Men and Women Seek to Understand Each Other

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  • besher nusair
    besher nusair 5 hours ago +1

    “ I don’t open doors YAHAAHYAHAYAHAY”

  • 《 Spazzedout 》
    《 Spazzedout 》 9 hours ago

    Men and women are different mentally and physically so we can't all fully understand each other, we aren't equal, but ranking is different and that's what people should look at instead of having a mentality that gender should be equal in whole.

  • Renae
    Renae 15 hours ago

    I'm a woman and I prefer offering people before me. Often men will politely decline so to prevent this I do the hand motion indicating "you first" and then I say "ladies first".
    The confusion is enjoyable.
    I do the same with other women 😉

  • Lucy Dinn
    Lucy Dinn 18 hours ago

    The whole female not opening door-thing is a double standard and does not align with their view of feminism! Outrageous

  • jeremebonesaw
    jeremebonesaw 20 hours ago

    I'm surprised they didn't ask, "can I have the women to this side and men to this side?". Assuming gender much? Jk.

  • Wicked Jester
    Wicked Jester Day ago

    Beta liberal men agree with liberal women.

  • Juju Barnes
    Juju Barnes Day ago

    Who else got irritated at how Brett talked ? 😬😬😬

  • Mike Babbs
    Mike Babbs Day ago

    I'm usually a big fan of this show but this episode was disappointing. They pretty much gathered more progressive minded men and threw them with a bunch of progressively minded females. I'm a fan of equality, but there were issues that could've been touched on that weren't.
    Secondly, when the one woman was commenting on the guys view to respect women via the holding open doors topic- she said that it seems great that "women are higher up" but it's not and then went to comment on how it's actually women are lower and incapable etc etc. So it seems great that a womans higher than you are but it's wrong when shes percieved as lower? How could no one call her out on this! Like if were striving to be equal how can it be ok if a woman is higher than a man? We should be at the same level. And since everyone is so progressive no one caught her on that.
    Finally, the woman who works at the hardware store said that she feels passed over because shes a woman when people ask/ go for help. And that's wrong. What bothers me though is that they usually have people separated by departments and she never mentioned whether or not she was even a part of the department and she never affirmed she had the knowledge to help! I'm sure there are idiots out there that think women cant be technical, but if I'm going to a hardware store I'm not gonna ask someone in the paint or wood paneling section where a 1/2 screw is or if they can help me locate the proper bolt that I thought was something in SE but it's actually in Metric- I wont waste anyone's time to help me if they arent in that department! But she never mentioned that. Disappointed they're could of been a really good conversation on this episode

  • Thomas Sehloho
    Thomas Sehloho 2 days ago

    there was no man here, all woman

  • Katzekatzekatze
    Katzekatzekatze 2 days ago

    4:54 what the heck do you think it means for girls when the word girl is used as an insult?

  • shivam sh
    shivam sh 2 days ago

    @10:12 she- i talk a lot of sense
    everybody- laughs

  • Karly Yvette
    Karly Yvette 2 days ago +2

    Brett is giving me SO many Angela Davis vibes. If you know, ya know.

  • Kenia de Oliveira
    Kenia de Oliveira 2 days ago

    "Being emotional" shouldn't be a synonym only for "crying when frustrated/sad". I hate it when men say that women get too emotional just because we express our anger through tears. Men express anger through physical violence/acts (breaking things, getting in fights, yelling, etc.,). Both crying and getting violent should be considered "being emotional". But still, that concept is only applied to people that cry, and they get labelled as weak just because "they can't control their emotions" as if beating someone up or yelling uncontrollably weren't signs of someone not being able to
    control their emotions.
    To this day in society,
    -If a woman cries or gets frustrated: *"She's being emotional and acting crazy"*
    -If a man gets violent: *"Oh, it's just his nature".* 😒

  • Trinity Delima
    Trinity Delima 3 days ago

    On the safety thing with the other gender, it just depends- there are evil ppl in every gender, race, and religion

  • honeymoon avenue
    honeymoon avenue 3 days ago

    the gay black dude tho !!! i love him

  • Nicolás Salazar
    Nicolás Salazar 3 days ago

    Why is ratatouille's linguini there in the blue shirt ??

  • _geri_kelly
    _geri_kelly 3 days ago


  • Ian Nickle
    Ian Nickle 3 days ago

    Literally nobody says don't show your emotions

  • Sophie Lehn
    Sophie Lehn 3 days ago

    Men should open the door for women and men
    Women should open the door for men and women
    Just open the door!

