I Dated a Pathological Liar.

  • Published on Jul 4, 2018
  • UPDATE! He sent me a package and a letter the day after... usclip.net/video/5m296w04it4/video.html
    Literally up to the moment I'm typing this, I'm wondering if i shouldn't post it. It's very personal, it's very embarrassing, and it's very scary. However, I'm hoping that maybe this might serve as a wake up call to someone who might be caught in a situation like this. This guy was never violent, rarely raised his voice. Coming from an abusive past, it was hard for me to recognize what he was doing as abuse because it was all mental. Just because someone presents themselves to the world as a sweet guy, doesn't mean they're not emotionally abusive.
    If you're in a relationship where you're constantly having to wonder what's true or not, you need to not be in that relationship. If it's because of something they're saying or doing, that person is not ready to be in a relationship. If it's your own insecurity and trust issues, you are not ready to be in a relationship. Distance yourself.
    Stay healthy, stay safe, stay happy.
    TOO LONG TO INCLUDE IN THE VIDEO but like... honestly bonkers and I wanna talk about it. Remember the medium from my "MY SCARIEST GHOST EXPERIENCE" video?
    When I first started dating this guy, FIRST started, didn't tell ANYone about him yet because it was so new, that same medium reached out to me. She told me:
    "Hi Gabbie, Are you dating or considering dating someone? If so, please make your Grandma happy & have him checked out so that you know for sure who he is, what his intentions are, etc. as she wants to make sure no one tries to get close to you due to you being a celebrity & that the person is interested in you as the person not the celebrity. Love you ❤"
    She then followed up with:
    "I heard your Grandma telling me what I wrote to you. She just wanted you to be cautious about any new relationships because she doesn't want anyone to take advantage of you. She is proud of you & is happy that you are living your dream & wants to make sure that you only let those who are truly interested in you as a person & not you the celebrity. I Love You ❤"
    Because this guy had no social media presence, it didn't really strike me as anything important. However, I realized what the message meant (again, in hindsight). This kid was always obsessed with the "vine world" and would brag about dating me, post pictures of me publicly, really pressure me to come out around his friends when I wasn't comfortable, pressured me into meeting his family way before I felt ready. There's too much to explain in a comment, but it just became so apparent that this guy never actually was interested in me, he was interested it dating "The Gabbie Show"... if that makes sense.
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  • Cassandra Babcock
    Cassandra Babcock 6 hours ago

    15:30 is she talking about my ex too? 🤔😂😂

  • cece ibarra
    cece ibarra 8 hours ago

    Has anyone noticed this was filmed the day she tried the long lasting lipstick

  • Mankey Mankey
    Mankey Mankey 9 hours ago +1

    Omg this is Laurdiys current boyfriend I knew didn’t like him
    Sep 2019?

  • Janiris Troche
    Janiris Troche 11 hours ago

    This is how many times Gabbie touched her hair

  • Dagny Coffman
    Dagny Coffman 12 hours ago +1

    I’m realizing while listing to this and then to her album 2waymirror he inspired the album

  • Katie Maxwell
    Katie Maxwell 13 hours ago

    I needed to hear this story, I am going through the exact same problem & you’ve helped me pick apart my brain a little bit. You rock Gabby, keep going! 🦋

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  • Angie.e.e
    Angie.e.e Day ago +1

    Just came back from a year or two break from gabbie

  • EmeraldAxe86
    EmeraldAxe86 Day ago

    I love how she cut out the cursing
    But in her new videos....

    Woof 😂

  • George Lee
    George Lee 2 days ago

    Warning: may cause 🥴💫 2prone

  • Nour Trawri
    Nour Trawri 2 days ago

    im so sorry this happened to u. but im glad u got to take something from it to protect you from people like him if you come across some again.

  • Taylor Craig
    Taylor Craig 2 days ago

    I am so sorry 😭😠 I love you deserve better than that

  • Nic Wain
    Nic Wain 2 days ago

    22:45 I feel this in my B O N E S

  • Ana Babič
    Ana Babič 3 days ago +2

    Okkk... I watched wearig my grandma's chlotes for a week video before watching that one.. ANDD look at what she's wearing in the thumbnail.. hmm??.. Same outfit from the video??

