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  • Jubilee
    Jubilee  4 months ago +1329

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    • Arianna H
      Arianna H 4 months ago

      Beautiful people being torn apart by miserable disgusting people who have no self worth so they destroy others.

  • Yutz
    Yutz 7 hours ago

    0:45 literally me and my dad..

  • Erick Perez
    Erick Perez 9 hours ago

    Watching these videos really makes me think about everything I have said to everyone in my entire lifetime. Weird how little things make a big difference.

  • Rose
    Rose Day ago

    My biggest family secret is that my brother is actually my half brother. I never knew he was my half brother until I was 12. (He is 8 years older than me.) My mom told me how his biological dad left him, but she never told me why. I just cant even imagine how alone my brother felt until my dad showed up.

  • nina Colunga
    nina Colunga Day ago

    I have a secret my parents smoke and do weed they have been doing it since I can remember it’s scary because I found out when I was 9 I still to this day am terrified of the fact that I knew what it was, I remember it saying it was medical marijuana yet they have no conditions or diseases but I remember them going to this apartment complex around every week I assume that’s where they got it from they now vape it and I’m afraid that one day they’ll get caught and I won’t have parents

  • applejuicyjuice
    applejuicyjuice Day ago

    Why are you smiling so hard about adoption?

  • minsocrazy312
    minsocrazy312 2 days ago

    I've never had an adult that I could honestly depend on since both of my parents have issues and I always have to be brave and have a strong face for my little sister. I feel so alone because I've always had to be the adult. I wish my parents were more mature.

  • James S
    James S 3 days ago +1

    Can I have someone to talk to and ask for advice?

    I have a secret that has been weighing on me.

  • Jamie Woods
    Jamie Woods 3 days ago

    Just because you’re born into a family, doesn’t mean that that’s YOUR family, no matter what you think, blood doesn’t always represent your real family

  • lil bby
    lil bby 4 days ago +1

    *i too am physically and emotionally abused by my own family*

  • Easy Andy
    Easy Andy 4 days ago

    Everyones got issues maybe we should be nicer to eachother

  • Aaliyah Goodman
    Aaliyah Goodman 4 days ago

    None of my siblings have the same dad. There are 6 of us and none of us have the same dad. My mum had my oldest sister at 18. My mum was dating my dad at 38, he was 28 and my sister wad 18. My sister had an affair with my dad and ruined my family. I can never forgive her

  • sky scrayper Messick

    1:42 i never told my parents either bc i was scared if they go to the school and scream at the kids who bulliedme bc i thought it makes everything worse. I was bullied 4 years

  • genesis matute
    genesis matute 5 days ago

    the intro. wow.

  • Alina Vasile
    Alina Vasile 5 days ago

    "we all want to show our parents that we are strong even when things aren't fine" that hit me hard. even the fact that that is true..just..

  • ZestyFruit Loops
    ZestyFruit Loops 6 days ago

    2:18 what do they mean not related? If they both came from their mom the would be right?

    • xiokay.
      xiokay. 3 days ago

      i don't understand too :/

  • fuck, bitch, shit! Mobamba

    My secret is that my dad used to abuse my mom, and I never knew until now.

  • ItsPoppy
    ItsPoppy 6 days ago

    I constantly lied to everyone I knew by saying that I was fine that happened for 4 years until my mum noticed I "looked sad" and I have been getting help for the past year. It hasn't helped but i say it does. And I'm only 14

  • Oletram Ekaf
    Oletram Ekaf 9 days ago +1

    How does it simply happen that anonymous secrets are so often similar to things that random people reading them have been through? Is this really not staged?

  • Anika Ahmed
    Anika Ahmed 9 days ago

    Family can either be your best friend or the cause of your pain...

  • c h e r r y & s t r a w b e r r y

    I cried everytime my parents yells at me, because i always have the thought that they will hit me....they always hit me.