  • Retarded N.
    Retarded N. 3 days ago

    I held a door open for this older man and he ending up pushing the door against me to make me let go off the door. I know he saw me cs it was a see through door and he definitely see me being nice but take it as mocking situation while im not, i just want to help. That’s really rude thing to do but i dont really mad about it cs it can be any other meaning than that.

  • emma
    emma 3 days ago +1

    Why do women want equal opportunities but not equal responsibilities.

  • Kyle Dunne
    Kyle Dunne 3 days ago

    I hold door for everyone, to be polite not to be your servant.

  • Martin Septim
    Martin Septim 4 days ago

    one girl got mad at me for opening the door for her :(

  • عفيف موقع الاحمد

    I think the best thing to do is just

    go to the gym and get ripped, and then slay your enemies.

  • country hix
    country hix 4 days ago +1

    Please ask the questions on mic? I dont really watch but I do try to listen.

    HIROSET 4 days ago

    They keep strongly emphasizing their race as if the races aren't equal. How about people just referencing themselves as people instead of 'black males'

  • Avery Pagel
    Avery Pagel 4 days ago

    Men are made to protect women and I’m fine with that.

  • yoli herre
    yoli herre 4 days ago +2

    1% of the comments: about the actual video
    99% of the comments: THE MOTHERF*CKIND DOOR QUESTION
    (for those who asking, I'm a girl and I open doors, thank u)

  • CarsonH72
    CarsonH72 4 days ago

    Love how everyone is making generalizations about genders in this video and the comments. I hope my generation will primarily focus on the individual rather than the stereotype - dang, heuristics suck

  • Jazzy Piper
    Jazzy Piper 4 days ago

    I think they needed a more diverse job range in this one- they were all based around media

  • Eioku Hayayku
    Eioku Hayayku 5 days ago +7

    I hild the door for a guy, because chances are they do it all the time and never get the favor returned. Also I beat them to the door.
    *"I am speed."*

  • WillDaBeast
    WillDaBeast 5 days ago +1

    lets not make these things gender things it divides us

  • Bendak
    Bendak 5 days ago

    They're all privileged.

  • Mallory Bayles
    Mallory Bayles 5 days ago +1

    Like you have arms
    *open the damn door yourself...*

  • Arie Love
    Arie Love 5 days ago

    Women are not "more" emotional.

  • Toxic Tyler
    Toxic Tyler 5 days ago

    Generally speaking since I'm genderfluid. Male or female I will hold a door open for myself and others because its a damn door. It's not conditioned for a man to hold a door for a women.

  • Alfred M
    Alfred M 5 days ago

    I don’t like the girl with the afro.

  • Keylee
    Keylee 5 days ago

    I disagree with the women needing doors opened by men. If you get to the door first, you open it.

  • Marcus Webster
    Marcus Webster 5 days ago +1

    How about a middle ground between actual rape victims and those falsely accused of rape?

  • PisaCake9
    PisaCake9 5 days ago

    It's just a damn door, open it yourself.

  • Final Fighter X
    Final Fighter X 5 days ago

    Afro girl has some ugly a$$ teeth..

  • belovedlioness151992

    I'm sorry y'all but I want a mans man. Yes it doesn't have to be 1940s man because there are exceptions but men are men and thats okay.

    • A C I D I C
      A C I D I C 5 days ago

      Just as long as you don't think everyone should conform to your standards, that's perfectly fine!

  • Kasha Bogdal
    Kasha Bogdal 6 days ago +1

    i think it’s funny that men are comfortable with admitting they feel safe when women are around, there is nothing wrong with feeling protected by a man, it doesn’t make you inferior if you feel safe

  • wren ingber
    wren ingber 6 days ago

    treating people equally does not mean treating people identically. It means giving everyone an equal opportunity and space within their unique position. It's about fulfilling everyone's specific needs. Some people need more, some people need less. It's not about prioritizing one expression over another.

  • N F
    N F 6 days ago

    Hidden PUA? which is the best pua?

  • Boom Cube
    Boom Cube 6 days ago

    People who don’t think men and women are inherently different are absolutely delusional.

  • Muneerah ٰ
    Muneerah ٰ 6 days ago

    I wish we can have this conversation in the east.

  • Briaa Mariee
    Briaa Mariee 6 days ago

    If I get to the door first I will open the door.
    If he gets to the door first he will open the door.
    I refuse to stand there and be like open something for me even though I got there first and my hands aren't broken and I am fully capable of opening said door but you're a man so it's your job.

  • kristal fisher
    kristal fisher 6 days ago +4

    Y'all just had to point out the afro girl now I'm getting annoyed by her 12:40 "It's all the same."