  • Owen 99
    Owen 99 4 days ago +1

    I want to give Gabbie a hug and just... Never let go until shes happy🥺😭

  • Angelo
    Angelo 5 days ago

    Wait how the fuck did this happen over a year ago

  • Molly Bullock
    Molly Bullock 5 days ago

    Without this man we wouldn’t have any of her bops and I’m so grateful. And I’m soooo glad she was strong enough to overcome and go through what she went through, YES GIRL SING YOUR HEART OUT

  • Rahm Adn
    Rahm Adn 5 days ago


  • Airika Jordan
    Airika Jordan 5 days ago +1

    This video gave me thr strength to leave my mentally and physically abusive boyfriend. Thank you so much! I honestly believe you saved my life

  • Victoria Lara
    Victoria Lara 6 days ago

    It's not legal in Texas:"(

  • Erick Roel
    Erick Roel 6 days ago

    I honestly wish I was older so I could treat her right , she deserves more

  • Richelle Abreu
    Richelle Abreu 7 days ago +1

    Gabbie baby I can relate and I wish I can talk to you Bc I have so much to share I really need a friend right now and writing this right now is making me cry and seeing you upset makes me upset. And you said some point in the video you said you felt like you couldn’t do anything right and felt like a mistake I feel that so much 🥺

  • it is wednesday my dudes

    5:42 Storytime starts here, thank me later

  • Ashley Jareth
    Ashley Jareth 7 days ago

    Now Im realizing... Broken girls is based of the pathological liar

  • amy wickliffe
    amy wickliffe 7 days ago

    Oh, Gabbie. I don’t know how I found you, but I’m glad I did. Three things: First, You are my absolute new favorite straight USclipr. Second, I am a licensed therapist and I will ALWAYS be willing to talk or listen if you need or want to. Reach out. Third, you are such a BADASS!!! Like, seriously!! Your vulnerability was not a weakness; predators have a way to find us and pull out the shit we have stuffed down. I hope you’re doing better and I would LOVE to hide boiled eggs in various places in his vehicle and home so they rot before he ever finds them. Lol
    Anywho...I don’t know you. You don’t know me. But I’m here if you ever need an ear from an unbiased human with an, unfortunate, total understanding of the black dog that sometimes follows you around! (Churchill reference). #Nerd

  • Autumn Rose
    Autumn Rose 8 days ago

    Ive felt a lot of what u said. About being an abomination. And im sorry u were used and manipulated. I still feel those dark feeling and thoughts still and no one to really talk too. I just hope youre better now. I know this video is old. But i love u gabbie

  • eza serrano
    eza serrano 8 days ago

    4:50 makes me so sad. This was me for 5 months and I’m so glad that you made this storytime

  • Lolli Pop
    Lolli Pop 8 days ago +1


  • five six
    five six 8 days ago

    Many males do such things... to play with you and harm you. And 'players' do this, too.

    • Molo Molo
      Molo Molo 7 days ago

      Don't make this a "Male thing" 💀👌

  • Jennifer Duran
    Jennifer Duran 9 days ago

    Gabbie I know I'm super late on this video but I wanna say I love you. I went thru something like this. We weren't dating but at some point we did. But he would tell me to tell him about my feelings on how I feel. And why I did the things i did. And I noticed when we argue he would use it against me. And he would ghost me and never text. Then we find each other again and same thing being nice telling me what I wanted to hear. And the an argument would pop up and again blocked me. I remember him saying he felt attracted to me because I look like I needed the help. He wanted to "heal" me. He would say he loved broken girls. And this didnt help at all. I also have mental health issues. With bipolar depression, anxiety compulsive behavior. An it just brought my self esteem so much lower. I didnt think about it much before but looking back. I should've noticed those red flags.
    I'm in a better place going to therapy after my last breakdown I knew I had to change. Especially for my daughter.
    I hope you read this ❤❤

  • gacha girl
    gacha girl 9 days ago

    That is a bad boyfriend!!!

