother on social media anymore and i wanna know what happened here

  • R Head
    R Head 2 days ago

    When I heard his voice... I discovered that he was a he and not a she

  • 1-800
    1-800 2 days ago


  • Rosalie Dal
    Rosalie Dal 2 days ago

    Bill Kaulitz vibesss! 😍

  • Sandwich Egg
    Sandwich Egg 2 days ago

    He needs a mother's love..still young and lost ..and she already started menopause..

  • Keci Harvey
    Keci Harvey 2 days ago

    Do you think that maybe they dont play anything in the headphones so that you ca hear what the other person Is saying or does the guy read lips elly good cuz at 4:27 he was nodding his head to her hot the music

  • Stolen videos
    Stolen videos 3 days ago

    Is he bumping music ?

  • Feliks The Phoenix
    Feliks The Phoenix 3 days ago

    Jesus christ he's gorgeous with make-up oh my god

  • Cucumber Tomatoes
    Cucumber Tomatoes 3 days ago

    He reminds me of my previous kinda friend-boyfriend(((

  • Eriii 00
    Eriii 00 3 days ago

    this is honestly my favourite video on youtube

  • Liquid Intensions
    Liquid Intensions 3 days ago

    *i know you were troubled when you walked in~*

  • yung schema
    yung schema 3 days ago

    he’s hot

  • Winter Wind
    Winter Wind 3 days ago +1

    Thought he was a girl in the thumbnail... He's actually hot lol

  • Maite Gonzalez
    Maite Gonzalez 3 days ago

    Disappointed because I thought they were lesbians.
    Stephanie is adorable btw

  • Morgan Becker
    Morgan Becker 3 days ago

    I’m so sad for her :(

  • Cochise Seals
    Cochise Seals 3 days ago

    You haveProdbyParis or Pierre... Dio: JoJo...

  • Yasmim Lima
    Yasmim Lima 3 days ago

    the way she look to him..

  • Mikayla Hall
    Mikayla Hall 4 days ago


  • Israa Mahdi
    Israa Mahdi 4 days ago +3

    He's not arrogant .He just still didn't figure himself out he's so lost , and he sounds like he has trust issues he said he he's always used to the negative responses and all . On the other hand she's 40 she knows what she wants she already settled herself and channeled her inner self so she's not afraid to speak up and say I love you like him , she's not lost as him. I just wish them happiness wherever it is .

  • Greystorm1619
    Greystorm1619 4 days ago +1

    Well I think their relationship is beautiful, even with all their flaws. He has a long way to go but she wants to be there for him, and I respect that. Hopefully she can be a positive part of his journey to grow, whether or not they stay together. I have similar issues as him with Depression and self- hatred, and his commitment issues are probably rooted in that, so I don’t think it’s fair to criticize him for that as it has to do with his upbringing and circumstances. It takes a lot of hard work, self reflection, and support from others, to get through that, and I’m glad that he has someone there for him. Hopefully one day he can learn to appreciate himself for who he is.

  • Love Doctor
    Love Doctor 4 days ago

    How do you even find these people 😆

  • ty
    ty 4 days ago

    Get a partner who wants what you want, don't waste time with less than you need and deserve. He isn't ready for what she's ready for.

  • thrice bang
    thrice bang 5 days ago

    Go Auntie

  • Việt Hà Nguyễn
    Việt Hà Nguyễn 5 days ago +1

    People, it's their problem, it's how they love and care for each other. Stop judging. So what if they have a large age gap? We need more relationship that starts with a deep care towards each other. There are tons of man who is older than her yet don't know what they wanna do yet. This guy know that he wants to figure things out, discover himself so that when he is 100% sure, he can give the best of things for the person who matters most. Yeesh I'm only 17, tell me anything but respecting others for their choices and belives is what makes you mature, not your age.

  • Chakshul Pandya
    Chakshul Pandya 5 days ago

    0:06 DAMNNNNNNNN!!!!!!!! O_o

  • Jazz B
    Jazz B 5 days ago

    He is an androgynous ✋Final THOUGHTS FOLKS

  • さんナターシャ

    I mean... He is the kind of guy any girl would fall for and she wouldn't know how or when. He's mesmerizing, there's something really really mysterious about him 😍 I played this video thinking it's some lesbian couple video and once he spoke I realised he was a Guy,I stayed cause he looked like an anime character and by the end of the video I already followed him on insta and listened to his dope ass voice singing. I'm in love.
    For those of you who wants to fan girl him on instagram : antidagger
    You're welcome.

