I Dated a Pathological Liar.

  • Published on Jul 4, 2018
  • UPDATE! He sent me a package and a letter the day after... usclip.net/video/5m296w04it4/video.html
    Literally up to the moment I'm typing this, I'm wondering if i shouldn't post it. It's very personal, it's very embarrassing, and it's very scary. However, I'm hoping that maybe this might serve as a wake up call to someone who might be caught in a situation like this. This guy was never violent, rarely raised his voice. Coming from an abusive past, it was hard for me to recognize what he was doing as abuse because it was all mental. Just because someone presents themselves to the world as a sweet guy, doesn't mean they're not emotionally abusive.
    If you're in a relationship where you're constantly having to wonder what's true or not, you need to not be in that relationship. If it's because of something they're saying or doing, that person is not ready to be in a relationship. If it's your own insecurity and trust issues, you are not ready to be in a relationship. Distance yourself.
    Stay healthy, stay safe, stay happy.
    TOO LONG TO INCLUDE IN THE VIDEO but like... honestly bonkers and I wanna talk about it. Remember the medium from my "MY SCARIEST GHOST EXPERIENCE" video?
    When I first started dating this guy, FIRST started, didn't tell ANYone about him yet because it was so new, that same medium reached out to me. She told me:
    "Hi Gabbie, Are you dating or considering dating someone? If so, please make your Grandma happy & have him checked out so that you know for sure who he is, what his intentions are, etc. as she wants to make sure no one tries to get close to you due to you being a celebrity & that the person is interested in you as the person not the celebrity. Love you ❤"
    She then followed up with:
    "I heard your Grandma telling me what I wrote to you. She just wanted you to be cautious about any new relationships because she doesn't want anyone to take advantage of you. She is proud of you & is happy that you are living your dream & wants to make sure that you only let those who are truly interested in you as a person & not you the celebrity. I Love You ❤"
    Because this guy had no social media presence, it didn't really strike me as anything important. However, I realized what the message meant (again, in hindsight). This kid was always obsessed with the "vine world" and would brag about dating me, post pictures of me publicly, really pressure me to come out around his friends when I wasn't comfortable, pressured me into meeting his family way before I felt ready. There's too much to explain in a comment, but it just became so apparent that this guy never actually was interested in me, he was interested it dating "The Gabbie Show"... if that makes sense.
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  • Martyna Rose
    Martyna Rose 2 hours ago

    If I were him I would treat you right. He missed his chance. You're beautiful Gabbie :)❤️

  • Danna Lopez
    Danna Lopez 4 hours ago

    Whyyyy does this sound like my ex ???? You go girl

  • Maggie Beaumont
    Maggie Beaumont 5 hours ago

    so THIS is what broken girls is about

  • Kay_Wolf
    Kay_Wolf 11 hours ago

    Ok kids what's the lesson here?


  • Belle
    Belle 16 hours ago

    My philosophy in life is if you have any doubt I'm talking any doubt whatsoever there is your answer. As u need to run.

  • Belle
    Belle 16 hours ago

    And another thing typically guys like that will seem sympathetic and act like they can relate to you and they will feed you a bunch of so-called personal information about them to get you to feel sorry for them or to act like or seem like they are relatable just an observation from my experience I hope that's not the case but that seems like that's what it is in this case without knowing all the details.

  • Belle
    Belle 16 hours ago

    BTW if he's lying to all his friends that you two are not together. solely means that he was involved with someone else. just never let you know about it, which I hope and pray that's not the case, but in my experience typically when a guy lies about being with a girl that means especially if he has all female friends. He's hooking up with one of them IE "pistachio".

  • Belle
    Belle 16 hours ago

    Gabbie, been there done that.... meaning I've dated a few guys just like that. I'm 45 and been married twice. I'm sorry u had to go through that, but what doesn't kill us only makes us stronger. Oh the stories I can tell you. Just know that u are not alone in this. I am sorry for that person, because he will never know true love. Trust is the foundation to all strong relationships. If you ever need a friend who's been there. I'm not crazy... just human! So r you. Much love from ur soul sister!

  • thequeen
    thequeen 20 hours ago

    Is this who honestly about?????

