I'm A Tomboy, And No One Wants To Date Me

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    This is Jo. Actually, her name is Josephine, but you wouldn’t be able to imagine a person less suitable to be called Josephine. She’s a tomboy, and she’s proud of it. However, life as a tomboy is not as amusing as you might imagine. She’s faced a lot of problems, and she wants to tell you about them.
    Jo had trouble communicating with other girls right from her early childhood. She remembers one time when a large group of children had gathered in one place for a party or something, and her mom gently pushed her towards the other girls and said, “go play with the dolls, make friends with someone!” She diligently started moving dolls here and there and listening to boring talk about girly problems, but all the while she kept looking at the boys, who were playing something thrilling, laughing and doing their boyish stuff. She was so envious that at some point she just silently stood up and joined them. That was the moment when the fun started for her.
    Things didn’t improve as the years went by. Jo was always attracted to the world of boys, and all of her friends were boys as well. She felt at ease when she talked to them, and felt that she understood their problems and their way of thinking better. Whereas when she was around girls, she was totally clueless. Their problems were hard for her to follow, especially when they complained about boys.
    Jo had to adapt her looks to her lifestyle as well. When she went out with her friends, they always did something active, like skateboarding or exploring abandoned buildings or climbing trees. For these kinds of things, you need to dress in a practical way. She found out that jeans and hoodies are much more comfortable in this respect than typical girls’ clothes, which she had always hated in any case. And that is how she has dressed her whole life. For Jo, it was always a tragedy when they made some formal visit and she needed to dress “properly”, as people would call it. A cute dress, shiny shoes, a neat hairdo… ugh. As you can probably imagine, phrases like “wear skirts, be more feminine, you’re a girl” were the things she kept hearing time and again, until at one point her parents just gave up.
    It wasn’t that Jo felt she was ugly or anything, and that being a tomboy was her way of gaining confidence. She actually thinks she’s quite cute, and when she’s forced to be a girly girl she looks no worse than her peers. For her, being a tomboy is a lifestyle, and she’s happy with that. The problem was that some time ago, she’d noticed that her friends had started dating.
    One of the things that people were often mistaken about was the belief that because Jo was a tomboy, she must be gay. But she’s actually attracted to boys, not girls. Ironically, she actually gets a lot of backtalking from girls who say that she’s just trying to get attention from all the boys around her. She’s never taken this seriously, because she’s never had THAT kind of attention from the boys. Which is actually the core of her problem.
    Yes, she’s seeking her first romance. She has lots of boys around her. So what’s the problem, you might ask. The problem is that they don’t really see her as a girl! They know she’s a girl, of course, but they don’t want to date her, because who would date a bro? Once, there was a boy she liked, and she thought it would be wise to approach him and ask if he wanted to go out with her. And guess what - he just laughed at her! He wasn’t mean or anything, it was more something like “Sorry bro, I don’t see you as a GIRL”. Seeing the look on her face, he corrected himself: “I mean, THAT kind of a girl”. Oh thanks, now that’s much better!
    This was the first time when being a tomboy had a negative effect on her life. She even tried to put on make up and a dress, but felt really weird and the boys just looked at her strange as well. She gave up and lost hope. It seemed like it was a price that she had to pay to keep the comfortable and amusing life of a tomboy. She became a bit melancholic looking at all those happy couples, and felt that something was missing from her life for the first time.
    One day she was invited out to go skateboarding, but she wasn’t in the mood so she just sat there, watching her friends and thinking her sad thoughts. One of her oldest friends soon came over to sit with her and asked why she was so sad. She didn’t want to lie, so she explained everything as it really was - that no one wanted to date her because no one considered her a potential girlfriend. “Don’t cry”, he said, “I’ll go on a date with you!” She refused out self-respect. “I don’t need charity”, she said. Suddenly, he became very serious and said that he really wanted to. And so she accepted. Accidentally, she had made the same mistake all her friends had made with her - she hadn’t considered his feelings, because you don’t go on dates with buddies. Well, she was mistaken.
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  • Wolfynx XD
    Wolfynx XD 4 hours ago

    I am a tomboy but i didnt cut my hair cuz i love it long also i hate wearing skirts and dresses and playing with dolls. I love wearing shorts and some dinosaur boy tshirts and also most of my friends are boys

  • Hila Azia
    Hila Azia 4 hours ago

    This is me

  • Hila Azia
    Hila Azia 4 hours ago

    Imma tomboy too!

