JoJo and Jordan’s Relationship Ups and Downs | Engaged


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  • Engaged with JoJo & Jordan

    What are some of your tips for maintaining a happy and healthy relationship?

    • Cheryl Hardy
      Cheryl Hardy Day ago

      Respect each other and never let anger get the best of you. Communication is the best thing to me.

    • TrAd Unspoken
      TrAd Unspoken Day ago

      Zeyna Nd Ashley Jared

    • Mary Shanks
      Mary Shanks Day ago

      You have a choice to NOT respond when your partner is in a bad mood and snapping- you don't have to snap back!!! Take a deep breath and just let them get it out of their system. Andalso laugh as much as possible!!!!!!!

    • Stephanie Munoz
      Stephanie Munoz 2 days ago

      Flirt, flirt, and more flirting! Flirting and joking with each other... that should fade just bc a couple has been together for years and years.

    • Diane C
      Diane C 3 days ago

      Engaged with JoJo & Jordan if you have a disagreement, deal with the issue, without getting into an argument which takes you in a complete different direction. Also, if it's petty, sometimes you just have to bite your tongue and let it slide.

  • rach
    rach 6 hours ago

    thank you so much for being so real and honest

  • aly00
    aly00 19 hours ago

    I really appreciate you guys for creating this show and being vulnerable with us. Its nice to know that every relationship has its kinks in them; especially a couple who has been on TV. My boyfriend and I have gone through the ups and downs like you guys have at the beginning of our relationship and we strive to work together to keep building upon our relationship till this day. Best 6 years of our life! Wouldn’t want to change anything that got us to where we are now in life together.

  • Madison Fuller
    Madison Fuller 20 hours ago +1

    I love this series! It’s amazing to see how you really are and how your life really is! I’m so glad both of you found true love and persevered through the hard times ❤️

  • Carmen Penzera
    Carmen Penzera 21 hour ago

    Please start vlogging! 💗

  • Christie Duffer
    Christie Duffer 21 hour ago

    I love this honesty so much.

  • Sheri Loyd
    Sheri Loyd 23 hours ago

    Absolutely LOVE your honesty and transparency. I do have a question/need advice on something that maybe you guys have faced in your relationship. My fiance' and I are engaged and have been for just over a year now. We met on the infamous... dun dun dun... TINDER! lol. A bit of our background: He was a commercial diver for the first few years of the relationship so we spent a great deal of time apart (he would travel on the road for a month at a time). Long distance was rough & definitely had its own challenges, but luckily we now live in southern California together and both work at a local hospital.
    One of our consistent "problems" is that we do not have the same love languages. I am a words of affirmation and touch person... while my partner is acts of service and quality time. I love the mushy cards and even the simple things like holding hands and he is not a "words" type of guy. While this may not sound like a huge "problem", it has been for us. I often feel like our love is fading or that my "love bucket" is not filled. When I express this to him... he says things like, but Babe... I cleaned your car today, brought you lunch... etc. While these things are incredibly sweet and thoughtful, I still would prefer a love note or a kiss. I don't want to sound like the needy one here... lol but I'm wondering if there is a way to improve this? How do we adjust to each others love languages/needs? Do you and Jordan have the same love languages? and if not, how do you adjust?
    Thanks for your time!!!
    -Sheri Loyd

  • Moonie Shin
    Moonie Shin Day ago

    Can we get a house tour please?

  • sayitoutloud watson

    When do these episodes air?? like weekly??

  • Breanna Northrup

    the fact that they were able to stick together through so much and he was able to work through his pride and she was able to open herself to being hurt really says so much about their love and who they are individually.

  • Victoria Henderson
    Victoria Henderson 2 days ago

    What is your advice for working out a long distance relationship?

  • Ashley Martorella
    Ashley Martorella 2 days ago

    Are you guys similar in the hobbies you like to do & events you like to attend, etc? How do you guys decide what new things you should take on together and find things you both like?
    Also love watching this show!! 😍

  • LuAnn Englehart
    LuAnn Englehart 2 days ago

    I have been married for 24 years, but I still can relate to this. I think you are going to help so many couples. Good for you. Just do not be one of those couples who gives up. Relationships are not perfect; they are messy! Keep up the talking and never give up.

  • Amanda Guevara
    Amanda Guevara 2 days ago

    My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months now and we are deeply into each other. But the one thing that bothers him is texting my guy friend that I have been friends with for 2 years. He’s the only friend I tell everything about but my bf thinks it’s gonna be the other way around. My friend has a girlfriend and there’s 0% chance we’ll hook up anytime soon. We have fought so many times about it and I’m over it. I’m just wanting your advice if my boyfriend trusts me enough?
    Also he has this girl friend that he’s been friends with since high school.. (he’s 24 now) and what makes me kinda not feel right is they usually hang out just them two. He tells me they’re not gonna get together at all because she’s not his type. But what bothers me the most is they both share their locations with one another. I’m really having a hard time coping with that and I just don’t know what to tell him 😪

  • Olivia Porte
    Olivia Porte 3 days ago +1

    My question for you two is how do you manage your schedules when Jordan is working on the weekends? Do you feel like he misses out on a lot of things? Or do y’all just plan dates and “together time” during the week?

  • Joey McDonough
    Joey McDonough 3 days ago

    What are some tips on becoming more open with new people? When you feel you are very guarded and have trouble letting people in? Thoughts? Also thank you so much for doing these videos. I'm a huge fan and so happy for you two. All the best :)

  • Queen Namaste
    Queen Namaste 3 days ago +1

    loved the authenticity! thank you so much for sharing your story! more couples should follow
    suit! If it is rainbows and butterflies all the time... something is wrong :P

  • MrxRiderX
    MrxRiderX 3 days ago

    my thing is when a argument occurs, use a pencil. give the pencil to the person who is talking so that they have time to get out their feelings and not be interuppeted. Then pass the pencil and give the other person a chance to talk about their feelings. No-one can speak unless they have the pencil. This gives a chance to get everything off of your chest, be understood and work it out.

    CHARLOTTE URBAN 3 days ago

    For someone who just broke up with someone she really loved. How do you move on knowing that there is someone better out there for you? And how do you go about getting out there to meet people after being in a relationship for a long time?

  • Diane C
    Diane C 3 days ago

    My husband and I broke up twice (for very short time) before we married. Here we are 43 yrs later. We didn't live together, but after marriage, the first year was the toughest. Then it just gets better and better, because it is hard and takes time, but worth it.

  • jenny osorio
    jenny osorio 3 days ago

    I love u guys. Beautiful couple.❤️

  • Front Kick
    Front Kick 3 days ago

    Marriage is death by a thousand cuts! She will become a narcissistic nightmare!

  • xrcrx ftfghjg
    xrcrx ftfghjg 3 days ago

    her voice😫

  • Randy
    Randy 3 days ago

    Who cares?

  • Trisha Anderson
    Trisha Anderson 3 days ago +1

    I love this series! You two are the best! So on the first episode of the bachelorette when I seen Jordan I thought he was perfect for you! I love how open you two are being with your relationship:) it’s nice to know that it’s possible to get through the struggles of a new relationship without giving up! You guys are the best ❤️

  • Rick Sanchez Jr.
    Rick Sanchez Jr. 3 days ago

    Do you guys think he ever came in her mouth before?

  • Darth Kahless
    Darth Kahless 3 days ago

    Extremely lovely lesbian couple! 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈 #NewFan

  • Jillian Dilbeck
    Jillian Dilbeck 3 days ago +1

    Way to show the real side of relationships! Thank you

  • jbond5150
    jbond5150 4 days ago

    She should do porn.

  • Admiral Autism
    Admiral Autism 4 days ago


  • Marilyn Loy
    Marilyn Loy 4 days ago +1

    I owe the fans of JoJo and Jordan an apology. I love hearing their honesty but when they talked about a reality show I was worried it wasn’t real but staged but I now know their sharing is real and they are doing a great job of helping others. I love their honesty!❤️

  • Rupert Murdoch
    Rupert Murdoch 4 days ago

    I bet she does A+ throat work

  • Super Viral Sick Vids
    Super Viral Sick Vids 4 days ago +1

    They’re still together? Uhhh someone needs to tell them it was a reality show.

  • Nem Khan
    Nem Khan 4 days ago

    why is he watching like that? just watching or scanning 😍

  • sabaya Shylla
    sabaya Shylla 4 days ago +2

    He way he look at her😍 they re just perfect for each other❤️

  • Lexy s
    Lexy s 4 days ago +1

    Love this so much !

  • Rachael Diffrient
    Rachael Diffrient 4 days ago +1

    love you guys

  • beans
    beans 4 days ago

    What’s your stand JoJo?

  • Alyse Rothenberg
    Alyse Rothenberg 4 days ago +1

    I'd like to know Jojo if you have dealt with feeling Jordan was ever emotionally not supportive and what you did? like how you talked about it?

  • Impressions of Japan
    Impressions of Japan 4 days ago +1

    "I hate seeing you cry."

  • Taco Irvin
    Taco Irvin 4 days ago

    Jeez the sure did a good one of part 5

  • xsweetl0ux
    xsweetl0ux 4 days ago +1

    I loved this so much. I think it shows how you went through struggles and came out stronger as a couple and as individuals. Loved how honest and raw you guys we’re ! Wish you guys the best xx

  • T Florpin
    T Florpin 4 days ago +1

    Witch joestar is this

  • Sean Zilligen
    Sean Zilligen 4 days ago

    Who are these people and why should I care about their relationship? One thing’s for sure, if they’re both attention-craving, conceited assholes like these videos imply, then I’m sure they’ll make it.

  • Devon H
    Devon H 4 days ago

    Who f-ing are these whiney ass millennials. This guy has to be in the closet. Lol

  • Skrillex
    Skrillex 4 days ago

    Copycat the lizy and dalas

  • Emily
    Emily 4 days ago

    What in the heck is Kin?

    EW NIKO 4 days ago +1

    That guy is straight?

  • Patrick
    Patrick 4 days ago +1

    If you see this, I love you and I want to be us again.
    Please like this so my wife will see this message higher up in the comments.

  • Marc3lina 1969
    Marc3lina 1969 4 days ago

    I liked it when Kristen Wiig impersonated you 😭

  • Tressa Renee
    Tressa Renee 4 days ago +1

    thanks for sharing guys. I watched clips from your season many times as I love the energy between you two. it was really amazing and I hope to have a relationship like that someday. And thanks for saying don't fight for an abusive relationship. I did that for many years with a narcissist and I finally learned that narcissist cannot return love or give love and so I ended the relationship but I wasted a lot of years. However I always believe that it's never too late

  • Christine Ripley
    Christine Ripley 4 days ago +1

    Wow I love this!!

  • Danni Dichito
    Danni Dichito 4 days ago

    I’ve been in a relationship for 10 years with my high school sweet heart (not married yet), and we can definitely relate to feeling pressure from others to do what they want us to do. Thank you for sharing your story!! It’s refreshing to hear we all go through the same things.💜 Best of luck- always rooting for you guys!

  • Shelley Turner
    Shelley Turner 4 days ago +1

    Was Jordon ever jealous or upset the way you were with the other guys in the season ?

  • ethan bradberry
    ethan bradberry 4 days ago

    The second someone over comments on a word they said well uh that’s gonna be quick dislike for me bucko, chuckling ehehehhehe.

  • Justin Vader
    Justin Vader 4 days ago

    They still together! Yaaa

  • Candice Capps
    Candice Capps 4 days ago +1

    I love y’all so much for being so REAL!! Yes the show was glamorous and all, but y’all are showing us that you’re real and in a serious relationship. It’s so wonderful what your doing in making these videos. I am married and the thing we struggle with the most is communicating with each other in the moment. We seem to communicate, but it’s usually after the fact. We have two young boys, and we both work full time. So life is busy, and sometimes the communication falls off the tracks. Also, I like to talk about everything, so if it’s bothering me, or I think something is bothering my husband, I wanna talk about it. He is the opposite. He is really easy going, and always seems unphased. So, I am looking forward to these videos!! Love y’all 💕💕

  • Heather Burke
    Heather Burke 4 days ago +1

    Love how y’all match in your videos!