  • Jeon Knight
    Jeon Knight 20 hours ago

    I was with someone who constantly lied and manipulated me.
    I tried to break up with him multiple times but he always made me feel guilty for it.
    He'd always find a way to make me stay. His logic was that if he deleted the messages I send about breaking up with him then it never happened. Other times he'd lie to get me to stay. One of the worst was when he told me he got shot in Rio de Janeiro, another was him saying he'd be diagnosed with MPD/DID... only to admit later on that he'd never been diagnosed at all.
    It was really bad, but it's been over a year since we officially broke it off and I'm happily with someone else for 6 months on the 27th (:

  • Prim Sterling
    Prim Sterling 22 hours ago

    Gabbie's advice: Don't let them kill your butterflies.

  • Demon Em
    Demon Em 22 hours ago

    i know this video is pretty serious but
    9:14 just reminds me of my teacher lmao

  • Laura & Chevy
    Laura & Chevy 23 hours ago

    Thank you Gabby you have gave me a giant wake up call like omg I fell like I have been hit with a semi. Thank you so much you are so strong to go and post this video. You have just helped me so much.

    • Laura & Chevy
      Laura & Chevy 23 hours ago

      *Gabbie. Sorry for spelling your name wrong.

  • Asmr Lightning
    Asmr Lightning 23 hours ago

    This is Jenny
    Dont let her drown in the comments

  • Asmr Lightning
    Asmr Lightning 23 hours ago

    The actual storytime starts at 5:45 thank me later

  • sweetener
    sweetener 23 hours ago

    who’s that in the background 😂

    • sweetener
      sweetener Hour ago

      callum 6098 omfg your right😂 i feel dumb

    • callum 6098
      callum 6098 13 hours ago

      sweetener her reflection

  • Madelyn Seiberling

    Gabbie looks like Sugar from Glee in the thumbnail

  • Grace Nicholls
    Grace Nicholls Day ago

    Isn't the thumbnail one of the outfits from your grandma

  • Elizabeth Accurso
    Elizabeth Accurso Day ago +1

    Who else is jealous of Gabbie’s tan lines

  • Fatima R
    Fatima R Day ago +1

    Is it Jeremy Lewis...? 😂👌🏼aka Lauren’s boyfriend

  • Tihana Tepic
    Tihana Tepic Day ago

    "New situations with no expectations you still manage to let me down" am I the only one?

  • J.R Cody
    J.R Cody Day ago +1

    Honestly Gabbie write a memoir

  • cameila delgado
    cameila delgado Day ago

    in her I got into a fight with my Uber driver video she said that one of her drivers grew up MORMON in UTAH jus like ^

  • Emma Löb
    Emma Löb Day ago

    The 6.4 K dislikes are ur boyfriend, all his female friends and pistachios fake accounts

  • Bella's Corner
    Bella's Corner Day ago


  • Chantelle Manning

    You're an amazing women


    Gabbie you are so amazing and funny you will find someone that s right for you I love you . YAS GURL WE IS DOPE espselly you

  • RiverGirl
    RiverGirl Day ago


  • Carley Danielle
    Carley Danielle 2 days ago

    Is this the guy your ep is about?

  • Valeria Castaneda
    Valeria Castaneda 2 days ago

    On the thumbnail, she’s wearing one of her great grandmas blazer when she was wearing her great grandmothers clothes for a week :P

  • Ashlyn Monday
    Ashlyn Monday 2 days ago


  • Mal Beast
    Mal Beast 2 days ago

    I get that it must have been hard for you to post this on USclip and awful for you to go through that and I completely get it because one of my exes let’s call him Tree he was a compulsive lair and he was super dumb too. This was happened only recently and I’m still upset about it and I asked to see his phone (which I don’t normally do)

  • Maysie Jane
    Maysie Jane 2 days ago

    every single damn time she says honest or honestly i sing the song. like come on 20:32

  • Merp
    Merp 2 days ago

    I watched this video when she posted it and I'm watching it again after listening to her songs, and after watching this again and listening to her songs, it reminds of a friendship that I had with a guy who I ended up liking and the more I look back at it, the more I realize that he lied to me, manipulated me, broke a promise and other things like that and bc of my crush on him I was blinded. I've now cut him off. And I'm much happier without him.