  • Your worst night mare Xdd

    Wtf ok if no one likes you deal with it omg this makes no sense

  • Gucci girl
    Gucci girl 5 hours ago

    Will...that was one of the most beautiful videos I've ever seen

  • Galaxy Asteroid
    Galaxy Asteroid 5 hours ago

    So she just has a boyish style but still has a touch of a girl

  • Lil TaeTae
    Lil TaeTae 6 hours ago

    Live your life because you only live once

  • everything you want chanel Animations

    I am a tomboy and my parents are so angry and my crush don't like me because I am a tomboy

  • Hadiya Waheed
    Hadiya Waheed 8 hours ago

    You sound like a boy not a girl

  • Amateurspark 999
    Amateurspark 999 9 hours ago

    I watched this vid and looked at the title and laughed my ass off cuz if your a tomboy let’s just say like 5 people like u 🤣

  • scarlett
    scarlett 12 hours ago

    Fucking pussy, you’re crying over nothing

  • Annanya Mishra
    Annanya Mishra 12 hours ago

    Same

  • Kim Jazmin Babasa
    Kim Jazmin Babasa 13 hours ago

    love hoodies

  • Funkelicious Cream Crakker

    can we pls be friends or what. this person, whoever you are.

  • Batman25
    Batman25 15 hours ago

    A would be able to but I cant

  • Sauron the Collector
    Sauron the Collector 16 hours ago

    When you're into tomboys but cant ever find one. -_- sue me.

  • Briana Ren
    Briana Ren 16 hours ago

    I’m a tomboy and no boys like me

  • kitcat crazycat
    kitcat crazycat 17 hours ago

    AWWWWWWWWWW GET IT SISSSTEEEERRRRRRR

  • Nicole Ansaldo
    Nicole Ansaldo 18 hours ago

    My family are proud of who I am, and the love part? I'm too young but I decided to be a lone-wolf

  • Nicole Ansaldo
    Nicole Ansaldo 18 hours ago

    I'm a tomboy too

  • The Royalist
    The Royalist 18 hours ago

    This girl gets me in every way. I burnt all my dresses a long time ago. 😄😊

  • Camila Elizondo
    Camila Elizondo 19 hours ago

    I’m a tomboy but ppl think I’m really cute trust me I hear it all the time

  • awesome yay
    awesome yay 19 hours ago

    Aweee

  • Sarah Belgica
    Sarah Belgica 19 hours ago

    Whoever watches Aphmau...
    IS IT JUST ME, OR DOES SHE JUST SOUND LIKE KATELYN

  • Savannah Wilson
    Savannah Wilson 19 hours ago

    No one likes me because i'm too pretty and most of the boys at my school are taken i felt like i was all alone too this day no body likes me😢😢😢😢😢

  • Ezra Harris
    Ezra Harris 20 hours ago

    I know a couple Tom boys they don’t have hard times
    Sorry

  • Mingla Limbu
    Mingla Limbu 20 hours ago +1

    Who thought that the bandage was the teeth ?! 😂😂

  • I liek green tea
    I liek green tea 20 hours ago

    Oh, I’m not really a tomboy but the only clothing I wear are hoodies and jeans, though I am a “girly girl” when it comes to sports.....

  • Mischa Chernoff
    Mischa Chernoff 20 hours ago

    Ima tomboy I know what you feel I never really liked dolls either and my friends were boy and in 6th grade their was a girl that thought I was boy for 2 weeks and my teacher looked at me like I was weird and I love jeans I practically live in jeans!and when i liked a boy he though I was TRANSGENDER i may be bi but still I couldn't believe it so when I said I liked him he said "why do you like me I thought you liked Adrianna (my bff) " one time I went to the skate park and a boy kept saying to me your like the only girl that ever comes here so I was happy I still get teased for it but that's okay I'm me.

  • Davionne Trujillo
    Davionne Trujillo 21 hour ago

    Funny cause all my friends were girl

  • Dis_boi_freddy :3
    Dis_boi_freddy :3 22 hours ago

    This is the story of my life except I don’t go around girls except my girlfriend who is also a tomboy so I don’t try to interact with girls and no I’m not a boy I’m gay

  • Vortex
    Vortex 22 hours ago

    Hey i finally know what a tom boy is lol i thought it meant you were gay lol im stupidly retarded

  • everything Girl
    everything Girl 22 hours ago

    Tbh theirs no girly clothes or boy clothes it all depends on the person but I get it

  • Jefferson Clarke
    Jefferson Clarke 22 hours ago

    You do you

  • Liv_ Life54
    Liv_ Life54 22 hours ago

    Girl I always wear hoodies and jeans and sneakers am I a tomboy🤔

  • Katelyn McCampbell
    Katelyn McCampbell 23 hours ago

    My parents always say I need to dress more like a girl 🙄

  • Thunder blitz
    Thunder blitz 23 hours ago

    anybody a tomboy cuz I am :)