  • God Himself
    God Himself 4 days ago

    smh i thought this was part 5

  • lisa Thompson
    lisa Thompson 5 days ago +1

    I watched your season and have to say I was skeptical about Jordan but I am happy to see that I was totally wrong. You guys are beautiful together. Relationship are hard work (28 years in even), but communication is always key! Keep up the good work!

  • Olivia Nasha
    Olivia Nasha 5 days ago


  • SupaFlarez
    SupaFlarez 5 days ago

    Is your name a J O J O R E F E R E N C E?

  • Grace M
    Grace M 5 days ago

    this is the whitest, straightest shit

  • Elizabeth Stember
    Elizabeth Stember 5 days ago +2

    This is great advice from a very young couple in a very young relationship. You said something that I just said about my husband of 36 years. He just passed away and I am heartbroken. However, I wrote something about him for the service titled "Thoughts on my Beloved." In it I shared just what you said JoJo, "this was not a fairy tale relationship". We had some very difficult challenges to get through but the reason we succeeded is that we always respected each other, never hit below the belt, and we constantly worked on improving our communication with each other. We were in it together and that is the key. You can't just have one person working on it. It has to be both of you who choose to move forward together. We got clean and sober together, we went through the loss of a child together, we have raised our grandchild together and more. We were opposites, he was morning, I was night, he was an introvert, I am an extrovert but we learned to love each other even with these differences and we were still falling more in love up to the end of his life. Marriage is hard work but it is so worth it so be willing to work and you will have a beautiful life together.

  • sharla stock
    sharla stock 5 days ago +1

    ugh the way he looks at her

  • Sherri Small
    Sherri Small 5 days ago +1

    I'm so glad to hear Jordan say he talked to someone and telling guys it's OK. Been with my husband 20 yrs we have def had our ups and downs. We def need to communicate better. Love y'all

  • Bint Sabina
    Bint Sabina 5 days ago

    Am going through a long distance relationship with my husband, its been a year now and it sucks

  • Asian Twinz
    Asian Twinz 5 days ago +1

    I stopped watching after your guys season was over 😭😭Anywaysss I wish you guys a pursuit of happiness!!!! Thank you for being vulnerable and open to us we love you guys!!!!

  • Sevn Liht
    Sevn Liht 5 days ago

    I like the walmart jojo better

  • Tiffany Dupree
    Tiffany Dupree 5 days ago +1

    I am so hooked your show! Y'all are my favorite couple from the Bachelor/Bachelorette! L O V E this!!

  • Joelle M
    Joelle M 5 days ago +2

    This video is trending!!! Congratulations!!!!!

  • Kronos92
    Kronos92 5 days ago

    This dude is gay 😂 No real man would do some shit like this.

  • lunardestruction
    lunardestruction 5 days ago

    O shit white ppl, when's the vacation to southeast Asia?

  • brokenredflag
    brokenredflag 5 days ago +1

    Wow!! You guys rock. I think many famous cuples i youtube are afraid of letting their flus in their relation ship be seen. Probably cuse they think wel think their gona brake up. And we dont think that at all. We know is normal. Your the first one i see takling this ishu. Thank you. Hope youtubers understand now.

  • Christine W
    Christine W 5 days ago +1

    You have definitely beat the odds by working on your relationship and realizing that The Bachelor dream dates and beautiful environments are not real life. It does take work & MANY kudos to Jordan for going to therapy. Any man I've been with has felt like they'd have to admit that something was wrong that they couldn't fix or handle by themselves if they went to a therapist. Definitely keep doing the work, especially before having kids, so you have the strongest foundation possible to start a family. Looking forward to more!

  • Teri Havlik
    Teri Havlik 5 days ago +1

    So good to watch you guys being real! And talking & explaining your relationship, Thankyou 👍❤️

  • Kimberly McLeod
    Kimberly McLeod 5 days ago +1

    I have been LOVING this new series for a few reasons: 1. you are my fave couple from the Bachelor because from the beginning I could see you were both real people that have jobs and are just so grounded. In watching this latest episode, i'm really impressed to hear that Jordan has been to therapy. I don't know if it's too personal, but i'd be interested to hear more details about that. I think you're helping normalize the idea of therapy, rather than having it be a vague weird thing for people with crazy trauma they have to work through. I think more people could benefit from it than we all want to admit.