  • Lauren Hahn
    Lauren Hahn 2 days ago

    the life lesson from this video is:
    if you’re gonna date gabbie...

    *dont be a stupid lying/cheating f•••*

  • Sophdoeslife
    Sophdoeslife 2 days ago

    29.00 THE SAD MUSIC AND THE HALF A TEAR 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • Sophdoeslife
    Sophdoeslife 2 days ago


  • KittenGeek Vlogs
    KittenGeek Vlogs 2 days ago

    32:06-32:08 sums up my last ex and relationship with them completely

  • death queen
    death queen 2 days ago

    Gabbie... i think ive been through this. Ik im watching this late but yeh. He's basically a narcissist...

  • Adam Ayyad
    Adam Ayyad 2 days ago

    the same thing happened to me with a ex friend that i was friends with for 3 years

  • Meagan Ryan
    Meagan Ryan 2 days ago +3

    I needed to see this video. How strange how this popped up in my recommended during this specific time of need lol

  • Lillia Savage
    Lillia Savage 2 days ago

    What happend in india?

  • Esther Christensen
    Esther Christensen 2 days ago

    I feel like she named her EP "Two Way Mirror" because those are usually used in police interrogations for criminals, but I'm prolly just reading too much into it. Maybe it's a thing about hindsight cuz in a two way mirror you can see in and the other side can't see out.

  • scheissegoistenkind
    scheissegoistenkind 3 days ago

    sounds like my first ex boxfriend hahahah. liar liars pants on fire.

  • Faith Elizabeth
    Faith Elizabeth 3 days ago


  • Sunny D
    Sunny D 3 days ago

    I needed this video a year ago. My ex asked for my phone one time and I said no, then he got mad at me and played victim. When I asked for his phone as a joke, he blew up at me, saying that he was talking to his friends in a group chat. After that, he told his friends that I was cheating on him, then told his family that I was abusive. I found out by his sister confronting me in the middle of class at school, I told her I wouldn't do those things. Once I confronted him about it, again, he played victim, and put blame to me, like our fights and calling me names. (I have screenshots) Once I ended things, he was begging for me to get back with him, and dumb me did. After another few months of his bullshit, I was done and dumped him. I had no one there to tell me that was toxic, it was unhealthy and it was affecting my mental health. Now, I have a loving fiance, but my ex is telling lies about me still. 🙃

  • Emily
    Emily 3 days ago

    The thumbnail is an outfit that you wore for wearing your grandma's clothes for a week!!

  • Lisbett Jubilee
    Lisbett Jubilee 3 days ago

    I have a theory on why he lied

      JACKIE SUMMERS 3 days ago +1

      Lisbett Jubilee Gabbie also deserves so much better then that honestly he needs to grow up before he try’s to be in any other serious relationship

    • Lisbett Jubilee
      Lisbett Jubilee 3 days ago

      Either way his not emotionally mature enough to be in a relationship

    • Lisbett Jubilee
      Lisbett Jubilee 3 days ago

      Lol well I’m speaking from personal experience I use to lie a lot when I was younger . Mainly to protect myself . But sometimes I would lie and make up stories and I didn’t know why. After years of therapy -(now I don’t lie I’m very honest ) but I think it was because I was gas lighted into thinking my crazy insane life was normal and that I had no problems . But after therapy I realized how truly messed up my life was and I think what I lied about help me kind’ve try to make what I emotionally felt my life was make sense for my life . For example my mom was abusive and I witnessed without knowing a lot of sexual abuse . I didn’t know i was too young to recognize this . But emotionally and internally I felt a abused . So I lied and told people Insane stories about me being raped and abused . But in my mind it felt so true . But I know those things didn’t happen that way they happened differently . I didn’t realize that my normal was bad enough I didn’t have to make things up. I could’ve told the truth and professionals would’ve been able to see things were very wrong but I was gas lighted into thinking that everything was normal and fine but I didn’t feel fine . So I think he is probably in a abusive codependent relationship with someone in his life and doesn’t realize it and is reenacting it through his relationship with Gabbie because in his mind he needs that to feel important.

      JACKIE SUMMERS 3 days ago

      Lisbett Jubilee ohhh I wanna know this theory

  • Purplepuppy Lover
    Purplepuppy Lover 3 days ago

    I can feel people searching the comments for the comment of the liar dude saying “I knew you would use my story for views” and I am searching for it too

  • Maya Micallef Engerer
    Maya Micallef Engerer 3 days ago +16

    I'm back here in 2019. Some call this old drama. I call it iced tea.

  • Lady _Rainbow
    Lady _Rainbow 3 days ago

    "all i ask of anyone is HONESTY" we out here, post Honestly, heard that and I was like "lol you mean the hit single?"

      JACKIE SUMMERS 3 days ago

      Lady _Rainbow and one of the best songs of all time (even tho all of her music is amazing!) yes that would be the one

  • Parker Lally
    Parker Lally 3 days ago

    I am in the literal same situation. I have watched this like 1000 times looking for a solution and I have realized I need to leave. I need to get him out. Thank you. Cheers to getting better

  • Ally G
    Ally G 3 days ago

    Story time starts @ 5:44

  • Sophia
    Sophia 3 days ago

    no lie keeping up lies is fucking stressful

  • Allison Mitchell
    Allison Mitchell 3 days ago

    Watching this after listening to 2WAYMIRROR is jarring.

  • Nicholas Light
    Nicholas Light 3 days ago

    Loveeeee this

  • Alexia neves
    Alexia neves 4 days ago

    you don't know me but I love you Gabbie thank you for sharing at some point I truly saw how you spiraled and idk I felt your vibe and I don't see people often or at all do that anymore... Thank you for sharing with me / with us xo wish I could give you a big hug right now and look at you proudly!

  • Cambryn Robidou
    Cambryn Robidou 4 days ago +18

    what if pistachio was the one who wrote “i love you in the mirror” in perfect day.

  • Sadie DeWitt
    Sadie DeWitt 4 days ago

    26:50-27:10, I guess you could say he likes...... BROKEN GIRLS

      JACKIE SUMMERS 3 days ago

      Sadie DeWitt it’s cool Lmao it was funny

    • Sadie DeWitt
      Sadie DeWitt 3 days ago

      @JACKIE SUMMERS yeah I dont think so either, was just trying to be funny I guess haha. sorry

      JACKIE SUMMERS 3 days ago +1

      Sadie DeWitt I don’t think this is the same boyfriend that she wrote her ep about because they’re still friends and from this video it doesn’t seem like she’s still friends with her pathological liar ex boyfriend anymore

  • Silverfox 207
    Silverfox 207 4 days ago

    Aaawwww gabbie 😔.

  • Sun's Perspective
    Sun's Perspective 4 days ago

    There's a lot of iconic things in this video but everyone is already talking about the more obvious ones but can I just point out in the intro the line "I don't want to fuck up this kid's life."
    I want to point out a few things.
    1. You are clearly over it and that is actually so amazing and you don't want to cause him harm.
    2. You called him kid which means your self esteem wasn't hurt at all the things he did are now beneath you and I'm kinda digging it. I know I'm overly late I've been meaning to watch this but yeah it's great.

  • Btx_ Kate
    Btx_ Kate 4 days ago

    Your new songs are about him aren’t they?

      JACKIE SUMMERS 3 days ago +1

      Btx_ Kate I think they’re about her recent ex boyfriend the one that she’s still friends with til this day and from this video wouldn’t you say it sounds like she’s not friends with her pathological liar ex boyfriend

  • Aesthetic Sofia Suárez

    Is this the person that 2waymirror inspired from?

      JACKIE SUMMERS 3 days ago

      Aesthetic Sofia Suárez shes still friends with the ex boyfriend that she wrote 2waymirror about do you really think she would still be friends with her pathological liar ex after everything he did I think it’s about a recent ex because in her video where she has the people in front of her pick what they eat for 24 hours with her ex boyfriend she said that she fell in love with him while they were making the medicate music video so it sounds like he’s a pretty recent ex boyfriend if that make sense but that’s just my opinion I don’t think 2waymirror is about her pathological ex

  • Forever Lovely
    Forever Lovely 4 days ago +3

    Gabby; punches teddy bear

    Me; animal abuse

  • Dominos pizza
    Dominos pizza 4 days ago

    At 28:29 I feel the same exatct way I thought I was the only one.