  • Liam
    Liam 6 days ago

    Men and women are different both physically and emotionally and that’s due to hormones.

  • Dark Matter
    Dark Matter 6 days ago

    I honestly clicked on this thumbnail just to admire the afro of the person in grey, just to see how my own hair texture would look than the medium size version I have presently ...

  • Ivana Wortmann
    Ivana Wortmann 6 days ago +1

    About holding the doors thing... I think that it isn't about respecting women or that it has some deeper meaning like everyone is trying to bring to it. It just a nice thing to do for your date/girlfriend/fiance/wife. I feel like people are making up a whole story about it just to have a reason to agree or not agree with it.

  • Alekha
    Alekha 6 days ago

    I don't like Brett

  • Speed
    Speed 6 days ago

    I hate how nobody actually answers the questions ! They just go off what happened to them or how they were brought up

  • Kayla Strader
    Kayla Strader 6 days ago

    Everyone is so civil and respectful 🙌🏻

  • Charleone
    Charleone 6 days ago

    women want to be strong and what not until its time for who dies first.

  • FLAlVlE
    FLAlVlE 6 days ago +2

    Seriously I wonder if people tend to think objectively sometimes.
    Yeah okay how about a fair comparison, take that female UFC fighter who is at the top of her sport and compare her to a Male UFC fighter who is at the top of their sport. She would get destroyed. There is no question.
    Don't take an outlier on one end and compare it to an outlier on the other end

    • Jamal Freeman
      Jamal Freeman 6 days ago

      Even the average man can take a trained female if they are not holding back.

  • the forsaken brotherhood mc

    rip me and all other head phone users the lady with the afro killed my ears

  • Sphere
    Sphere 6 days ago

    Pro hoe vs anti thotiana

  • Ninth Tome
    Ninth Tome 7 days ago

    I'm curious to what she thinks it means when a guy opens a door for another guy? At any rate, we should never be quick to assume people's motives.

  • Bridget Montes
    Bridget Montes 7 days ago

    I love the people in this video; they were so respectful and brought such great discussion/points.

    • Liam
      Liam 5 days ago

      Bridget Montes they have wel over 45 minutes, they Cut these vids bigtime

    • Bridget Montes
      Bridget Montes 5 days ago

      @Liam well they only have a certain amount of time

    • Liam
      Liam 6 days ago

      Bridget Montes they could have went a lot deeper, felt like a shallow convo imo

  • Ciser
    Ciser 7 days ago

    the so called "assertive/fiery" one sounds the most nervous and jittery haha

    • Ciser
      Ciser 6 days ago

      @Inconspicuous Pseudonym im on a bulk now but i was 165 there, 5'11

    • Inconspicuous Pseudonym
      Inconspicuous Pseudonym 6 days ago

      U look shredded bruh good job. I'm in shred mode myself. What is your height/weight?

  • Saussinati Beats
    Saussinati Beats 7 days ago


  • just me
    just me 7 days ago

    I feel that the men in the video weren't being completely honest because of the fear of scrutiny. No one called out Koree for her backwards thinking on the door situation and the black guy saying he's worried about a female attacking him was asanine. And the "understood by the other gender" was ridiculous as well, for him to be raised by mostly women and fearing to show emotions showed that women taught that behaviour to him meaning that women dont understand men.

  • JrLovePLL12
    JrLovePLL12 7 days ago +3

    Farhoud seems like he can't stand whenever the black woman with curly hair talks

  • AlexxRocket
    AlexxRocket 7 days ago +1

    As a woman, I have no expectations that a man should open a door. I think a person should hold a door if there's someone following them. That's all that matters. I've held the door open for my husband, I've held the door open for other men, women, etc etc. My husband holds the door for me too.
    I've actually had a man yell at me for trying to hold the door for him. He refused to walk in and insisted. I tried laughing it off like it's okay dude I don't care. He aggressively barked "No. You go first." How is that idea that women shouldn't hold a door rooted in kindness? How is the idea that I should be yelled at for being blindly considerate okay? It seemed like he felt attacked by my gesture, imo.
    Just be kind, is my ideal. Hold the door open for anyone because it's good to do. If someone holds it for you, thank them then move on.

  • JustSomeEngineer Dude

    the female UFC fighter thing made me cringe, the proper responds to that is what about male UFC figthers the top male UFC fighter will be a god compared to any female. On average man are stronger and it shows in the extreme of strength in both fighting lifting and nearly every sport out there

  • ekdwyer
    ekdwyer 7 days ago +1

    D O O R

  • down boy
    down boy 8 days ago

    His chin and nose doe

  • NYC1E1
    NYC1E1 8 days ago +10

    I literally didn't learn anything from this.