  • Wolfgang The Wolf
    Wolfgang The Wolf 23 hours ago

    I’m a tomboy also! I feel ya

  • Big Slow
    Big Slow Day ago

    Idiot

  • Flowers World
    Flowers World Day ago

    Sometimes I'm like a tomboy as well so I feel you but I don't have a boyfriend so yeah

  • Amelie Redhead
    Amelie Redhead Day ago +1

    I have a crush and if I get 2 likes I will tell him

  • PixelaGames2000
    PixelaGames2000 Day ago +1

    I’m a Tom boy as well I’m into fun geeky stuff like movies video games and tv shows I never like wereing girl close I was never into girly things so yeah I totally relate to this

  • ShadowMusic Gamer

    What a good joke!No one would ever date me!

  • Mckenzie Relyea
    Mckenzie Relyea Day ago +2

    Boi you be sayin my life in a scentance
    “I’m a tomboy and no one wants to date me”
    Me in a nutshell

  • Kay JV
    Kay JV Day ago

    1:02 me

  • Kay JV
    Kay JV Day ago

    Same

  • Bri Lynn
    Bri Lynn Day ago +1

    This was relatable for me in middle school. I was a major tomboy and even got told I was lesbian from how boyish I dressed. Well years later I'm not like that and I'm not lesbian Never was and I hate how people assume that you are gay from being a tomboy. No boys at the time liked me and it sucked. But I wouldn't change my tomboy past for anything♡

  • Roxy Mae
    Roxy Mae Day ago

    yeah me too i'm a tomboy and my family don't know yet
    and every thing you said it's true the begining and the last
    THANK FOR THAT

  • Starr Vlogs
    Starr Vlogs Day ago

    im one too

  • Fluffy Duck
    Fluffy Duck Day ago

    I respect tomboys but all transgenders should die

    • pam hall
      pam hall 23 hours ago

      You mean gays why

  • Aurelius Salida
    Aurelius Salida Day ago +1

    Sorry but this is my brothers phone....(and im a girl)
    And I love the moral from the vid. Its like changing my life and cuz Im a tomboy too

  • Kewl_Cat TM
    Kewl_Cat TM Day ago +1

    I have a friend who is a tomboy ( I am boy ) And everyone wants to date her

  • Mint the Mint
    Mint the Mint Day ago

    -I'm a girl-
    -I'm a boy-
    Girl:50
    Boy:50
    Hnmmmmmmmm

  • SunflowerChan
    SunflowerChan Day ago

    1:28 I am watching this in a tree

  • lps mia 211
    lps mia 211 Day ago

    I'm a tomboy

  • Yuliani Wijaya
    Yuliani Wijaya Day ago +1

    TBH im also tomboy 😁😁😁😁😁

  • 101 Horses
    101 Horses Day ago

    I am a tom boy and the only one at school who rides horses. People think they are disgusting beasts and that is why I don't have very many friends that are girls. I have one friend though that's a girl. She is my best friend and we hang out with our friends that are boys all that time. To me though, dresses and skirts are weird and make me feel weird. I wear bootcut jeans to go over my cowboy boots and a shirt long sleeve or short, with a horse or 4H hoodie

  • shelou0sumerano shelousum

    Welp, I'm not too sure to my sexual type but I think I'm bisexual and to be honest I want to dress outfit like other girls when I go out of town and if I'm home I wear like a boy though I'm actually not sure about my sexual type though and i indeed fell in love to a woman and boys and it make me confused though and my family don't know all about this except my sis.

  • GACHA_Friendship_Group

    Don’t worry girl I’m a tomboy too but my mom wants me to wear dresses at party’s and she puts makeup on me ;-;

  • TheFuzzy Beast
    TheFuzzy Beast Day ago

    sweetie all about how you view yourself
    if you see as you also want to prove others or prove themwrong in a stereotípe, ect. then others will only see that on you :(
    Just be yourself 100%

  • Elizabeth Hall
    Elizabeth Hall Day ago

    I actually have short hair, and I also am a tomboy, so I find this relatable

  • GREAT GACHA!!! !
    GREAT GACHA!!! ! Day ago +1

    At my school, if your girly you get bullied.

  • Annabelle Wade
    Annabelle Wade Day ago

    he wish my parents 'let' me dress like a boy

  • ᴊᴀʏ ᴊᴀʏ

    Im in the middle but moslty on the tom boy side

  • Jay Animations
    Jay Animations Day ago

    Same here nobody wants to date me either,I think I will probably do a vid about my dating life,btw I haven't dated since 3rd grade

  • Saviat gymnastics

    Am a tomboy o I really hate pink and like to have short hair and wear all black were hats hang out with boys instead of girls

  • The Ultimate Oofer

    Is she dyke?

