Put YOUR Assumptions to the Test... Interactive Tell My Story

  • Published on Jan 9, 2019
  • This time, YOU get to help tell their story and play along with the video. Test your assumptions by answering poll questions about the daters.
    It’s certainly easier to make assumptions about people than it is to spend time getting to know someone. We wanted to put assumptions to the test to see what we're missing out on because we're so busy assuming we already "know" a person. Join us as we discover why you should never judge a book by it’s cover in our series 'Tell My Story.'
    We are all conditioned with certain biases. In this experiment, we challenged these biases by asking people to guess their blind date partner's interests and past experiences based only on their partner's appearance. When they learned their partner's real answers, they were shocked by how wrong they were.
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Comments • 888

  • Clear minds
    Clear minds Hour ago

    He's slightly better looking than her but not that much. He seems edgy and she's more play safe in character. She tries too hard...

  • CJR G
    CJR G 3 hours ago

    He just missed out, he needs someone that is not into arts as mush as his ex's.

  • Tahseen
    Tahseen 4 hours ago

    She is a skateboard. *Sorry*

  • Camih🇧🇷
    Camih🇧🇷 7 hours ago

    I'm in love with him. His look, the way he thinks...I'm in

  • Kimora Kemp
    Kimora Kemp 14 hours ago

    Ok I need me an Italian now 😭💕

    JONES 17 hours ago +1

    i wouldn't mind a one night stand, but other than that, he seems a little high maintenance.

  • Vignesh Dhakshina
    Vignesh Dhakshina 17 hours ago

    Dude is like really, hawtttt

  • Layla Abdush-Shaheed
    Layla Abdush-Shaheed 18 hours ago

    Man: I want someone not focused on looks!
    (A 6 to his 9 walks in)
    Man: I just did not feel any desire....

  • Neda Taha
    Neda Taha 20 hours ago

    why tf did I think this was a video with jon bellion in it

  • Andrew Stanfield
    Andrew Stanfield 20 hours ago

    I thought the guy was jon bellion

  • Amy S.
    Amy S. 21 hour ago

    She's superficial and demanding.
    He can do better.

  • Day One
    Day One 23 hours ago +1

    i like this man ! i want to date him

  • J Tz
    J Tz 23 hours ago

    She's WAY too ugly and plain for a hot guy like him.

  • M.I.K.E
    M.I.K.E Day ago

    Hotter Ashton Kutcher

  • Tyra Saurus
    Tyra Saurus Day ago +1

    He’s really pretty😊

  • Belinda Joy
    Belinda Joy Day ago

    I find all of these Tell My Story segments very interesting. It is fascinating to see what causes one person to connect to another beyond the physical. In a way I think we all do this when we meet someone. Snoop around the crevices of their mind to see if there is anything there that binds us. I knew from the onset they weren't going to be a match. It's always in the eyes. The first moment when people meet. An energy.....

  • Music lolli
    Music lolli Day ago

    And he respects that the woman's body rights are affected not just parental or not parental rights.. wow...

  • Music lolli
    Music lolli Day ago

    SerioUSly.. innitiates the confrontation (healthy sort things out way) man.. I would love to meet him

  • Music lolli
    Music lolli Day ago

    Hello MR, where are you? I'm that girl, where are the you who look for talent and straight talking , and value a genuine person!! :O

  • WhyMe
    WhyMe Day ago

    I disliked the dude at first word

  • Vanessa Lucas
    Vanessa Lucas Day ago

    what's his instaaa

  • Jordan Cook
    Jordan Cook Day ago

    I totally agree with their opinions and assumptions though

  • Beraud
    Beraud Day ago

    Ah, so "into performing arts" is the new way to say "more attractive"?

  • Gaby Cornielius
    Gaby Cornielius Day ago +1

    the ending was cringe but she was a nice girl but like no honey

  • 1SparksFlyOut
    1SparksFlyOut Day ago

    She seems so sweet. If I was a man, I'd date her.

  • Live Not Die
    Live Not Die 2 days ago

    Can I have his IG??

  • Live Not Die
    Live Not Die 2 days ago +1

    Damn why do I have a weakness for Italian men?!

    • Amy S.
      Amy S. 21 hour ago +1

      Because they are hot.
      Very hot 🔥

  • Fay Khudairi
    Fay Khudairi 2 days ago +2

    "I need someone more into the arts"...."I was a dancer"....awkwardddd

  • Yasyas
    Yasyas 2 days ago

    Why do Italian dudes sound so funny

  • Shirley Ann Osei Owusu
    Shirley Ann Osei Owusu 2 days ago +3

    I don't thinn it was about her looks
    Its confidence
    He likes people that are sure of themself (genuine, says what's on their mind) and that's not her vibe

  • lily v
    lily v 2 days ago

    hes a 10

  • Rebecca Freeman
    Rebecca Freeman 2 days ago

    He sounds like gru from despicable me. No hate I loved both of them. Who else thought that?!!

  • MissLeonable
    MissLeonable 2 days ago +1

    He is great! I wanna meet him 🤩

  • Ava Meyers
    Ava Meyers 2 days ago +2

    Just the way the guy was talking it was obvious he didn't like her

  • siddhesh gandhi
    siddhesh gandhi 2 days ago

    What's his @?????

  • Bcdf 1930
    Bcdf 1930 2 days ago

    He is hot!

  • Josephine Katabarwa
    Josephine Katabarwa 2 days ago


  • Hammod Elbatal
    Hammod Elbatal 2 days ago

    She's so sweet!

  • Mya St. Clair
    Mya St. Clair 2 days ago

    She sold herself short by 1) her poor posture and 2) she spoke too much. He didn’t deserve her, she would have been too nice to him. He’s looking to be dominated IMHO.

  • michelle davis
    michelle davis 2 days ago

    landscape architecture is the best career, totally not biased because that's what I do or anything lol

  • Garfield 3
    Garfield 3 2 days ago

    He looks somewhat like Engin Akyurek.😄

  • Taekook Universe
    Taekook Universe 2 days ago

    Well that sucks

  • Jasmin Adous
    Jasmin Adous 2 days ago

    oh my god what's his @

  • rachelobire
    rachelobire 2 days ago

    they tryna bandersnatch us

    POPPYSILK 2 days ago

    If I don’t know you, of course I would put “I wouldn’t date you”. Doesn’t make me superficial.

  • Daphne Akpotu
    Daphne Akpotu 2 days ago

    12:27 dayum

  • :: SBK ::
    :: SBK :: 2 days ago +2

    Yes the guy is hot but can we just talk about how happy joyful sweet open hearted person this women is!! Idk she just gives out that perfect really innocent never been hurt and lovely vibe!!

  • Yaz
    Yaz 2 days ago

    I think i am in love with him

  • polymathecian
    polymathecian 2 days ago

    He's too kind.

  • ebony
    ebony 2 days ago

    why does he look like Jon Bellion kinda

  • Glutamate Sulphate
    Glutamate Sulphate 2 days ago

    Are they seeing each other or not?? Could we please get a follow up!!!!

  • Kayla ay
    Kayla ay 2 days ago

    anyone from 2019 here?

  • Kayla ay
    Kayla ay 2 days ago

    I love the whole attracted by talent thing!

  • Alexandra Nicole
    Alexandra Nicole 2 days ago

    I....love him??

  • Shriya Chowa
    Shriya Chowa 3 days ago

    He wasn't into her at all. Glad he refused her politely.

  • Happy Person
    Happy Person 3 days ago

    beautiful body :D

  • Sakina Fletcher
    Sakina Fletcher 3 days ago

    She is very authentic, intelligent and self aware 💛 wish them both the best

  • Brea Kandanga
    Brea Kandanga 3 days ago +1

    Ottavio is looking for me! :D

  • Sonia S
    Sonia S 3 days ago +2

    I don't think they're a different attractiveness level per se. A different personality, and socioeconomical background. I think he was put off because she doesn't have an expensive vibe to her look, and I find him kind of stiff and serious, whereas she is fun and quirky. I'd definitely rather date her

  • Sonia S
    Sonia S 3 days ago

    She reminds me of Phoebe from friends?!

  • Kirstyn Ashlee
    Kirstyn Ashlee 3 days ago +1

    She talks A LOT, and it’s not really giving more information, it’s just a nervous tick that seems a bit off-putting.

  • Malvika Jain
    Malvika Jain 3 days ago

    attractive guy.. problem patch with his moustache.. that one patch.. just wanted to make it right :P

  • sama shaheen
    sama shaheen 3 days ago


  • haritima shukla
    haritima shukla 3 days ago

    I love the men's voice 💕

  • Anoshag ruwan
    Anoshag ruwan 3 days ago

    I love everything about him😭 and he’s accent 😭💔💔

  • Isabelle
    Isabelle 3 days ago

    They both seem like such nice people!

  • Simmonds
    Simmonds 3 days ago

    I hate when men pretend they are not physically attracted to someone, his body language said it all. dickhead.

  • Thomas Keets
    Thomas Keets 3 days ago

    I think she’s thinking she can change his mind by staying friends.

  • Ken Powers
    Ken Powers 3 days ago +1

    Looks and attraction still matter a great deal...case in point.

  • A New Love Official
    A New Love Official 3 days ago +1

    I really thought that everything was perfect but when he said that he's not interested in her to date,
    I feel so sad about her because I can definitely see that she likes him.
    But I guess it's still okay because he doesn't want to hurt her feelings for saying he likes her but the truth is not.

  • Bevi B
    Bevi B 3 days ago

    they would have been perfect together 😣

  • Maria Dimitropoulos
    Maria Dimitropoulos 3 days ago


  • Melaf .k
    Melaf .k 3 days ago +1

    HE LOOK LIKE CASTIEL! Sam and Dean needs to keep an eye on their angel..

  • Emily L
    Emily L 3 days ago +1

    He's a douche nozzle knew the moment I saw him lmao

  • Yael Koren
    Yael Koren 3 days ago

    I think in the end where she gave it "one last shot" saying "I'm a dancer and I can teach you!" was a bit... I dont know awkward... like o.k., he's cute, but you are cute too, & i'm sure you can find someone else, that is attracted to you.

  • Anna Rota
    Anna Rota 3 days ago +1

    From first look, I knew he had to be Italian.
    Btw I’m Italian too

  • lagunabxo
    lagunabxo 4 days ago

    I thought the guy was Jon Bellion when I scrolled past the thumbnail

  • PaKou Yang
    PaKou Yang 4 days ago

    Jon Bellion?

  • Nomiki saroukou
    Nomiki saroukou 4 days ago

    He has a Johnny Depp vibe. Am I right?

  • Many_ sided
    Many_ sided 4 days ago

    5:34 Okay yeah sure no body wants to deal with problems, i get that, it be a pain in the ass sometimes, but! the problem is just going to get bigger and more mess would be created, better deal with it sooner than later, even when you decide to not deal with it your going to have to deal with the consequences.

  • Kinali BTS
    Kinali BTS 4 days ago

    The end was so awkward ...

  • Emmanuella Frimpong
    Emmanuella Frimpong 4 days ago

    Yes they weren't attracted to each other equally but more importantly they had no chemistry and were total opposites

  • CaapriceTube
    CaapriceTube 4 days ago +6

    I think she’s just to cookie cut wonder bread for him. He wants a girl with culture some spizazz. Like an exotic looking type who loves to dance or travel from Ibiza or Morocco.


    This guy have sitting problem either exposed, either layed etc

    MONICANDO PLAY 4 days ago

    omg OMG the ending made me realize this man just lost the love of his life! nononono call them back THAT IS THE SADDEST VIDEO I'VE EVER SEEN HOW WHY OMG

  • Alice Marie
    Alice Marie 4 days ago

    Well maybe I'm gay because this guy is not attractive to me and is actually very annoying.

  • patricia mwansa
    patricia mwansa 4 days ago

    God he is so cute

  • Jessica Gibb
    Jessica Gibb 4 days ago


  • Kennedy McGee
    Kennedy McGee 4 days ago

    she’s cute

  • Tharaa S Watters
    Tharaa S Watters 4 days ago

    Problems will solve itself? ya.

  • Orlando Florida
    Orlando Florida 5 days ago

    He was cute what’s his Instagram ?

  • Juliet Sparks
    Juliet Sparks 5 days ago


  • SuperBreezy100
    SuperBreezy100 5 days ago

    He looks like Jon bellion

  • Darina K
    Darina K 5 days ago

    Europeans are more free, playful, and sexy. White Americans who don't have a culture besides 'American' are very stiff, and just not sexy.

  • Narmeen Ulfdfd
    Narmeen Ulfdfd 5 days ago

    My heart is beating when I saw this man this is the only reason I’m here 🔥😍😍🤣🤣

  • Impulse
    Impulse 5 days ago

    that chick is so going to chase him... this guy did the right thing... what a playa!

  • Impulse
    Impulse 5 days ago

    I just saw soul pancake and clicked on here just so I can comment :) ktnksbye

  • AKai
    AKai 5 days ago

    Based on values and morally, he is my type af. