Women Answer Questions Men Are Too Afraid To Ask

  • Published on Sep 8, 2019
  • "What happens in the girls bathroom?"
    Subscribe to As/Is: bzfd.it/2QaN0dR
    About As/Is:
    Subscribe for daily videos & series about beauty, fashion, style, body positivity, women’s experiences and lifestyle, and to join a community of incredible women working to empower and inspire each other. We accept you, as is!
    Connect with As/Is:
    Like us on Facebook: UrGreatAsIs
    Follow us on Instagram: @AsIs asis
    Follow us on Twitter: asis
    Check out our website: buzzfeed.com/asis
    Buy our merch: goo.gl/2ny7st
    Subscribe to the As/Is Newsletter: www.buzzfeed.com/newsletters/style
    Credits: www.buzzfeed.com/bfmp/videos/87187
    Licensed via Audio Network

    Businessman looking at question marks and bulb
    Wavebreakmedia/Getty Images


Comments • 1 618

  • eva martini
    eva martini Day ago

    Man confuse being friendly and showing love to their male friends as being gay,,,sometimes and that just gives me headaches

  • Laura C
    Laura C Day ago

    Joyce went IN on the worst parts of dating men lmao i fkn love it

  • Hunter Dore
    Hunter Dore Day ago

    I haven't asked these questions because I don't want to offend women or I didn't know it existed or it just doesn't come out of my mind

  • Himawati Cahyu Lestari

    "the emotional weight of men, and manhood, and masculinity is complex."
    omg i couldnt agree more!!!

  • Eleven Twelve
    Eleven Twelve 2 days ago

    yeah not fine in an reality

  • Ms. Medusa
    Ms. Medusa 2 days ago

    Joyce is such a beauty to listen to and an absolute stunner. She would look amazing with a dark glossy lip and a finger wave

  • David Santos
    David Santos 2 days ago

    For a second imagine it was men instead of women speaking. Imagine the comment section. #doublestandards

  • Shelby Fischer
    Shelby Fischer 2 days ago


  • The Random
    The Random 2 days ago

    Anyone here got questions for men?
    If so ask here!😄

  • Rayelle J
    Rayelle J 3 days ago

    I officially appreciate being 5'10 and medium/lg bone size. I dont feel afraid when I'm near guys. I just lift up my shoulders/correct posture, naturally, and get ready to punch someone in the face vs running away and feeling helpless.

  • kbrigsby61
    kbrigsby61 3 days ago

    Uhhh... I'm 57 & I've NEVER been 'afraid' to ask ANY question -- of a female. Slightly-hesitant, yes, but ONLY becawz..., women play tht fukkd-up GAME of: "welll... YOU asked me the wrong question, so now..., YOU ain't gettin' NO pu$$y." (See how CHILIDISH & manipulative they are???). Also, MEN..., do NOT, NOT, NOT 'needany kind 'emotional-intelligence'!! Wht-da-Fuque kinda shite izzat, any-ways...?? Ohhhh, tht's sum-thing u emotionaly-crippled (& ridiculous-behaving) 'Entitled-VagiBagz' use to fukk-up a man's world, &/or, life!! Fokkk!K!!

  • Bluegoka
    Bluegoka 3 days ago

    Men don’t say “social constructs”

  • Olipa Katongo Kunda
    Olipa Katongo Kunda 3 days ago

    please watch my video and support me click usclip.net/video/jMM8Zf8i2qw/video.html

  • Destiny Kidder-Buell

    Joyce was spitting the real tea!

  • Omoye Uduehi
    Omoye Uduehi 3 days ago

    Damn sis! What is that orange highlighter? I want to know.

  • Ice King
    Ice King 3 days ago

    For the “what’s the worst part about dating guys” question. Joyce literally said it ALL👏🏿👏🏿like exactly what I would’ve said !!!!

  • pmp
    pmp 3 days ago


  • llgla
    llgla 4 days ago +1

    And stop asking why we bring our purses to the bathroom. We have reasons. **nod**

  • Kvng Austin
    Kvng Austin 4 days ago +1

    Nobody asked for this to be a thing. Nobody.

  • mandypdx
    mandypdx 4 days ago

    Nope... my ex was into guys too. I can’t fulfill that need :(

  • TrulyYourGamer
    TrulyYourGamer 4 days ago +3

    I wonder, how do they know what men will ask if men never ask these questions, I would understand if there was a man who told them these questions, but I have a feeling they were made up and will even probably demonize men, even if none of these questions have been asked.

  • Niiiota
    Niiiota 4 days ago +6

    Everything Joyce said about the worst part of dating men is on point!

  • 10SkYaboku02
    10SkYaboku02 5 days ago

    we had some valid points and some points that were just so out of order

  • Anonymous Me
    Anonymous Me 5 days ago

    I love Joyce's commentary

  • Isabella Sampson
    Isabella Sampson 5 days ago +1

    the self love in this video is amazing.

  • Karusha Pather
    Karusha Pather 5 days ago +7

    " my friend's hot " - Joyce 😂🤣 I love her! We all need a friend like Joyce

  • Hez_am_i
    Hez_am_i 5 days ago +1

    Sometimes it's because u can't get out of your clothes on your own to pee, so ur friend needs to help u

  • Lovelybones
    Lovelybones 5 days ago +1

    For me the bathroom thing came from wayyyyy back in elementary/primary school, it was "can you make sure the door will not open? , can you garde the door?" basically x'), the bathroom was not inside the building but simply in some corner of the playground so we become quickly paranoiac that someone will burst open the door or the lock will broke or something very embarrassing like that. And little by little it became and habit and voila !

  • Uni Panda
    Uni Panda 5 days ago

    Lol this was the day of best friends switch styles 😂 part of the reason I clicked 🙃

  • Lilly H
    Lilly H 5 days ago +5

    Ok- but like- I'm a girl and I've never even understood why other girls go to the bathroom together.. maybe it's just because I don't really like to gossip or really talk at all.. but none of my friends have understood the "girls go to the bathroom together" concept either soo...

    • Kyla Stewart
      Kyla Stewart 3 days ago +2

      Lilly H Well in public places it’s more safe to go somewhere in a group setting. I think if you’re on like a friend outing or like a double date it’s a way to kinda take a breath with your friend. Idk if this makes sense but this is how I think about it

  • Toni Monet
    Toni Monet 5 days ago +2

    Guys don't talk in the bathroom because their wangs are out.

  • 2019 chillflix
    2019 chillflix 5 days ago

    we need a batter dating app with better filters. similar as shopping on amazon !! . filters to search for - habits-lifestyle-ect. sexual fetishies ect ect.... There would be no limbo you'd know what habits desires the person wants. the search would match each other. also apps should be made minor proof.allow new members produce offical ID to get a joining code- maybe a- once off payment fee. the filters may take an hour to fill out ! but when the memebr clicks enter ! they get the best match !! and then take it from there !! just swipping through pics and reading a small bios is not enough. it's all time wasting really.

  • Coriander McGreevy
    Coriander McGreevy 5 days ago

    Joyce’s hair looks so good short!!

  • Olivia Nicoloff
    Olivia Nicoloff 5 days ago

    ok joyce is everything as always

  • noneyabusiness
    noneyabusiness 5 days ago

    Joyce real live running this video I love her so ducking much like uhhhhh😍🙋🏿‍♀️🙋🏿‍♀️💅🏾💅🏾

  • jg cool
    jg cool 5 days ago

    lindsay's wow is my mood 24/7 lol

  • Olivia
    Olivia 5 days ago +1

    Men should have to answer questions from women now!

  • Emily Denny
    Emily Denny 5 days ago +11

    As an asexual woman I'm learning so much in the first 2.5 minutes

  • M. Cobb
    M. Cobb 6 days ago

    6:28 me too girl. 😂 and I'm also a Libra so relatable.

  • Kate Massey
    Kate Massey 6 days ago +1

    No period questions...hmm

  • J Hopeless
    J Hopeless 6 days ago +4

    Just saying hasn't BuzzFeed released about 5 videos with the exact same questions

  • Elise Courtney
    Elise Courtney 6 days ago

    idk bout u but you saying they date one girl and it ruins there life, insecurity about the way they look....hm? iv never heard that one before

    oh atleast not for men


    • Blind.
      Blind. 5 days ago

      Elise Courtney tf?

  • Jana Welch
    Jana Welch 6 days ago

    jaz and lindsay weren’t paired together? what is this madness??

  • BelowAverage -
    BelowAverage - 6 days ago

    I'm a guy and I kind of don't understand their problems with guys bc everyone has insecurities, dependency is based on how a person was raised(not gender), and how Michelle said they have to figure out if we're basically a player or a nice guy, but I think more woman are "swiping" than men. However I do agree on how we have low emotional intelligence bc I honestly don't know how girls feel a lot of the time but I feel like that's bc they show more emotion than men and men don't experience as many emotions and emotional changes as they do bc I think men are the more chill type of gender(not to be sexist). I've never really been taught to show emotion so I keep it inside and deal with it. That's bc I was raised that way and started doing that a long time ago and can't get out of that way. I also feel a little surprised to hear how we have "mommy issues" and I feel that's more of who the mom is and her personality. I also don't really know what to say about the "hero complex" is a bad thing, or do am I just confused on what that is. Idek what I'm doing anymore 😂Feel free to respond and explain to me these things that I don't understand bc I'd like to understand them. One more thing, sorry this is long😂. Why do woman hate when men say "you look pretty without make up"? Bc I would be happy with someone complementing me like that if I was a girl. One issue though, when one girl says something about our confident issues and another girl says how make up gives her confidence, why are guys called gay bc some where makeup and are still straight? Why can't we do the same thing as girls and not have it be normal? But I honestly think that's a way deeper issue than this video so let's just move on ig😂

  • We Fe
    We Fe 6 days ago

    Great video

  • Kyla Coates
    Kyla Coates 6 days ago +1

    whose here before 1 million 🙃💕‼️

  • Jordan Bailey
    Jordan Bailey 6 days ago

    Joyce going in on what’s wrong with me was everything

  • Joshika Wale
    Joshika Wale 6 days ago

    Jaz same I am a Libra too... But I get impressed and then I aak the person out... Lol

  • Joshika Wale
    Joshika Wale 6 days ago +2

    When Joyce starts talking about men and dating them
    Oh my god 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • Abby Bee
    Abby Bee 6 days ago

    What scares me is when like fifties guys come near you, im very paranoid of people in public XD
    Because you never know if theyre like a pedo, or a criminal

  • steve cwell
    steve cwell 6 days ago +1

    Future Cat Ladies of the world Unite!

  • Imperial Grind
    Imperial Grind 6 days ago

    how did EJ Johnson get to be on the panel?

  • EagerOnlooker
    EagerOnlooker 6 days ago

    Am I the only one who doesn't see loads of people at the same time? Because this video made me feel alone in that...

  • easdcoastlover
    easdcoastlover 6 days ago

    why do you wear makeup ? to increase sexual market value guys dont ask a fish on how to catch a fish redpill is your answer

    • MGTOW-Balance
      MGTOW-Balance 6 days ago

      what is red pill?
      DAMMIT just look at my name!!!!!!!!

  • Fardini Khandaker
    Fardini Khandaker 6 days ago

    I want Lindsey to make a makeup tutorial so bad. Or skin care routine. Please please 😭

  • kg062007
    kg062007 7 days ago +1

    those 2 big black bitches look gross

    • Blind.
      Blind. 5 days ago

      kg062007 lmao

  • Valentina Medina
    Valentina Medina 7 days ago +1

    HOLD UP. Where is that gorgeous hat Jasmine is wearing from?!?!?!

  • Pity Circle
    Pity Circle 7 days ago

    Something about the thumb-nail is a BIG no-no idk..

  • savannah lmao
    savannah lmao 7 days ago


  • gabriella stoica
    gabriella stoica 7 days ago