  • Elijah Clerge
    Elijah Clerge 5 days ago

    First I thought the guy was a girl, secondly I thought the girl was way younger

  • Me uh
    Me uh 5 days ago


  • aaisha sair
    aaisha sair 6 days ago

    They deffo have CRAAAAZY sex lol

  • ewe.linko
    ewe.linko 6 days ago

    2:27 I like how he is sitting and in the next scene she sit the exactly the same way haha

  • Joi Powell
    Joi Powell 6 days ago

    Wow he’s beautiful and intelligent.They seem like really good friends but they just aren’t in the same place.Hopefully she finds someone who loves her like she needs to be loved.

  • Luana Paixão
    Luana Paixão 6 days ago +1

    0:42 "she is from Europe, so..."
    *what the hell is that even supposed to mean?😕😐*

  • humming bird
    humming bird 6 days ago

    he is so sexy like... damnnn

  • Baka Hannibal
    Baka Hannibal 6 days ago

    When the cougar falls in love with the young pup. It's a dangerous thing for both parties. Sadly, it'll eventually end and everything that she wants from him he'll give to the next. Simply because he wants nothing more than to be friends with benefits and she, like most women, believed she could use it to change that about him. He'll marry the next girl his age but will name his daughter after her.

  • SouPo
    SouPo 6 days ago

    He has commitment issues

  • Nord VPN 66% Off
    Nord VPN 66% Off 6 days ago

    This guy has commitment issues and he's causing extreme pain to this woman.

  • Raven私は牛のよ

    Is he a Capricorn ?

  • Beatrix Galang
    Beatrix Galang 6 days ago

    Why do I relate to her ? :(

  • Mari Mariami
    Mari Mariami 6 days ago

    Hes so beautiful !

  • Nazla Chairina
    Nazla Chairina 6 days ago

    Is he a Geminian? I'm just curious.

  • Laís
    Laís 6 days ago

    minha deusa, ele é muito lindo

  • Bordeaux Rose
    Bordeaux Rose 6 days ago

    I think he thinks he is not enough for her so he has his guard up

  • Yàssy Teigan
    Yàssy Teigan 6 days ago

    Wtf ..? Im so confused like he must look just like his mother

  • Ameretat Godess
    Ameretat Godess 6 days ago

    I think he is using her big time and she is hopeless lover I feel bad for her she has so much love in her and he sees it but he knows what is he doing

  • Alexa Bowman
    Alexa Bowman 6 days ago

    He is like a real life Marshall lee and I love it

  • Princess
    Princess 6 days ago

    Omg..... this was touching..... I felt like I could literally feel their emotion. 👍🏼🙌🏽

  • DailyChristian
    DailyChristian 6 days ago

    24 n 43???????? disgusting

  • envy.rinaa
    envy.rinaa 7 days ago

    i wanted to cry for her .

  • bluejay lily
    bluejay lily 7 days ago

    “You actually slid into *my* DMs”

  • Nessa_ JZ
    Nessa_ JZ 7 days ago

    This is actually so deep and beautiful I swear 😭😭

  • Charlotte von Engelberg

    You two are just amazing! Wow

  • Raisa Klein
    Raisa Klein 7 days ago

    Oh she looks up to him! She wants to stay young and hip...little bit awkward...

  • SweetDreams
    SweetDreams 7 days ago +2

    Inspired in humanity by the video then i read the comments.. back to the disappointment 🙃

    • Eliza McFarlane
      Eliza McFarlane 4 days ago

      Riiight, people hating the guy, then the lady, come on its frigging 2019, age gaps shouldn't be an issue...

  • baby sorry
    baby sorry 7 days ago

    that song at the end tho

  • Miss Charlie Aurora
    Miss Charlie Aurora 7 days ago

    fukboy. but so pretty. selfish though. Hope they both come out of it okay xo

  • Amethyst Rock
    Amethyst Rock 7 days ago

    But I mean why would you be mad at the guy. Both agreed for friendz with benefits. One fell in love. The other doesn't want that is probably sleeping with other people. It's no one's fault but themselves. Each had different feelings at the end of it. Don't be hating him because she fell for him. She knew the idea of their relationship.

