Men and Women Seek to Understand Each Other

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  • colette chidalek
    colette chidalek 7 hours ago

    You guys should do euthanasia

  • Andrew Healis
    Andrew Healis 10 hours ago

    “I don’t think a lot of men realize how scary just they are.”
    Yeah, men are scary. Men decide they’re not in love any more, break off the marriage, and consistently take their spouse’s money. Oh wait, that’s women. In a single moment, women can ruin any man’s career, reputation, financial status, life, etc. Being scary is not something belonging to one gender alone.

  • ktfaithful
    ktfaithful 10 hours ago

    the girl with short curly hair talks exactly like rachel from friends lol

  • FlyGuy GbG
    FlyGuy GbG 12 hours ago

    Yep Brett makes me want to chew rocks

  • bryan81
    bryan81 13 hours ago

    You don't open the door? We both staying outside then

  • Aysiah Albores
    Aysiah Albores 22 hours ago

    Men and women don’t look different for no reason.

  • Aysiah Albores
    Aysiah Albores 22 hours ago

    I’m a Black conservative female, I enjoy gender roles so long as there’s equal opportunity. 🇺🇸

  • Benjamin Koh
    Benjamin Koh Day ago

    Lol who cares if you are a man or a woman... You are still a person, right?

    I mean, unless you're an octopus.

  • Hope lives
    Hope lives Day ago

    women/feminist with fuzzy hair is feminist a am i right

  • Nikki Lim
    Nikki Lim Day ago

    we have found a middle ground and its called sex

  • Jasmine Tígre
    Jasmine Tígre Day ago +1

    My sister Hates when a dude opens a car door 😆 she says it’s the most corniest thing ever! She’s like I can open it myself, you’re wasting time walking allll the way around the car, then you have to walk alll the way back around when we could’ve been down the road already🤣

  • XoX YoY
    XoX YoY Day ago

    The girl who behaves kinda like a man kinda talks outta point at times. Lol

  • Hi,ImRachel
    Hi,ImRachel 2 days ago

    This ones good

  • Hi,ImRachel
    Hi,ImRachel 2 days ago

    Parents need to teach their children basic respect

  • David
    David 2 days ago

    gabi’s got some milkers man

  • HaMadeYouReadThis
    HaMadeYouReadThis 2 days ago

    Men have it harder in society change my mind

  • Heather Marie
    Heather Marie 2 days ago +2

    I live in the South. Men are taught that women are fragile and they HAVE to do certain things for them. Like open a door. But my reality has been that when I open a door for a man, he seems shocked and pleasantly surprised. I always get a smile and a ‘Thank you so much!’

  • Jerry
    Jerry 2 days ago +2

    "If I'm with a male I won't touch the door"
    Lmao. Poor guys she dates.
    *Red flag waving violently*

  • Lori Mae
    Lori Mae 2 days ago +4

    Disadvantages huh?
    One girl lightly touched sexual assault..
    I'm disappointed none of the guys said that male sexual assault victims are over looked

  • reactions 4u
    reactions 4u 2 days ago

    She won't touch the door? That just triggers me badly

  • AL R
    AL R 3 days ago

    I agree with brett in every answer she gave to the questions💙

  • Marrow
    Marrow 3 days ago

    The girl with the Afro kinda annoying

  • baha altamimi
    baha altamimi 3 days ago +3

    Generalizations are always a bad thing.
    I see what you did there 😏

  • WiZZard
    WiZZard 3 days ago

    Why does this video exist?

  • Aya Afterlife
    Aya Afterlife 3 days ago +8

    Please stop. If he opens the door for you, he’s showing you respect and politeness, he’s not saying that you’re too weak to open a goddamned door. Thank you.

  • Aya Afterlife
    Aya Afterlife 3 days ago

    *Clicks on video*
    *Watches the first second*
    *claps* 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🙌🏻

  • sophie daniel
    sophie daniel 4 days ago

    men should not have to feel pressured to hold the door for women. holding the door is just good manner, i hold the for anyone regardless of gender.