  • Books & Solitude
    Books & Solitude 10 days ago

    _this hits _*_home_*

  • Pygmy Puff
    Pygmy Puff 12 days ago

    That first one was deep.

  • DiSoPoInTmEnT
    DiSoPoInTmEnT 12 days ago

    Me Wan 3k like $$$

  • Drizzy
    Drizzy 13 days ago +1

    Wow the intro

  • BoBa_ vibes
    BoBa_ vibes 14 days ago

    Oooohhh Mexican household watch out for the chancla

  • Gabrielle Ferrell
    Gabrielle Ferrell 14 days ago +1

    2:15 happened to me twice but one with my sister and one with my “dad”

  • ιт'ѕ кιωι
    ιт'ѕ кιωι 15 days ago

    When it’s your own family it’s worse....

  • Billy The Kid
    Billy The Kid 15 days ago

    Nothing like an uncle who stole everything from your grandfather by power of attorney? No sister you've never met at 35 cuz your dad gave up his rights before you were born? Gimme a break. These are weak.

  • Billy The Kid
    Billy The Kid 15 days ago

    You called your sister retarded?! Are you serious? That's the worst you got?!

  • Lucy T
    Lucy T 15 days ago +1

    Self love

  • Clorox Bleach
    Clorox Bleach 15 days ago

    i was physically and verbally abused by my mom and sister and i still am. there are often bruises on my arms and i pretend that it was an accident so i dont get in trouble when my mom and siszer hear it.

  • Cloaked _
    Cloaked _ 15 days ago

    I gotta secret when I was 5 my sister uhm well raped me I guess like she made me finger her and like I didnt know what I was doing then but I sure as hell do now and we are cool somehow but there's always this dark gloom I think of her sometimes... I think she thinks that I dont remember but I do

  • 人生を去る年_2生涯 〈3

    I'm still a bad person

  • Ugly Rat
    Ugly Rat 18 days ago +2

    0:47 is something I can relate too...

  • Dᴀɴɪᴇʟ
    Dᴀɴɪᴇʟ 18 days ago +1

    It is the worst being put up for adoption when you’re big enough to realize it. Leaving your family who you have formed a relationship with for so long. And then being put in someone’s home who you have never seen before, and basically start a new life. I was put up for adoption when I was 9 years old, I’m 13 right now, and it sucks. I haven’t seen my family in over 4 years. They basically abandoned me. And it sucks because I felt like we TRULY loved eachother as a family. But I guess not, and I hope it will get better...💔

  • Hailey Andrew
    Hailey Andrew 18 days ago

    1:37 I actually can relate that a lot, I got abused from my
    Sister verbally, mentally, emotionally, and physically

  • Koda Kent
    Koda Kent 19 days ago

    The first person who wrote the first secret shouldn't be ashamed of what they said we all say stuff we dont mean sometimes and thats just wrong that the parent said she degraded her little sister she probably didn't mean to say what she said

  • AT Star
    AT Star 19 days ago +1

    Once I told my mom in a fight...
    That she deserved her miscarriage
    I still can't get over that

  • BTS trash Bin
    BTS trash Bin 20 days ago +1

    This is messed up...

  • brionna scales
    brionna scales 20 days ago

    i don’t really understand the first one, can someone explain?

    • brionna scales
      brionna scales 17 days ago

      Fabián A. Faget Amaral that’s so sad 😞

    • Fabián A. Faget Amaral
      Fabián A. Faget Amaral 17 days ago

      brionna scales There dad didn’t want them. So, what the mom did was that she payed him to stay with them. She stopped paying him, and since he didn’t want them, he just left. (That’s what I got from it)

  • Latrice Lorraine
    Latrice Lorraine 21 day ago +1

    Can someone please explain the first one?