  • MrRideutah
    MrRideutah 5 days ago

    You can tell the chick cheats

  • Claire
    Claire 5 days ago +1

    I love you guys so much! By far my favorite couple from the bachelor/bachelorette shows! Any advice on how to know if a guy actually likes me? Guys keep ghosting me after a few days...

  • joeylondonxo
    joeylondonxo 5 days ago

    Uhh this isn’t Jojo the singer tf

    DEBBIE KELLER 5 days ago +1

    It’s great to see you guys are still making it work!

  • Lihua Shen
    Lihua Shen 5 days ago +1

    Having the courage to reveal the insecurities and struggles you have gone through as a couple and as an individual is a sign of strength and it is empowering to those who face similar challenges. Thank you so much for sharing! I saw something special between you from the moment you two met and followed your journey since. Hands down my favorite couple and will support you no matter what:)

  • Jason Stubbz
    Jason Stubbz 5 days ago

    Communication & sacrifice... the unfortunate news is that the odds are heavily against successful relationships. So good luck, you'll need it

  • Keagan Burdorf
    Keagan Burdorf 5 days ago

    Fuck you and your channel

  • mont0127
    mont0127 5 days ago +1

    I loved you guys on the show! So happy to see you are still going strong! I do want to add that I am in love with your throw pillows! Where did you get them? hehe :)

  • Pollyanna Principle
    Pollyanna Principle 5 days ago

    I'm surprised to see this video. I thought these two were faking it after the show. If they were in love, wouldn't they be married by now like all the rest of the bachelor people that fell in love? They are a cute couple. I hope it works out.

  • Melvin
    Melvin 5 days ago

    This guy kinda looks like Thomas from YesTheory from the sides.

  • Andree Booker-Olivas

    Bravo 👏🏽 Namaste 🙏🏾

  • Michelle Torres
    Michelle Torres 5 days ago +1

    Can I just say I love you two so very much! You guys are so inspirational!!! I’ve been following you guys since the bachelorette and fell in love with you two. You are so real and I appreciate that. The way you two look at each other just melts my heart! Thank you for being a real life couple ❤️

  • Furno
    Furno 5 days ago +1

    It's a bizarre adventure for them

  • Alissa Michelle
    Alissa Michelle 5 days ago

    Who r they? Takin too long yawn

  • Eromaylandra !
    Eromaylandra ! 5 days ago

    Why does Jordan look so different, did he loose some muscle mass?

  • Mallory Carl
    Mallory Carl 5 days ago

    You may not want to go down this road (and if not, feel free to ignore!) but how do you keep the “spark” alive sexually? I’m sure with your crazy busy lives, making sure that is a priority can get tough.

  • William Volodarsky
    William Volodarsky 5 days ago

    Its 2 23am why did i watch this

  • Lolo Clay
    Lolo Clay 5 days ago

    How to do a Pixie Cut hair style with weft hair bundles. No glue - No sew ins.

  • Dragon Energy
    Dragon Energy 5 days ago

    Uh-oh. I accidentally fell into the moronic section of youtube.

  • Josh Witte
    Josh Witte 5 days ago

    What is this garbage...

  • Soul Les
    Soul Les 5 days ago

    Absolutely!! actually the first 2 years of my marriage was difficult. We are different people that needed so much what the other had to offer at that time that brought us together. We married 1year after meeting each other, he moved in after two months of knowing everything was so NEW. After 11 years we r good friends for life. Even if we didn’t make it, he will be my friend forever. And he can always count on me to be there.❤️

  • Maddie Bilbo
    Maddie Bilbo 5 days ago

    Ohhhh yeahhhhh, my boyfriend and I in our first year would fight so hard and very often. Now our arguments are much less often and less intense. It's much better but hell yes, the first year is hard

  • Nooria Bahaduri
    Nooria Bahaduri 5 days ago

    I am not engaged but seeing these relationship struggles makes my relationship seem more real. I am experiencing my first relationship so hearing stories like these really help a lot. I see so many similarities between both relationships and im thankful that I don't feel alone anymore. Thanks for the amazing advice!