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  • Kurzgesagt – In a Nutshell
    Kurzgesagt – In a Nutshell  22 hours ago +2875

    We designed a poster on this topic as well. You can find it here: standard.tv/collections/in-a-nutshell/products/in-a-nutshell-loneliness-poster

    • Fringe Wizard
      Fringe Wizard 13 hours ago

      >reach out and get professional help
      lmao psychiatry is not a legit science and those frauds can't help anyone

    • Fringe Wizard
      Fringe Wizard 14 hours ago

      Your video assumes people have a wife and children btw. Most of us don't have a wife and children, look at the birthrates. I know someone could be lonely in a marriage but it's highly improbable.

    • Ka Bar
      Ka Bar 14 hours ago

      vost French pls ;(

    • Kurotama
      Kurotama 14 hours ago

      This video is beautiful.

      Thank you. 😊

    • powdered meat
      powdered meat 14 hours ago

      I gotta ask... what if there is more than just that going on? I got a "step" father who didnt marry my mother cause hes "waiting"for 5 damn years but is her fiance. See I'm lonely since my mother moved away from my true father and I was emotional so kids didn't like me... I've looked over my life and this is still going on... I go to a school learn how to act from it, move again redo everything half year later do it again then when the years done, it happens again... I try to make conversation with people but they just dont listen. I am lonely but it falls from my past... what would I do then? I should tell my mother to leave him, and a major stress would go away but then we would just be like before...

  • A Shibe
    A Shibe 13 hours ago

    Gemeinschaft>>> Gesellschaft

  • Galloe
    Galloe 13 hours ago

    I've become complacent if I'm to be honest. My form of brain damage makes it really complected to hold a conversation. Funny thing really, it's not that I don't know how to talk, only that it's VERY hard to make words most of the time and even when they are coming out correctly I've nearly lost the ability to control the tone of my voice. Been 10 years now, and nothing ever changes because even the people I've known all along don't want to deal with me... I'm still the same me but I suppose at times I talk too loud or so low that it's hard to hear me and even at that I start to slur or spend too much time trying to bring words to my tongue. Still, I don't pick up on it until the person I'm talking to has had enough of me and just kind of walks away.
    After that, they (Friends and family, well not so much friends because I lost all of them years ago) start to think that I'm kind of stupid and that frustrates me tons, I mean it has been 10 years and every year it only gets a little worse... I've built all of their computers and repaired most of our household plumbing problems but now I'm just being overlooked. I ask if they need help or if I CAN and for the last 3 years my offers have been rejected. No, it's okay, (Insert a friend's name here) is coming over and he can do it. Unless it's something that they don't want to make their friends do... Like, let's say clean the grease trap in the septic tank because that's a me job.
    It sucks too because I spent most of my youth learning how to do the things I'm overlooked for. I'm not dumb though, I swear and I've never broken the things I mean to fix... From 22 to 32 and in the middle nothing has happened, the brain thing makes it to where I cannot drive and the place I live has no bus lines and even if I HAD a bus line the fare is now $5.00. See, this is all crying on and I know it but that's just how it is and I figured that a video like this one would be an okay place to share it all. I'm not trying to make anyone feel anything at all, I'm just speaking my life with my fingers but this whole thing is TL;DR I do, however, hope that someone reads this or I will just tell myself someone did read it and that will be good enough for me. A decade of being lonely starts to make you feel numb, I guess.
    It's not all bad though, my dog has been alive for 10 years in July and she is a Pomeranian so at the very least if she stays healthy I will have a friend until I'm nearly or 40, or maybe she will live to be 20 and I will have here until I'm 42! Cool really, she adopted me (Complicated, she was NEVER my dog but she made me her human.) when I was 22, and she could be my dog from the age of 22 to 40! I love her a whole lot too because she never gets upset when I have trouble speaking, or walking or don't want to get out of bed because my legs are being buttholes and don't want to keep me stable.
    Moral of the story is: Dogs make the best of friends! Hannah took me from the end of adult childhood and may be there for when I become middle age! Dogs save lives.

  • Gabrie facu
    Gabrie facu 13 hours ago

    This channel needs more subscribers. At least, 25 or 30 million. Great work!!

  • artki 13000
    artki 13000 13 hours ago

    BITCH I GOT MYSELF TO LOVE 🥳💕😄

  • Kerri Price
    Kerri Price 13 hours ago

    Welp i guess i have chronic loneliness. I guess its time to better myself and reach out. I hope others can do this too. Time to start a journey of connection. Good luck guys

  • Lithy Veronica
    Lithy Veronica 13 hours ago +1

    How to solve Loneliness on a budget:
    1. Go to a bar.
    2. Order 5 pints of lager.
    PROFIT!

  • ChocolateCat 60
    ChocolateCat 60 13 hours ago

    I’m lonely

  • Santiago Díaz
    Santiago Díaz 13 hours ago

    I don't know if the internet is listening to me, I seriously don't care at this point. Kurzgesagt this is exactly what I needed right now. I'm so glad I bought your 12,019 calendar.

  • daniel
    daniel 13 hours ago

    1:30
    Because I'm hungry.
    No, you're lonely. I can see it in your eyes.

  • Jett wright
    Jett wright 13 hours ago

    I like being alone, I only feel lonely when no one understands me through communication.

  • Phillip Parr
    Phillip Parr 13 hours ago

    Hello :)

  • Emel Gül
    Emel Gül 13 hours ago

    Im watching while I avoid my family

  • Joseph Blattert
    Joseph Blattert 13 hours ago

    Thank you, I really needed this

  • Dustin
    Dustin 13 hours ago

    It seems that a lot of problems we experience are down to us evolving our societies faster than our bodies and minds can evolve to keep up. Fundamentally we're the same as cavemen, just with thousands of years of accumulated knowledge which we've used to shape the world around us. Makes you wonder what humanity would be like if we could evolve as fast as bacteria and viruses do to cope with changes in their environment.

  • New Memer
    New Memer 13 hours ago

    This is so relateable. I've been contentrating on my social skills so much, how people react, how I do

  • Vector Guy
    Vector Guy 13 hours ago

    I am also in a process of getting rid of friends which wish me bad things, they are pretty easy to spot once you look closer.
    I feel lonely when those fake or impuslive friends insist on to go out with them, but i refuse most of the times now.
    I have a few buddies with whom I hang out and a girlfriend. They are enough, but it is hard to ignore those bad ones, the world is full of them, so its normal to become alert at some point in life, in a defensive position.
    Better feeling lonely then bored with the wrong people around you, or even annoyed and furious. And when you ll find that one friend or friends, you ll appreciate them so much.

  • Wilson
    Wilson 13 hours ago +1

    Where are the BIRDS?!

  • Warped
    Warped 13 hours ago

    If you feel suicidal...just hang in there.

    • T T
      T T 13 hours ago

      I do

  • Vian Jansen van Rensburg

    i needed that

  • MetalJesus 19
    MetalJesus 19 13 hours ago

    Very well.

  • JaidenSD
    JaidenSD 13 hours ago

    I really love how the animation and style just keeps improving and improving, and every topic that ends covered in a video of this channel is absolutely entertaining and interesting. I really love Kurzgesagt and these videos.

  • dancewithme !
    dancewithme ! 13 hours ago +2

    I've been cutting myself

  • JuanCarlosBeltran Alkuino

    yo I'm 14 years old and I miss the time we I to get out and play with my friends T--T

  • big e Stephens
    big e Stephens 13 hours ago

    Almost 8 million subscribers

  • Pinochet
    Pinochet 13 hours ago +1

    Madlads upload a video about loneliness days after Valentines Day, damn

  • Gabe cruz
    Gabe cruz 13 hours ago

    I'm going to die to loneliness. Lost cause with no hope.

  • MrRandomTV1000
    MrRandomTV1000 13 hours ago

    Speak for yourself. I enjoy being by myself and it actually gives me pain and stress when being social.