  • Nola Ferret
    Nola Ferret 4 days ago

    Is this video related to 2way mirror??

      JACKIE SUMMERS 3 days ago

      Nola Ferret I don’t think it is because she’s still friends with that ex boyfriend and from this video it sounds like her and her pathological liar ex boyfriend aren’t friends

  • Sierrah Hagemeister
    Sierrah Hagemeister 4 days ago


  • Cats ‘n Cooks
    Cats ‘n Cooks 4 days ago

    Was this the boyfriend from the scary grandma video

      JACKIE SUMMERS 3 days ago

      Cats ‘n Cooks it sure sounds like it doesn’t it?

  • lovely vibes
    lovely vibes 4 days ago

    Listening this made me sooo much frustrated on her ex!!

  • Don’t look Me up
    Don’t look Me up 4 days ago +6

    I love the sound effect when she blinked, idk why

  • Elizabeth Toner
    Elizabeth Toner 4 days ago +6

    Gabbie: pulls out adventure time notebook
    Me: Adventure time go on grab your friends go to very distant lands! Jake the dog and fin the human the fun will never end, ADVENTURE TIME!!!

  • Andrew Xavier
    Andrew Xavier 4 days ago

    Fuck I didn't expect to relate to this as much as I did even just in the first 5 minutes I was reminded so much of a bad relationship I had that stll hurts a lot

  • Lena Donovan
    Lena Donovan 5 days ago +1

    Ok, so the thumbnail the outfit Gabbie was in was from the video that she wore her Grandmas outfit and in the video of the outfits there was a a guy in the background when she wore the thumbnail outfit and I think it’s that guy. Love you Gabbie

      JACKIE SUMMERS 3 days ago

      They Vegas and Utah trip that Gabbie went on during that video was with her pathological liar ex boyfriend so yes that is her pathological liar ex boyfriend from that video where she wears her grandmas clothes for a week she went on that trip with that boyfriend

    • Lena Donovan
      Lena Donovan 5 days ago

      The elf it Gabbie was in from her grandmas video for the outfit thing and she she was going to the concert the same outfit as the as she was in the thumbnail and there was a guy behind it saying that she looked great so I think it’s that guy and see if there’s anyway yo The outfit Gabby was in from her grandma’s video for the outfit thing and she she was going to the concert the same outfit as she was in the Thümb now and there was a guy behind it saying that she looked great so I think it’s that guy

  • Kelsey Owens
    Kelsey Owens 5 days ago

    this was on the 4th of July

  • Colorjoy MSP
    Colorjoy MSP 5 days ago +43

    *"Why you lie, you killed my butterflies"*

  • Jenna Czech
    Jenna Czech 5 days ago

    My dad does the same thing where he wants everyone to believe he is a good dad to the point where he is a liar and emotionally abusive to me. After hearing your story, I can see where it all went to shit. You know, the points where you should've called it quits when you didn't, but I can only see that because of my dad, so what I'm trying to say is: you live and you learn from your toxic relationships. So in a way, they're good for you because they're learning experiences. I know this is an old video, but I'm so sorry for what happened to you. Stay strong, Gabbie ❤

  • Hattie B
    Hattie B 5 days ago

    How many mental backflips I’m actually dead 😂

  • Hattie B
    Hattie B 5 days ago

    I’m 16, 3 mins into this and I relate so much. Was with a boy for 5 months and I ignored things I shouldn’t have bcoz he was so sweet. Unfortunately I saw this too late bcoz he broke up with me saying I was ‘controlling.’ It’s weird bcoz I’m rly not that person but as u said they make you someone your not. Even so I don’t even think I ever acted like that he just wanted an excuse to break up with me bcoz he liked someone else. 2 days later he was dating someone else.

  • Alex Williams
    Alex Williams 5 days ago

    BUT I AM NOT a jealous girlfriend

  • large homo
    large homo 5 days ago +3


  • MercuryMonroe💋
    MercuryMonroe💋 5 days ago

    Why do I feel like Limabean is Liza 😂

  • Whitney Bensel
    Whitney Bensel 5 days ago

    Did you date my ex?! Same shit, different day.