    • Fabián A. Faget Amaral
      Fabián A. Faget Amaral 17 days ago

      Latrice Lorraine There dad didn’t want them. So, what the mother did was that she payed him to stay with the kids. So, when she stopped paying him, he just left. (That’s what I got from it)

  • Annonamus Person
    Annonamus Person 22 days ago

    Dad left....Abused me when I went to visit...Told me I wasnt allowed to see him anymore and never come back...Brother took on the role of big brother and father...I love him so much...But he doesnt love me nearly as much...He gets mad when I cry thinking about him leaving or dying....I would lose a dad and brother.....I tell myself to just stay away to make him happy...But everytime I forget and he tells me to leave...Its a reminder that he will never love me the way I love him...That he doesnt want a daughter...Maybe not even a sister...And I am just a burden

  • LilMama InPajamas
    LilMama InPajamas 22 days ago

    My "family" has a lot of abuse and mental illness...it's a huge part of why I hardly talk to or spend time with them anymore.

  • Forbidden Pandora
    Forbidden Pandora 22 days ago +1

    I'm still verbally emotionally and physically abused by my family.

  • LM5hassnatchedme already

    0:48 is literally my story. My mom hates me. She made me hate myself too.

  • Sabine Meyer
    Sabine Meyer 23 days ago +1

    I feel like when the last persons secret was shared they were referring to the fact that maybe one parent cheated on the other and was then covered up?? I don’t know, that’s just how I interpreted it.

  • Khaled Jaber
    Khaled Jaber 26 days ago

    I feel like I have to share this with you I don't need to be anonymous.
    I was born in Chicago Illinois in 1992, I spend like 5 years of my childhood there, and for some reason my dad had to move to saudi arabia for work, sooner or later am gonna come back to my birthplace, and am too shame to say that all what I know about the US is from watching movies, and am not sure if the society is going to accept me or no, my biggest fear is that am gonna be treated like an outsider or unwelcome, am really confused and don't know what am I suppos to do

  • Alexis Hayashi
    Alexis Hayashi 26 days ago

    My dad thinks he's harry potter. It blew up at school. Other students found my dads story on Facebook and posted it so my whole junior class could see. They ridiculed him. They called him crazy. I wasnt bullied, but I bullied myself. I tell myself that everyone thinks that im crazy because my dad is crazy. So depression hit hard. I just want him to disappear.

    • Fabián A. Faget Amaral
      Fabián A. Faget Amaral 17 days ago

      Alexis Hayashi Oh, my bad. I thought you were insulting him because you were being ridiculed by him everyday. I didn’t realize you just wanted him to leave so that people stopped ridiculing him.

    • Alexis Hayashi
      Alexis Hayashi 17 days ago

      +Fabián A. Faget Amaral well he is being ridiculed. That's the reality. Of course I appreciate the life lessons he taught me. But what he claims isnt something that he just "enjoys" doing. It's an actual living style hes adopted. He will never let this go for the rest of his life. One day I guess I'll learn to accept it, but it hurts to see people hate on him. And I dont want that for him.

    • Fabián A. Faget Amaral
      Fabián A. Faget Amaral 17 days ago

      Alexis Hayashi Why would you want your father to disappear? He’s the one that shows you most of life’s lessons along with your other family members. Just because he enjoys doing something doesn’t mean that he should be ridiculed by your classmates and yourself. Sorry, but you’re a pain in the ass if you don’t let people enjoy themselves.

  • MCKENZIE BBY
    MCKENZIE BBY 26 days ago

    prevalent or prevalent?

  • Troubled Chavy
    Troubled Chavy 26 days ago

    ❤️ ❤️❤️ this is for anyone struggling
    Ur not alone 🤦🏼‍♀️

  • Maya Is Here
    Maya Is Here 26 days ago +1

    The very beginning.... oh my god.