  • Chapter Master Avarice
    Chapter Master Avarice 13 hours ago

    Hmm... I think we've touched on where the idea of "microagressions" originated.
    Misinterpretations, and perceived hostility.

  • Richard Didrikson
    Richard Didrikson 13 hours ago +1

    Weekly dose of depression.

  • Destiel! At the disco
    Destiel! At the disco 13 hours ago

    This video actually really helped, thanks for making it

  • Zorn27
    Zorn27 13 hours ago

    Wished someone a happy birthday 🎂 😁

  • That Mexican Boi
    That Mexican Boi 13 hours ago

    Curious, I felt lonely and sad for people who didn't care about me even when I'm possibly the most realistic person I know.
    The brain is weird huh

  • Aniq Iman
    Aniq Iman 13 hours ago

    but....how about lone wolf??

  • And The Salt Spreads
    And The Salt Spreads 13 hours ago

    just here for the depressed emo comments.

  • Ginger McFly
    Ginger McFly 13 hours ago

    I’ve got my cigarettes to keep me company

  • Alex Hutchins
    Alex Hutchins 13 hours ago

    I got brain surgery to deal with my loneliness.

  • Enya Serna Rodriguez
    Enya Serna Rodriguez 13 hours ago

    This video is about to change my life. Thank you Kurzgesagt.

  • The Discrete
    The Discrete 13 hours ago

    Thanks!!

  • Publik Channel
    Publik Channel 13 hours ago

    That professional help - would that be a therapist, psychologist, or something else?

  • Ben
    Ben 13 hours ago

    This video just encapsulated the way I am.
    Judging by what was said, I'm deep into the chronic end of loneliness.

  • Khaled Houssary
    Khaled Houssary 13 hours ago

    1:24 Illuminati

  • Rampator -
    Rampator - 13 hours ago

    I was feeling pretty good, until I watched this video. These guys have a talent for consistently creating content that make you feel depressed and hopeless.

  • a lonely spoon
    a lonely spoon 13 hours ago

    :

  • JustGame
    JustGame 13 hours ago

    I felt this way a few years back, I thought all of my friends were out to get to me, I became super anxious whenever they called and usually just ignored it. I did whatever I could to avoid going out. Thankfully I’m passed it and love going out with my friends, sometimes abit too much when I have university deadlines. Funnily enough it was a USclip channel called ThatWasEpic that helped me, he’s this guy that goes up to random people and says funny/embarrassing stuff. Made me realise no matter how awkward a situation may seem nothing bad happens in fact it’s actually quite therapeutic to laugh at yourself and reflect on social situations positively no matter how stupid you may have felt

  • Eero Huhtamo
    Eero Huhtamo 13 hours ago

    Maybe this is a stretch but I think morality has it's roots in avoiding loneliness. Back in the days it meant death if you were kicked out of a community (stated in the video). There for you had to figure out how other people expect you to behave AKA to know what is ok to do and what is not AKA to know what is wrong and what is right AKA have a moral.

  • PotatoKD News
    PotatoKD News 13 hours ago

    Finnally I understand now! I know why I feel mistreated all the time!

  • Potatis 1337
    Potatis 1337 13 hours ago

    This channel and Captain Disillusion, are the 2 best channels on USclip. Period.

  • hawaiisunfun
    hawaiisunfun 13 hours ago

    Nothing is forever, and people can only be in a person's life for only so long (as they can also be in one place for one period of time for only so long). So it's about creating the best memories in a moment and holding onto them as long as possible, while simultaneously feeling like one can reconnect to those people and experiences that prevents loneliness (at least for me).

    • hawaiisunfun
      hawaiisunfun 13 hours ago

      It would be nice to create virtual people and experiences, to virtually create elongate the everlasting feeling. The issue is that even that has shortcomings, because people live in the real world and cannot experience the virtual world forever (even a virtual world has bearings in reality, as it's limited by time) if they try to connect to it with their human bodies. People still can only be in one place at one time and don't live forever. So it's really difficult to counteract loneliness no matter what, as long as reality exists in a person's life. Just making the most of what we have is the best we can do.

  • Nick Martin
    Nick Martin 13 hours ago

    Thank you...

  • Angie Is the best of the best

    Loneliness isn't deadly, that's bull crap. You scientist are a joke.

  • Lbp boricua
    Lbp boricua 13 hours ago

    Sup I am at the point past loneliness and depressed, wyd

  • Shnarfbird
    Shnarfbird 13 hours ago +1

    I keep trying. I reach out all the time. Nobody cares.

  • GucciPoochie
    GucciPoochie 13 hours ago

    This hits close to home.

  • AO1337
    AO1337 13 hours ago

    Of course they upload at 0:58 am.

  • Captain Scott
    Captain Scott 13 hours ago

    Video: Loneliness kills
    Me: Crap

  • ꦄꦫꦸꦤ
    ꦄꦫꦸꦤ 13 hours ago

    Haha! , its funny how i watching this while knowing i already beyond point of no return

  • Federico Dassi
    Federico Dassi 13 hours ago

    This is one of the few things i found that could help, thank you

  • Dutch Plan Der linde
    Dutch Plan Der linde 13 hours ago

    I still wonder why my parents say I’m lonely when I tell them I prefer being alone and I hate being around others

  • Oxi Clean
    Oxi Clean 13 hours ago +1

    I feel lonely too... 😔

  • salakoay_ola
    salakoay_ola 13 hours ago

    Thank you Kurzgesagt 💙

  • Pure Rust
    Pure Rust 13 hours ago

    loneliness is more harzardous than obesity and smoking. Good, can't wait to die soon. Life is pointless shit anyways.

  • Das kut
    Das kut 13 hours ago

    This video made me feel so lonely because it's a pretty accurate description of me but i didnt even notice it......

  • Aidan Allen
    Aidan Allen 13 hours ago

    Thank you Kurzgesagt, I struggle with having close friends and knowing why that makes me sad helps me process that much easier.

  • raja xd
    raja xd 13 hours ago

    Uploaded just after Valentine’s day.
    Right in the feels

  • Paul Krishnamurthy
    Paul Krishnamurthy 13 hours ago

    This channel is honestly one of the best ones on youtube. Such great quality content in every video!

  • Andrea Bassi
    Andrea Bassi 13 hours ago

    It is incredible to realize that this is exactly what I experience without knowing it with such accuracy. This video is wonderful, hope it gets the visibility it deserves and people deserve.

  • anatoli-san
    anatoli-san 13 hours ago +1

    It's all a conspiracy

  • moist lint ball the 3rd

    Saw this video and wanted to make a witty comment but this hit home hard.

  • Gonçalo Ramalho
    Gonçalo Ramalho 13 hours ago

    Thank you! Not only an individual thank you, but thank you for showing this to whom may see it! I hope it will help people out there!

  • Dezső Kaffantó
    Dezső Kaffantó 13 hours ago

    Okay. You should be a state (EU?) founded channel which creates content 0-24.

  • Kaden D
    Kaden D 13 hours ago

    This explains a lot. Great video as all ways!!

  • Eo DabDab
    Eo DabDab 13 hours ago

    I can't relate to this even a bit, I really like being alone...

  • Emme Emme
    Emme Emme 13 hours ago

    Really really good video, i think it'll really help some people.
    Really good job!

  • Bryce020
    Bryce020 13 hours ago

    Yes! Finally, an episode that relates with so many people (especially the youth) around the world!

  • Karellen
    Karellen 13 hours ago +1

    This video is cool however modern society is soo pretending that makes me hate people.