    • Liam
      Liam 6 days ago +1

      NYC1E1 they had very shallow insight and not a lot of scientific points so I agree

  • Th3lite
    Th3lite 8 days ago +2

    Men are not the enemy, wrong thinking is. Stop it.

  • gothgf
    gothgf 8 days ago

    Men aren't less emotional, they just tend to react in anger rather than with tears. Anger is still an emotion.

  • bob star
    bob star 8 days ago

    Feminist alert.

  • Ayy L'mayo
    Ayy L'mayo 8 days ago +2

    Cough *divorce rights* cough

  • red ninjas
    red ninjas 9 days ago

    Men are naturally stronger than women...

  • lucien luciano
    lucien luciano 9 days ago

    Opening a door is just a nice thing to so, for a male or female, doesnt matter

  • Erin Matthews
    Erin Matthews 9 days ago +2

    I’ve see women WAIT for a random man to walk up and open the door for them🙄‼️‼️It’s ridiculous

  • rab
    rab 9 days ago +5

    Men are the first ones to go to war and the last ones to leave a sinking boat.

    • Anja
      Anja 4 days ago

      That isnt true anyone...

  • King Jinzo
    King Jinzo 9 days ago +2

    They had to find the gay black guy....

  • Bryson Holloway
    Bryson Holloway 9 days ago

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  • Kyle Wathen
    Kyle Wathen 9 days ago +1

    My question where are the blue collar workers actually never show any of them

  • Sara
    Sara 9 days ago +1

    I'm a woman and I keep the door open for whoever is behind me, I really don't care if it's a man, child, girl I don't care I just do it

  • Iselas181
    Iselas181 9 days ago +1

    The bias in this is painful, this channel needs to get some different points of view on because this is crazy.

    • Liam
      Liam 6 days ago

      Iselas181 I think they’re LA based, that’s why

  • McBOSS T. Duck
    McBOSS T. Duck 9 days ago +1

    I’m not sexist but I disagree with these opening door comments. If your opening a door and someone (man or woman) is walking towards the door, hold it open. Not cause your unable. I’m just being kind. Not because I’m a gentleman, I’d do it for men too.

  • saganist
    saganist 9 days ago

    I'm a man. I strive to be as masculine as possible. I don't really have anything against feminine men but I don't personally have a feminine side (what does that even mean?).

  • Fatima sanni
    Fatima sanni 9 days ago

    You think being a woman in America is hard? Try being one in a third world are basically an inconvenient second thought whose existence is just to please our masculine counterpart...I kid you not...

  • Justin Fay
    Justin Fay 9 days ago

    Brett needs to learn to talk without showing all 32 of her teeth the whole time...

  • Justin Fay
    Justin Fay 9 days ago

    Gabi has tig bitties

  • Jace V
    Jace V 10 days ago

    That’s a strange looking kitchen

  • Brewster
    Brewster 10 days ago

    Donald trump :’ you’ll get paid the same if you do as good a job’ respecttttt🇬🇧🇬🇧

  • Brewster
    Brewster 10 days ago

    Can this guy stop nodding

  • Brewster
    Brewster 10 days ago

    Third wave feminists🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡

  • Chloe Cotton
    Chloe Cotton 10 days ago +1

    I think men should hold doors just out of respect and same with women

  • Olga L
    Olga L 10 days ago

    That woman in the gray and red lipstick is "special" to say the least.

  • mia verboom
    mia verboom 10 days ago

    opening a door should be necessary it’s who get their first (unless the guy wasn’t to be RoMaNtIc)

  • Julia Francis
    Julia Francis 10 days ago

    If a man opens a door for me I walk through it but if I got to the door first I’m opening the door for him because that makes sense to me because people should hold doors open for other people it has nothing to do with gender

  • Miranda Thomas
    Miranda Thomas 10 days ago

    Do you feel your gender has disadvantages?
    Females: Current life situations and going into detail
    Males: when I was 6
    Males: we have a lack of opportunities.

  • Esther
    Esther 10 days ago +5

    I never knew this thing about doors. I've always just been brought up - if you're the first to a door you hold it. It's not a make thing. If men do that it's nice but it's not because they're a man.

  • DanTheDanator 27
    DanTheDanator 27 11 days ago

    I like how everyone in the comments acts like yhey have the most wisdom and are the moral source for answers.

  • WxSxBi KxD
    WxSxBi KxD 11 days ago

    The intro made me flinch rq.
    Wow such a way to start it