  • Eadie Fuller Xx
    Eadie Fuller Xx 26 days ago

    These make me depressed but help me think of how easy I’ve got life compaired to these other ppl 😕

  • Lovey Mills
    Lovey Mills 28 days ago

    I have autism. I didnt talk when i was little. My family didnt wonna deal with me, so they would lock me in my room. Sometimes they would hit me. A family friend called CPS but i couldnt talk, and i didnt wonna be taken from my mother, so nothing happened. When i started talking, they would put duct tape over my mouth and restrain me. As i got older, they would hit me more, my dad would even choke me. Sometimes my mother would hit me with a leather belt, leaving marks on the backs of my thighs. My mother pushed me to diet with her, even tho i was underweight and would constantly comment about they way i looked and the things i ate. (I am now a recovered anorexia) I never said anything because i thought this was all normal. When i got older, my best friend (who was also in an abusive home) and I would help each other cover marks and bruises with makeup so that no one at school would say anything. One day, when i was 16, my sister punched me repeatedly in the face during a verbal arguement. It was so bad that makeup wouldnt cover all of it. When the school called CPS i didnt tell them about how my parents treated me. And no one outside of school believed when i told them that my adult sister had hurt me. Not CPS. Not my parents. If people here knew about all of this, they would either turn on me and call me a psychotic liar (like they did when i told them about my adult sister punching me), or they would turn on my parents and my parents would be left seen as horrible people.
    My fiancee still cant touch my face, or touch my neck at all, even though we have been in a very safe relationship for 6 years, because i start to panic.

  • Emma Omolaiye
    Emma Omolaiye 29 days ago

    When I watch these type of videos I honestly feel so much heartbreak for the authors of these secrets. I guess this is making it about me but I feel so grateful to have family that even though, I got frustrated with sometimes, always tried their best to make me feel loved and show me what agape love looks like and I just wish that kind of upbringing upon everyone in this world

  • Jett wright
    Jett wright 29 days ago

    My siblings all have wavy hair and lighter skin. Which is confusing, because they want my curly hair and brown skin, and I want their wavy hair and lighter skin.

  • Haileigh G0511
    Haileigh G0511 Month ago

    1:50 😭 that was so-

  • Daniel Hobgen
    Daniel Hobgen Month ago

    I imagined Jackie 'The Jokeman' Martling and Gilbert Gottfried reacting to these stories.

  • JJ nasif
    JJ nasif Month ago

    0:51 relatable

  • fuc nibbas
    fuc nibbas Month ago

    My family is dysfunctional, they always have secrets and they think you don't know because I was the "little naive girl". I was always curious, but I wish I wasn't. All the terrible things they put each other through and the fact that I only scratched the surface! They treat me like a servant, but I am this close to snapping 👌 so y'all pray for my family🙏.

  • David Garcia
    David Garcia Month ago

    im crying on how some of these i relate so much too.

  • Palina Maruek
    Palina Maruek Month ago

    How you always have gay in video...where do you find. Gay market

    • Palina Maruek
      Palina Maruek Month ago

      I knew before gay one get sometjing with bullying

  • jupiter 111
    jupiter 111 Month ago

    my mum told me on my graduation day from an ivy league that if I didn't return to God, I would never succeed on my own in life. That I was doomed in every thing I did.

  • AridiaEditz Forever

    My twin is autism >:(

  • Thot Patrol
    Thot Patrol Month ago

    ...oof

  • Lillian Earls
    Lillian Earls Month ago

    It feels like the world is against me when I'm with my family. I have a very sweet dad and even though i know my mom loves me, the way she shows it is sick. She talks to me in a very condescending way and has made me afraid of adult and yelling. My sister shames me for not liking her, i love her but i don't know how to like her after she has made me feel like such a burden.

  • omu*
    omu* Month ago

    the one about the mom & the dad fighting then moving in with their aunt & uncle who also fought hit me so hard. i live in a very small apartment with my family and my parents fight constantly. it sucks since the walls are so thin and me & my little sister sleep in a room right next to them. i get sick of being cooped up in that place hearing them argue all the time and the only other place i can stay at is at my grandparents' place, but they fight just as much as my parents, if not worse. the thing about it being like a domino effect struck me because that's exactly what i'm terrified of. i don't want my relationship in the future to end up like them.

  • Zeenat Ullah
    Zeenat Ullah Month ago

    The one with the girl not being able to talk to her mum because she calls her worthless........that one is deep

  • es4 es
    es4 es Month ago

    this made me cry

  • Maryam Khalid
    Maryam Khalid Month ago

    I have a happy family but still i'm not happy i don't know why maybe because my father shows dominance over my mother and treat her like he owns her.i love them both but this just disturbs me

  • brianna s
    brianna s Month ago

    1:18 I felt that tho

  • expressi._.depressi

    It’s not fine.... I’m not fine, I want people to know but I just can’t tell them

    • Honey
      Honey Month ago

      If you're depressed, tell someone, anyone or any trusted person so they can help you seek help

  • D.
    D. Month ago

    That last girl with pink hair, pushing through the pain. Extremely strong, carry on fighting whatever you're going through everyone !❤️

  • Squishys games etc. Toys

    All I can is wow...

  • Traven Garnett
    Traven Garnett Month ago

    My older sister would constantly degrade me, hit me, and told me to die. My mom didn’t believe me. I still don’t talk to her. Thank god she moved away

  • Brooklyn
    Brooklyn Month ago

    I thought one was gonna be like "my dads a serial killer"

  • Subscribe to pewdiepie

    I was diagnosed with cancer, and my parents were really only focused on my health. Three month later, into the treatment we found my sister hung off the loft balcony. I can never stop thinking it was me who made her hang herself. I am still fighting cancer, and it hurts, but what hurts worst is knowing my sister is gone because of me.

  • Lil kid with dreams
    Lil kid with dreams Month ago +2

    One of my close friends parents died when he was 3-4 months old. He was adopted by a couple that look like they could be his parents. He told me, his girlfriend, his ex girlfriend (back when they where together), and the school counselor. His brother didn't know and I accidentally told him. I paid my friends brother to keep quite. When my friend found out his brother and I blamed it on his ex ( when they were still together). They broke up, and I blame myself that I ruined a happy relationship.

  • Slay Ace
    Slay Ace Month ago

    If anyone ever wants to talk about their experience with a break up, sexual assault, depression, bullying, mental illness, the loss of a loved one, family problems, personal issues, well being, bad friends, life decisions, domestic violence, trust issues, the past, dark things you have done in the past and want to better now-(bullied, cheated on someone, lied to someone etc), anxiety, phobias and fears, nightmares or good or bad friends. Even men, if you’re scared to speak up about something that bothers you because it might make you look or feel wimpy and weak. There are no judgements here, honestly. So just in general if anyone wants to tell their story to someone who is willing to listen, I’m all ears and would like to help you go through tough times and would honestly try my best to help out. I’ve been through some stages of my life where I had no one to support me or listen and I’d never wish that on anyone else so please dm me on instagram @twoway_c I don’t want anyone to go through the feeling of being alone like I did ❤️

  • prince bee
    prince bee Month ago

    When I got bullied I just gain more friends to back me up

  • - Spaced Out - & - Space Bound -

    No matter how bad you think your life is, there's always someone going through something worse. These people have gone through things that I have, thankfully, never experienced. I am so sorry for these people who have. This makes me feel so bad because I've always been in a good home and had a pretty good life, granted I've gone through some things, but none of them compare to some of these.

  • ゴミ箱ゲイボイ

    my parents has recently split and I was the first one out of my three older sisters to know the true reason why. My mom has been saying that she just didn't love my dad anymore which was true, but the other reasons because she slept around with other men for many years before splitting up with my dad. It's hard to look her in the eye, but I always have to pretend that everything's normal.

  • {Dawn}
    {Dawn} Month ago +1

    2:08 I wanted to show my parents I was strong so I kept all my feelings and emotions inside, after 6 years of doing that I was diagnosed with clinical depression.

  • Simbaholic
    Simbaholic Month ago

    I recently found out that my older sister has struggled with depression, anxiety and bulimia for years, and our mom would make it all about herself and how hard it was on her. She told my sister she was just making it all up for attention. My sister also had to wait until she was 18 to fill her antidepressant prescription because our mom wouldn't let her. And all this was kept secret because Mom thought it would make her look bad to other people.
    I also found out that my sister is autistic like me, and she suffered the same emotional abuse I did - being forced to act normal and being told that we didn't matter, we didn't have a right to an opinion, our parents didn't care about our feelings, etc. Basically our mom sees us as extensions of herself whose only purpose in life is to make her look good.

  • lol lipop
    lol lipop Month ago

    ...my deepest secret is..




    I never showed my 6. grade school report to my mom

  • OREO
    OREO Month ago

    The very first one hit hard

  • Grade Is A Nonce
    Grade Is A Nonce Month ago

    My mum and dad lied to me and my sister that the dog died, but we found out a few years later that they really gave him away...

  • CREATING LIFE
    CREATING LIFE Month ago

    The last time when i saw my grandfather.he was sick.i was looking at him that night he smile at me and i smile at him the day after that he died ive never felt so sad

  • your moms right big toe hair

    i can relate to some of these..

  • beautiful skies
    beautiful skies Month ago

    my family secret is.......




    I am asian and since asian moms tend to hit their children with belts and brooms.... she hit us with stuff around her... T.T (shoes... toys..... towels..... clothes.... ETC)

  • Shook
    Shook Month ago

    Us hispanics get abused by a sandal. A sandal! 💀

  • DIY with Katniss
    DIY with Katniss Month ago

    The one about the mom, room, suicidal thoughts; that hit me as it's exactly what happens to me :(( You really feel so scared and hopeless in situations like that, and you have no control over it

  • tali grace
    tali grace Month ago

    When you're in the thick of it you feel like it will be this way forever... it seems unbearable i keep trying to find comfort in pain and hope to make it out.

  • — lcvejxn
    — lcvejxn Month ago

    I’m so thankful for my family- sure we may be living in a old home and we may not have a lot of money but I love them and I love my home- I’m so sorry to the people who grew up in a broken home. I pray for better things to come your way

  • Chan Chii
    Chan Chii Month ago

    Abused by my brother not the worst thing happened to me. When it happened, I have no idea what that was, and I only realize it when I was 11. The worst thing is I feel fine about that. Such a big mess in my mind that I will never can rid of.

  • Potato head
    Potato head Month ago

    0:46 that hit me hard😟

  • yee yee
    yee yee Month ago

    ever since 2016 to now, i have never liked myself, sometimes i like myself but overall it’s just been hate. i had done something that disappointed myself. I wanted to cry so much and I did but I couldn’t tell my parents because I know that if I do, i will never feel okay. I feel guilty and I hate myself so much. I told my cousin and he understood but I didn’t tell him everything. I have just been so hurt from what happened. So that’s the story of how I’ve hated myself for 3 years going on to four. (the thing I did, did not involve anything sexual/physical)

  • Peachycow
    Peachycow Month ago +1

    What’s strange is I also used to get called Mutt... my father is Native and my mom is white(?)
    I come from a very small and mostly white area (redneck) in my high school their are only about 15 colored students..
    Most of them are like me..
    I hang out with a friend who is Hispanic and Asian(Philippines) we big laugh about the times when we would both get called ‘Mutts’ and ‘Off colored’.
    I definitely don’t miss the days when girls would scrunch their noses at me and scream “She’s going to scalp our heads! Run!”
    Or ask if I missed John Smith.

  • King yuh
    King yuh Month ago

    “Me and my sister are not related we dont want to ruin a loving relationship” ummm i dont think its loving if your mother cheated sis