  • Udwun
    Udwun 13 hours ago

    honestly this video helped me to understand how to escape lonliness. thank you guys so much

  • Ossy Koi
    Ossy Koi 13 hours ago

    Thank you for making this video. I have always thought that these feelings of mine have simply been a consequence of my depression. After hearing about the symptoms of loneliness, it kind of brightened my day a little. I actually realised at some point that I've been categorising neutral-happy emotions as negative. There were moments where it did improve, but it seemed to be a rather persistent event. I felt that this video was exactly what I am like. I'm very happy to have seen this video.

  • SlavReviews
    SlavReviews 13 hours ago

    Don't forget bacteria never leave your side ✊

  • Aditya Chebiyyam
    Aditya Chebiyyam 13 hours ago

    Irony will die a lonely death when people watch this video when they're alone!

  • William Kallemeyn
    William Kallemeyn 13 hours ago

    The stupid thing is i thought i was the only one who felt like this...

  • ꦄꦫꦸꦤ
    ꦄꦫꦸꦤ 13 hours ago

    Ah...
    Shit!
    I'm Going to Die!

  • Genetics determine your

    headstarts , favorable situations and genetics .

  • Caleb Kruse
    Caleb Kruse 13 hours ago

    One of the best things I have heard about negative thoughts is to pick out three things youre thankful for each day. Doesn’t take long, but it can help rewire the way you think in order to be happier and more optimistic.

  • Shyam Padmanabhan
    Shyam Padmanabhan 13 hours ago

    A lot of people claim to understand this concept, but their actions clearly show that they don't. One thing you can do to help people feel less lonely, or even help yourself, is call your friends over the phone instead of just texting them back and forth.

  • Eddie Roche
    Eddie Roche 13 hours ago

    That's cool, but there's a severe lack of birds.

  • Vicente Capito
    Vicente Capito 13 hours ago

    I wish I could ask, why to dislike this video?

  • Josh Lee
    Josh Lee 13 hours ago

    Great video, good work. Education and a bit of good advice is what I watch this chanel for

  • Rob Vel
    Rob Vel 13 hours ago

    Thank you for making this.

  • Matt Eden
    Matt Eden 13 hours ago

    As someone who struggles with this thank you for bringing this to light and making it a topic of conversation.

  • I'm a huge faggot
    I'm a huge faggot 13 hours ago

    haha i hate myself

  • hawaiisunfun
    hawaiisunfun 13 hours ago

    When people say the wrong thing to me (like unconsciously opening up a trauma that I closed in my head, because they don't know me), it makes me want to not be around them. After a while of avoiding many people, there are fewer people around me and ones I want to talk to. Then I get lonely. The more open social experiences are (when people want to talk to/connect with me deeply and I want to be around them and do the same), the less lonely I get. Thank you Kurzgesagt for having this video. It came at the right time where I got lonely after this situation happened and the person left my life for future pursuits (which I hoped for, as I wanted what was best for them, as they made me feel less lonely, but I didn't want to talk to them but instead wanted them to move forward in their life, which they did). This video helps

  • General Otmin
    General Otmin 13 hours ago

    My life: Lonely 24/7

  • Joshua Canales
    Joshua Canales 13 hours ago

    Can you do a video about anxiety?

  • Sparsh Varshney
    Sparsh Varshney 13 hours ago

    Amazing. This one was so helpful. Make more like these ❤️

  • Arash snai
    Arash snai 13 hours ago

    I feel lonelier after watching this video

  • Harshit Khandelwal
    Harshit Khandelwal 13 hours ago

    Loneliness is sometimes better when you do good with other people but other people cheat you and insult you.

  • Arees Valles
    Arees Valles 13 hours ago

    Ah every mental issue fix starts with admit you have a problem.

  • Lea Schmitt
    Lea Schmitt 13 hours ago

    I cried

  • fredan
    fredan 13 hours ago

    I'm no expert I'm just some random twelve-year-old, but just so you know there's always somebody out there who loves you. You just need to search for them and be open about who you are. Don't go around hiding your feelings, be open. If somebody is mean to you be nice to them because they probably have it hard at home. If you are nice to them after a while they'll be nice back. As said I'm no expert but at least i hope this will make you feel a little bit better.