  • gracious_ kookie
    gracious_ kookie 5 days ago

    This has 6.5M views..... and she has 6.5M subscribers.....

  • Jelly Fish
    Jelly Fish 5 days ago +11

    2019 anyone 😂 also i love how u call her pistachio and limabean and names like that 😂

  • aleksander
    aleksander 5 days ago

    Big yike

  • Kayse Crediford
    Kayse Crediford 6 days ago

    @ Broken Girls

  • Ana Luísa Mendes Cheio

    someone answer me is this the same ex she writes about in 2WAYMIRROR?

      JACKIE SUMMERS 3 days ago +1

      i dont think it is becuase she said that shes still friends with the ex that she wrote 2waymirror about and from this video it dosent seem like shes friends with this ex boyfriend from this video because of all the stuff that he has done, i dont think her pathological ex boyfriend and 2waymirror has anything to do with each other

  • Anna Packmohr
    Anna Packmohr 6 days ago +1

    I love how 2WAYMIRROR is out and I am watching this again because I want to write a Song and this is damn good Inspiration

  • Kasen Brown
    Kasen Brown 6 days ago

    I feel like everywhere I go I cause destruction as well. And fuck that’s the hardest thing to carry.

  • hessa vlogs
    hessa vlogs 6 days ago

    please do more of these i love these btw i love you gabby

  • adelyn leung
    adelyn leung 6 days ago

    Gabbie: *names a girl pistachio and her Friend Lima bean*

  • hannuh zzz
    hannuh zzz 6 days ago +1

    I agree that he’s a dick-

    but I love listening to you rant because you’re very charismatic 😆

  • xoxSelenaGomezFanxox

    Lima bean and Liza lol jk

  • Adrian Hero
    Adrian Hero 6 days ago +1

    I was in a relationship like this several years ago, and this video hit me super hard. Thanks for sharing, Gabbie 💟

  • Scully
    Scully 6 days ago +1

    Gabbie: Uses clown emoji in place of an ex
    Tana: Uses clown emoji in place of an ex

    Reinventing the clown emoji?

  • Natily Buck
    Natily Buck 6 days ago +1

    Gabbie, I haven’t even made it past the intro yet but I just need to say you have REALLY NICE HANDS. THEY’RE SO FEMININE AND SLENDER.

  • Lalli 16
    Lalli 16 6 days ago +1


    This video is DRAMATIC

    • Lalli 16
      Lalli 16 5 days ago +1

      MercuryMonroe💋 lol Srry 😅

    • MercuryMonroe💋
      MercuryMonroe💋 5 days ago +1

      @Lalli 16 mine was a joke too lol because we all know Gabbie can be dramatic but it's just because the events in her life are also dramatic

    • Lalli 16
      Lalli 16 5 days ago

      MercuryMonroe💋 Kinda, Ive been watching her for 3 months. But it was just a joke. Like to promo Gabbie’s music video Honestly

    • MercuryMonroe💋
      MercuryMonroe💋 5 days ago +1

      Are you new here?

  • mehgan lee
    mehgan lee 6 days ago

    25:06 I-I.... Oh my, okay..

  • Clair Whitney
    Clair Whitney 6 days ago

    I think that it is very mature of u to not tell the internet what he thought or was feeling or never told any one and even what he did to u , u still keep his privacy

  • i don’t know lol
    i don’t know lol 7 days ago +12

    anyone here after 2WAYMIRROR ???!!! 🦋

    • i don’t know lol
      i don’t know lol 2 days ago

      JACKIE SUMMERS i think it might be like a mixture of all her shitty experiences with guys

      JACKIE SUMMERS 3 days ago +1

      i dont think 2waymirror was writen about this boyfriend because the video "letting the person in front of me choose what we eat for 24 hours *with my ex boyfriend* she says that shes still friends and i dont think Gabbie would be the type of person to be friends with her ex boyfriend that was a patholical liar becuase he lied all the time but thats just my opion i dont think this boyfriend has anything to do with 2waymirror