  • Valeria Is my name

    I have the same exact problem but I am not that much of a tomboy just no one wants to date me I wouldn’t even consider myself ugly but more like average

  • Captain Dextro
    Captain Dextro Day ago

    Honey, I got 3 exes and im currently dating someone. I skate I play bball i play football and im in a relationship. I'm a tomboy and i still hv a girly side tho.. aha

  • Savannah Stone
    Savannah Stone Day ago

    More girls hate me than boys and I'm a girl. I'm also a bit tomboyish because I love violent games and I hate dresses and make up. But I hate fortnite and football and please don't judge because this is my opinion. So I'm half tomboy and half girly. -_-

  • Ayden Cabrera
    Ayden Cabrera Day ago

    Don't lose hope, you'll find love eventually.

  • Ayden Cabrera
    Ayden Cabrera Day ago

    I look like a tomboy but I am a guy.

  • Melina Delgado
    Melina Delgado Day ago

    I don’t like her shirt in the beginning

  • Misty Fitzpatrick
    Misty Fitzpatrick Day ago +1

    Im a tom boy to.

  • Unicorn Glitter Star Princess

    My parents are like this wear a dress! and wear heels! Blahbalah
    1 like for this horror to end who is with me!

  • Natalie Williams

    Heh ima tomboy to but idc

  • Serena’s_Side101 Forever

    Same. I'm definitely a tom boy when it comes to how I act and look. Honestly, at the same time I can't say the same though. There are like 3 boys who I feel are stalking me.

  • Lois Chavis
    Lois Chavis Day ago

    I'm tomboy to and I don't like doll's and I like play with boys all the time

  • Wolfie Playz
    Wolfie Playz Day ago

    I'm a tomboy too but not all the way I don't wearboys clothes it's just how I act

  • XlilQueenBossxX Thompson

    How old r u

  • XlilQueenBossxX Thompson

    I'm a tomboy and I have 30 girl friends and 14 friends boys

  • Alpha Wolf
    Alpha Wolf Day ago

    I'm in the middle of being a girly girl and a tom boy. Its true sometimes playing with other girls is boring but I found a whole bunch of guy friends and friends that are girls just being me so I'm happy for that

  • Avery The Superstar

    I love this so much! My best friend is a tomboy, and I’m proud to be her best friend. I understand her like no other, even though she’s different then me. I actually started hanging out with boys thanks to her. It’s actually nice. She is the bestest friend in the world. I would never stop being her friend even if it was for 10 million dollars. We like completly different things but it’s nice talking to her when I’m upset. Never judge people for who they are. They could be worth more then a fortune.

  • Kally Anime Piano :3

    i hate girly things, i always wear hoodies, pants and boys shoes

  • life sucks
    life sucks Day ago

    Mega gay

  • kitty cat
    kitty cat Day ago

    im a tomboy

  • L K
    L K Day ago

    I’m a tomboy....I relate to the fact I can’t communicate with girly girls...

  • M ١
    M ١ Day ago

    Well I’m half half when i feel girly i wear girly things and when I’m just tomboyish things
    Who else is like me?

  • Samantha Dawn Stark

    This is what I feel like becuase no one wants to date me

  • Alice Wolfer
    Alice Wolfer Day ago

    I am a tomboy too! :)

  • Kath Boii
    Kath Boii Day ago

    I always get your a girl act like one I’m most of a Tom boy duh

  • Elizabeth Hensley

    I'm a tom boy and have bearly eveny girls as friends most boys

  • kitty gaming202
    kitty gaming202 2 days ago

    Same problem here

  • Camille8810 Meh
    Camille8810 Meh 2 days ago +1

    IT SOUNDS LIKE SHE JUST READ MY DIARY FROM ELEMENTARY SCHOOL TO HIGHSCHOOL, BUT WOTHOUT THE RELATIONSHIP AND MY EVERLASTING LONLINESS OF LIVING IN THE CRAZY STATE CALLED BALTIMORE, DONT COME HERE I SWEAR

  • Eagleseye 1625
    Eagleseye 1625 2 days ago

    I felt this on a spiritual level

  • fortnite_fan _gamer69

    I relate im a girly girl not that i have pink in my room or what ever its i hang out with my girl friends in school u have to have a pause againts girl and friends

  • Jenn East
    Jenn East 2 days ago

    I've had the same problem most of my life.

  • krissi. 1719
    krissi. 1719 2 days ago

    Am I the only one that thinks about „tombstone“ when you hear „tomboy“? (Spidey fans c‘mon!)

  • meet me in the hallway

    ill date you...