  • Anonymous Nomore
    Anonymous Nomore 7 days ago +3

    My thoughts during the video
    1. " wait she's a guy? I mean he"
    2. " his hair is fascinating"
    3. " wait ..wait..wait she's 40 !?"
    4. " this guy has commitment issues"
    5. "Idk they seem happy"

  • FearMe
    FearMe 7 days ago

    To each their own man... to each... their own..

  • iGrrddy x
    iGrrddy x 7 days ago


  • DeAndre Rey
    DeAndre Rey 7 days ago

    He looks more like a girl than her

  • Kim Tran
    Kim Tran 7 days ago +1

    Him: absolutely no label ... and I prefer it that way
    Her: he’s my boyfriend
    *stab my heart with a dagger and it’ll be less painful* 😭😭😭😭😭

  • Bella Garcia
    Bella Garcia 7 days ago

    Looks like the guy from Tokio Hotel.

  • Grace Lee
    Grace Lee 7 days ago

    I don’t think they are together anymore :((( hey don’t follow each other on instagram

  • DaYanna Ryan
    DaYanna Ryan 7 days ago

    This was beautiful

  • Marley G
    Marley G 7 days ago

    does anyone know their Instagrams?

  • Random Girl
    Random Girl 7 days ago +4

    He is not manipulative, he is not in love and she is.

  • —astronautti
    —astronautti 8 days ago +1

    the dude’s lowkey hot

  • D kk
    D kk 8 days ago

    I cried😢too sad for me to handle

  • Mohamed Nimal
    Mohamed Nimal 8 days ago +1

    If they ever get married someone please let me know

  • cali cutie
    cali cutie 8 days ago

    oooooo, he’s actually pretty fine👀

  • Snowkit10
    Snowkit10 8 days ago

    Was...the 3 months thing how long they'd known each other?? And everyones bashing on him for not being as far along on the love scale as she is.

  • Baby810
    Baby810 8 days ago

    I hope she doesn’t get heart broken this dude is not on the same page one bit

  • Space man
    Space man 8 days ago

    Older woman younger man yea this is usually how it goes

  • chaton De lhiver
    chaton De lhiver 8 days ago +1

    Shes ready for love, hes not. But she still choses to be with him. I hurt for her...but i also hurt for him. He must believe that being ready for love means you must be ready for pain. Ive been in a similar situation. He clearly has been indoctrinated in such a way that he feels he needs to be closed off to love. But I can also see that he fears something so serious as a label is because he fears disappointment. In short, deep down he wants so badly to be truly loved.

  • Jon Goli
    Jon Goli 8 days ago

    It's the vast age difference. That's what's holding him back. Plain and simple. He's the younger one. More freedom and youth. "I hope the best for you"..those are words you tell someone when you don't intend to be the one giving that person best things in life.

  • Serious Review
    Serious Review 8 days ago

    This dude is cute

  • Kiki Isabeast
    Kiki Isabeast 8 days ago

    I don't think everyone should hate on him... he is honest, he isn't ready yet and has been clear about that ; I feel for her I really do , but both of them have some figuring out to do..

  • Vi
    Vi 8 days ago +1

    Those lips💋

  • xxx
    xxx 8 days ago

    You can’t love others if you don’t love yourself you’ll never move on life they both have have so much to learn I hope the best for them.

  • Dreamweaver
    Dreamweaver 8 days ago

    Thank you for showing a couple with an age difference. Theres not enough of that. Too bad for her that he's just having fun though, she's gonna get her heart broken.

  • Miche.
    Miche. 8 days ago

    wtf lol i legit thought its two hot lesbos

  • Canc3 Loli
    Canc3 Loli 8 days ago

    I thought he was a girl, until I heard his voice.

  • Marla Mattis
    Marla Mattis 8 days ago

    I thought the guy was a girl until he spoke. Kinda really wanted him to be a her

  • Papa Pingu
    Papa Pingu 8 days ago +1

    He leaves her when she turns grey probably. Middle age people who are divorced are pretty desperate.

  • Adrian Garcia
    Adrian Garcia 8 days ago

    I wasn’t gay until this video