  • Talk About It
    Talk About It 4 days ago

    why did i laugh at 'hi my name's joe'

  • Christina R.
    Christina R. 4 days ago +1

    “Lack of barriers”... umm I think the word you’re looking for, sir, is PRIVILEGE

    • Christina R.
      Christina R. 3 days ago

      Clinton Lowery lol... good one dude 👍🏼

    • Clinton Lowery
      Clinton Lowery 3 days ago

      Good calpback, you're so woke. I mean, just so much wokeness. You probably never sleep because you're always woke.

  • eternalzba1234 bopbeep
    eternalzba1234 bopbeep 4 days ago +1

    I thought we were over the door issue I guess not 😒

  • Penalty Police
    Penalty Police 4 days ago

    Everyone is already equal so I have no idea what the girl with the Afro was talking about.

  • Penalty Police
    Penalty Police 4 days ago

    People only want the “positives of equality” without the negatives. That’s what I’ve personally noticed.

  • Jessica Van Horn
    Jessica Van Horn 4 days ago +2

    I like holding the door and having the door held for me. It’s nice to be acknowledged and acknowledge others in a positive way :)

  • circuswannabe
    circuswannabe 4 days ago +1

    Obviously women know how to open doors, but when a guy opens a door for me i think its kind. I say thank you whether a guy or girl gets the door.

  • circuswannabe
    circuswannabe 4 days ago +2

    “I don’t think men realize how scary they are” ahh off to a great start..

  • Bobby Ranger
    Bobby Ranger 4 days ago +1

    I am curious about the question "Men should open doors for women". Is this figurative or literal?
    The question could be interpreted as "men should level the playing field by providing women with opportunities that they've been denied."

    Should is an interesting word. If we are talking about literal doors then I would argue that "it would be nice for people to open doors for people." If we are talking about opportunities then my position is, "I highly encourage people in positions of advantage to tackle disadvantage."

  • Lenny The Hopeless
    Lenny The Hopeless 4 days ago

    Disadvantage of being a woman is having to give birth and getting periods.
    Disadvantage of being a man is surprise boners... or maybe not so surprise boners. Lol
    There's advantages and disadvantages to both really. At least that was my first thoughts haha

    • Clinton Lowery
      Clinton Lowery 3 days ago

      True, but most that die in wars are men, most who die fighting fires are men, most who die in workplace accidents are men because most dangerous jobs are held by men, most that die in law enforcement are men, most who die in jail are men, most who go to jail are men, most ppl who are raped are men (because of jail) another words, a period and giving birth vs boners may be a little off for who has it worse.

  • Talia& DaltonVlogs
    Talia& DaltonVlogs 5 days ago

    The girl in the grey is the reason I’m not a “feminist” she makes very valid points, but everything in your life is not horrible because you are a woman, you are different. Answer questions based on your life

  • Noel Garcia
    Noel Garcia 5 days ago

    Why does Brett sound like Gina from Brooklyn 99

  • D Valentine Bernabé

    We're different but compliment eachother.

  • Just do pot
    Just do pot 5 days ago +1

    Having a random as Boner in class

  • Demospolsion
    Demospolsion 5 days ago

    The disadvantage of being a white middle class man is I am unable to pay for college...

  • Pete B
    Pete B 5 days ago

    If a woman ever refused to open the door and just sat there looking at me, Id walk in the door myself and not hold it, her ass can stay outside

  • Kenii Leigh
    Kenii Leigh 5 days ago

    i’m a female and i tend to only ask males about mechanic stuff and i’d ask a female about like home goods stuff.

  • Blush
    Blush 5 days ago

    Next episode: Wives and Side Chicks

  • kaleb horvath
    kaleb horvath 5 days ago +1

    Saying holding a door for women is putting them down is like saying jumping in front of a bullet for your best friend is implying that they are less than and not capable of saving themselves. You jumped in front of that bullet out of respect and service, period dot.

  • Kate Holly
    Kate Holly 5 days ago

    I don’t think that either gender will ever fully understand each other because they are different. It has been a long standing joke that a man will never understand what goes on on a women’s mind and I think that is completely true on both sides.

  • Mike Hunt
    Mike Hunt 5 days ago +2

    I thinks it’s hilarious how many people here are criticizing the other gender without having spent a single second in their shoes

    • Clinton Lowery
      Clinton Lowery 3 days ago

      So it's hilarious that they're criticizing the other side, yet you're criticizing both sides? See the irony there?

  • Axxidous
    Axxidous 5 days ago

    I think one big issue is that we don't know what is and isn't masculine or feminine. We just decide what's masculine and what's feminine, and then go from there. Even people who try to cite biology mostly just talk about whatever's convenient for them.

    • Clinton Lowery
      Clinton Lowery 3 days ago

      Ummmmm, we know. There is literally definitions to each word.

  • Shadayvia Wallace
    Shadayvia Wallace 5 days ago

    I think this would have been more interesting if there were transgender folx or people who do not conform to any gender binary

    • Clinton Lowery
      Clinton Lowery 3 days ago

      They probably didn't want to go with make believe and prefered to stay grounded in reality.

  • Kiwi Blair
    Kiwi Blair 5 days ago +2

    these are basically throwing a bunch of libtards in a room to argue

  • Christopher Underwood

    yknow it's funny cuz men b emotional af !!!! like anger, tantrums, pouting, bitterness, all the traits associated with "overemotional" women is more often done by men i feel like LOL

    also they did not need to invalidate my black sis at the end, like they rlly tried to invalidate and drag her :/

  • goldcookie
    goldcookie 6 days ago

    Brett high or something

  • Jorim Huang
    Jorim Huang 6 days ago

    Just have to say, Brett's comment "We can't have women running the country. What if she is on her period, we will go to war" is so funny and if people do actually believe that that is really ignorant of them. xD

    • Clinton Lowery
      Clinton Lowery 3 days ago

      It's a long time running joke that comedians have said. Nobody actually believes it. We all know women couldn't run the country because they have laundry to do.

  • i can’t believe
    i can’t believe 6 days ago

    Opening doors is an issue now?

  • Charlie Wall
    Charlie Wall 6 days ago

    Idk if its just me but watching brett talk with her mouth open pissed me off

  • Ksid 06
    Ksid 06 6 days ago

    Can we just agree that there are probably more disadvantages to being a man. A lot of women are (that I have met at least) radical feminists, and they tend to be over entitled about their femininity, and they see men as “the enemy”

  • Jared Alexander
    Jared Alexander 6 days ago

    K but the best male UFC fighter vs the best female UFC fighter the male is going to win the average man is stronger than the average women it ain't sexist it's facts i'm not saying I can beat up the best UFC female fighter i'm just saying it would be less difficult

    • Clinton Lowery
      Clinton Lowery 3 days ago

      Nah, you probably could beat up the best woman UFC fighter. Just throw her a laundry basket and then pounce. She won't know whether to hit you are get to folding them damn clothes.

  • MaximillianMus Army
    MaximillianMus Army 6 days ago +3

    3:27 oh of course lmao cringe. All the girls had to come in to complain

  • Mikey the Robloxian
    Mikey the Robloxian 6 days ago

    If I’m with someone and I’m scared, I won’t answer the door. I would tell them not to because the person outside could be dangerous.

  • McGoof17
    McGoof17 6 days ago

    The media plants the fear of men in women just the same as they plant the fear of their children getting abducted in parents. Does it happen? Obviously. Will it happen to you? Most likely not, and when it does it will be by someone you know and not a stranger.

  • Tea Tea
    Tea Tea 6 days ago

    First western world problems

  • tawonga munyanduri
    tawonga munyanduri 7 days ago

    Sjw's all around 😂😂

  • Josh Lyon
    Josh Lyon 7 days ago +4

    "Men open doors because they don't think women can..." Wut...

  • RoseGold 25
    RoseGold 25 7 days ago

    The girl with the curly Afro sounds like someone else but I can’t place who

    • Clinton Lowery
      Clinton Lowery 3 days ago

      I was thinking the same thing, but I couldn't remember the dingbats name.

  • uck 100
    uck 100 7 days ago

    i definitely wasn’t expecting everyone to sit down on the “men should open doors for women.” like who actually cares if a man opens a door for a woman? Just seems a bit excessive to me.

  • Cesar Cruz
    Cesar Cruz 7 days ago +5

    Without Men, Women Cannot Survive
    Without Women, Men Cannot Survive
    *Change My Mind*

    • Mike Hunt
      Mike Hunt Day ago

      well that's Incredible my dear google “sexual dimorphism”

    • well that's Incredible my dear
      well that's Incredible my dear 2 days ago

      Mike Hunt U got proof? Do you seriously think you’re that important?

    • Clinton Lowery
      Clinton Lowery 3 days ago +1

      A fellow Crowder fan I see. ✌

    • Mike Hunt
      Mike Hunt 4 days ago

      well that's Incredible my dear if men magically disappeared overnight 98% of women would die within a week

    • well that's Incredible my dear
      well that's Incredible my dear 4 days ago

      Every one can live without the other gender. I’m doing fine, thanks

  • Gabriella Reynoso
    Gabriella Reynoso 7 days ago

    Obviously don't know the identities of the people in this video, but I think this conversation really could've benefitted from having a focus on trans/nonbinary/gender nonconfirming perspectives. I don't think the perspectives here were diverse enough to lead to a meaningful discussion, especially since they opened up with a pretty cisnormative question.

    • Clinton Lowery
      Clinton Lowery 3 days ago

      But I think they're trying to keep this reality based. They didn't want to go into make believe land.

  • vinylseulqi
    vinylseulqi 7 days ago

    joe is so sweet bye

  • Sofia Vera
    Sofia Vera 7 days ago

    I do not feel comfortable around men.

  • V Shuzen
    V Shuzen 7 days ago

    I feel weird when people run to open the door for me and some people feel like oh they respect me but it's a damn door that's no respect compared to respecting my hard work, opinions and such. It's such a trivial thing

  • Andy Schlein
    Andy Schlein 7 days ago

    I once held a door open for a man who was walking behind me, and he stepped right up to me, reached over my head, and held the door open for me instead. It was frankly the rudest encounter i've ever had in my life. Why are you violating my personal space just to fulfil your fantasy of chivalry? Never felt more uncomfortable.

    • Clinton Lowery
      Clinton Lowery 3 days ago

      If you've never felt more uncomfortable than that, then you have lived a very comfortable and fortunate life. Consider yourself lucky and stop whinning.

  • Matthew McCartney
    Matthew McCartney 7 days ago +1

    8:15 "I don't think that a lot of men realise how scary; just they are." - Ok, I'm going to spin this, imagen if I said: "I don't think that a lot of [black] men realise how scary; just they are." This is just a mass generalisation of men - we aren't all rapists.

    • Laura Beth
      Laura Beth 6 days ago

      There goes the point!!! Right over your head

    • al gonzález
      al gonzález 7 days ago

      thats the trap, you can only say it to "oppressor" groups

  • Marko
    Marko 8 days ago +2

    No Ufc girl can beat a ufc guy, just saying.

  • DenisTV
    DenisTV 8 days ago

    Brett sounds like lady Gaga 💕👀🤪😍

  • Leah Hall
    Leah Hall 8 days ago

    I love Brett so much

  • Mekhi Powell
    Mekhi Powell 8 days ago

    Any man with a brain , is six feet and can bench press 200 pounds, knows how scary he is. Trust me

  • Kindsay Londik
    Kindsay Londik 8 days ago

    1:44 I’ve been brought up to be really tough and stuff bc my dad is very aggressive and tough but I’m still really emotional.

  • orenji
    orenji 8 days ago

    I feel like the men forgot to mention a lot of disadvantages that men face as a whole... higher suicide rates (due to being taught not to be emotional or not knowing how to handle their anger), higher death rates due to more dangerous jobs, the draft, higher sentences for the same crimes, less rights over children, etc.

  • sany Martine
    sany Martine 8 days ago

    Omg I love Brett. I feel like we have the same point of view in things that's really amazing

  • Cath Souza
    Cath Souza 8 days ago

    Just keep the whole discussion in every question PLEASE im always left wanting more. Dont edit it put PLEASE!! If it ends being a 30 min long video I would still watch it or even more. Maybe upload the edited version and the uncut verdion as well.

  • Brittany Williams
    Brittany Williams 9 days ago

    To deny men and women being inherently different would mean denying our biological makeup. We are not the same and we’re not intended to be. Men have certain hormones & even organ that women don’t have & vice versa. Society just took it an extreme step further by assigning “roles” and superficial characteristics

  • Nathan Vert
    Nathan Vert 9 days ago +1

    Was surprised at the split between men and women on the different sides

  • Lauren Davis
    Lauren Davis 9 days ago

    I think that men should hold doors open for women, but in a metaphorical sense. From their place of privilege as a man, they should open doors to opportunities for women. People in power should give to people who are oppressed

  • Y’all Poor
    Y’all Poor 9 days ago +1

    I like joe

  • all gravxz
    all gravxz 9 days ago

    this does not solve anything,

  • all gravxz
    all gravxz 9 days ago

    peaple think what they want to think,if to you shivery is misogynistic,then i'm sorry you are that way

  • pinkandsparkles101
    pinkandsparkles101 9 days ago +6

    Farhoud is the most precious human
    why arent all of the comments about how much of a sweetheart he is instead of the god damn door thing

  • iPie 117
    iPie 117 9 days ago

    the woman with the afro. what is she on

    • Clinton Lowery
      Clinton Lowery 3 days ago

      A high horse who is on a soap box that's on top of a latter that's being held by a man.

  • broccoli
    broccoli 9 days ago +1

    6:40 if someone you respect, like your boss or something, was behind you, you would open the door for them because you respect them not because you see them as weaker or below you

  • Katzekatzekatze
    Katzekatzekatze 9 days ago

    As a woman in my 20s, i usually hold the door open for people behind me. I've always thought it's just the thing to do when you wanna be friendly.
    However, once I found out that men do it for me for the fact that I'm a woman, and NOT because they see it as an act of showing humans basic respect, my world turned upside down.
    I hate chivalry with all my heart.

  • ויקטור אודוביקין

    Now wonder she was abused, look at the way she dress

  • Abdelrahman tarek
    Abdelrahman tarek 10 days ago

    People are -very angry about holding the door thingy, yea ofcourse people should open doors for people, but, at the same time speaking when u two are alone i think i should open the door for her, i mean it's just a little thing to show her that i love her by doing something conventional that lovers do for each other...

  • ForeverMe
    ForeverMe 10 days ago

    When Americans pull issues from thin air because everything in their lives are perfect and they have nothing to complain about 🤐💀💀

  • C and D
    C and D 10 days ago

    I just hate people

  • Christian  Lefebvre
    Christian Lefebvre 11 days ago +1

    Curly hair just plain hates men!

  • the seasons of us
    the seasons of us 11 days ago +1

    People should hold doors open for people. period.

    • Clinton Lowery
      Clinton Lowery 3 days ago

      And ppl on their periods should hold doors open for ppl on their periods. Period.

  • hi hi
    hi hi 11 days ago

    Idk about this video

  • O no
    O no 11 days ago +1

    Men sure physicaly superior to woman in general

  • Zeyno Naz
    Zeyno Naz 11 days ago

    I felt like I was involved in the group too.