  • Jeanette Pelletier
    Jeanette Pelletier 9 days ago +1

    Thanks for sharing your experience with these types of people.😘😘

  • Alyssa Archambault
    Alyssa Archambault 9 days ago

    does she ever actually show his face? just curious

  • mcchijimin
    mcchijimin 10 days ago

    I honestly don't really understand how someone could dislike this video- Gabbie, thank you for being true, honest, and vulnerable in front of your viewers. I can't say I'm a long-time watcher or subscriber, and that this video did catch my eye, and I have to say that I'm glad that I watched it. You've set an example for people, young and old, that they shouldn't take that kind of crap for anyone and always respect themselves above anyone else, especially in a relationship. No one should dare have to degrade themselves to such a level to make another human being feel better. You are beautiful, kind, and such a strong woman to have gone through that and be able to be honest about your experience publicly.
    I'm so proud of you, girl, and I cannot express how much I relate to this due to my past relationship that was incredibly toxic and abusive (very similar to your story here): He was manipulative, revolting, and a compulsive liar as well, and I am glad that I'm finally away from him.

    Thank you for sharing this story, I have so much respect for you.
    Love you lots, Gabbie.

  • Brooklynn Lackey
    Brooklynn Lackey 10 days ago

    Yay! 33:00 of Gabbie!! 😋😋 I’m gonna eat pizza and drink root beer.
    Wanna join me? 😂❤️

  • Frankie Proctor
    Frankie Proctor 10 days ago

    I lost it when she punched the teddy bear :') Mood.

  • Brandon Allen
    Brandon Allen 10 days ago


  • Jason Decle
    Jason Decle 10 days ago

    Is this were the song " honestly " came from ???????

  • Kyndall Iley
    Kyndall Iley 11 days ago

    Lowkey finding some lyrics from honestly in here and I love it

  • Deyjah Menendez
    Deyjah Menendez 11 days ago +1


  • Luke Christy
    Luke Christy 11 days ago

    Still so sorry that this happened to you Gabbie❤️.
    I love the part when you say that he said that you are way out of his league and you stop and say “I am”

  • Hanna Costley
    Hanna Costley 11 days ago

    I REEAAALLLYY need your help, at 20:30 you said something like "we are toxic" so if im in a relationship and i know im a portion of the problems we have and im partially the reason why things got bad in the first place i still shouldnt be afraid to leave. We have been together almost 2 years this month so it would be giving away something big to me since my lomgest relationship before him was only 6 months. I feel like im obligated to stay and im not allowed to leave because im the one who brought in this toxicity but since ive figured out im the issue ive done nothing but try and fix it and make everything better like it used to be and now hed completely adapted to this way of life. Hed rather tell me to shut up than talk about it. Hed rather leave a conversation unsolved than try and figure it out. I know i was the bad guy but obviously people change like i had and now its too late. I love and care for my boyfriend immensely but about halfway through i developed major anxiety and depression and ive never been so unhappy in my life. I have been watching you for a few years and you and your music and watching you succeed in life makes my day. You are an excellent role model to me, i love you tons! But im at a complete loss. When i try going to my minimal amount of friends with it for answers some say guys will be guys and i need to change and others say i need to leave when he least expects it. If i leave it wint just be his loss i would be losing whats most important to me to. I give myself panic attacks thinking about what to do. Im crying just typing this out. If you could gove me your best advice, or even anyone at that, id be so greatful. I have done so much for him as far as dropping out of highschool and running away from home. I cut off my only and closest friend because he couldnt trust her. I went through every last social media platform and blocked every last one of my guy friends because of his insecuritie and so much more. I don't have a job, because he doesn't like the fact guys flirt with me. So i sit in a 19ft camper every single day all alone with HIS PET DOG (im a cat person) that he doesnt care for. Idk things have completley down spiralled in our relationship. Its made my life harder and i continually think about an easier way out or just hurting myself because i dont know what to do. Lord help me

  • Joell im Wunderland
    Joell im Wunderland 11 days ago

    Back in 2018 I've watched this video, not recognizing that I was in a similar situation like hers for 5 years. This year I finally cut this b*stard and this whole relationship out of my life and guess what? I'm fine now. Took me nearly 9 months to get to the point where I can say something like this about my mental health. I'm not even close to say that I'm happy, but I can say that it's getting better with every minute without him.

    You are going to be fine. You are stronger than you think, you are stronger than every pathological liar out there. F*ck those people who play with your feelings like you're a toy. You don't need them and they don't deserve your attention or anything that comes with attention.

    Here are some wise words from a good old friend of mine.
    ''Never be cruel, never be cowardly. And never ever eat pears! Remember - hate is always foolish and love, is always wise. Always try, to be nice and never fail to be kind. Laugh hard. Run fast. Be kind.''

  • Bangtan TXT
    Bangtan TXT 11 days ago

    I've always heard negative stuff about Gabbie which turned me off but then I listened to a song of hers until I listen to all of them and now I'm a big fan of her singing career. Now, I'm here in this vid after learning Honestly (encore) was about this vid. And imma say, girl, you awesome. So far from what others say you are. More power to ya..

  • Natalie Wells
    Natalie Wells 12 days ago

    Is this at the same time as the hurtful lipstick video?

  • Midgeridoo
    Midgeridoo 12 days ago

    Girl I just vacuumed my hole house and you still talking abt this guy. Glad you learned a lot tho

  • DuoLingo’s Sister
    DuoLingo’s Sister 13 days ago +1

    For some reason my brain thought Gabbie said, “He kept playing Minecraft with me” instead of “mind games with me” lmao

  • Alison Sanchez
    Alison Sanchez 13 days ago +4

    "He felt like i was out of his league"
    "I am"

  • Skye Frost
    Skye Frost 14 days ago

    For me, it’s been lies of omission.
    Mostly, anyway.
    Never bothered to tell me about the most recent girl at all. I had to find out on my own, and boy is it a fucking d o o z y.
    I’m so tired.
    I could go on but I don’t wanna write an essay in the comments of her video lmao
    Strike 1: late 2016 I think, into mid 2017
    Strike 2: late 2018 into 2019
    Strike 3 (and like 3.5 depending on how you’d see it) mid 2019

    And all these strikes are people, by the way.
    I’m dating a fuckboy hoe lmao kill me please
    Edit: I forgot to mention we’ve been together for nearly 5 years. Bitch. B I T C H.

  • Cayenne C
    Cayenne C 14 days ago

    i love u boo u do u

  • Rainee Marie
    Rainee Marie 14 days ago

    I put off watching this video because I had just gotten out of a mentally abusive relationship and I thought it was gonna be too hard but watching now this is exactly what I needed to see back then. Love you sm 💖

  • maddie a
    maddie a 14 days ago

    i just broke up with a guy like this. it was super hard because i genuinely have feelings for him but i just couldnt do it anymore. i would often just beg him for the truth and he would still lie about it, telling me hes done lying to me, as he lied to me. it was too much. but im healing and im learning my worth. its good to know im not alone. ❤️

  • Clarke Sylvester
    Clarke Sylvester 15 days ago +6

    Not even a full 12 minutes in and I already feel hatred boiling in my gut for this man

  • Paris Lynn
    Paris Lynn 15 days ago

    She’s so ugly. I can’t even watch. Turn it off

  • Mikayla Martin
    Mikayla Martin 15 days ago

    I open up to my boyfriend with my dark thoughts of myself and he is supportive but then will use it against me to hurt me... I wish I could be as strong as you..love you gabbie!

    • Who- riya
      Who- riya 14 days ago +1

      sis that sounds unhealthy

  • Melody LeBeau
    Melody LeBeau 15 days ago

    Plot twist, Irene is pistachio

  • Advice from a Hypocrite

    I hope he gets what’s coming to him. Whatever that is

  • Kirby_Playz224
    Kirby_Playz224 16 days ago

    I can relate to Gabbie so much

  • Kay marie
    Kay marie 16 days ago

    The way you felt is how i always have felt, made me so upset. what he told his friends you went threw

  • Ariana Prado
    Ariana Prado 17 days ago

    Gabbie, I seriously can't thank you enough for sharing this. I know it's not easy, but I just wanted you to know it definitely helped me. I feel like I went through almost the exact same thing with my ex. I kept yelling "holy sh** that's R****" lol Anyway. Thanks :)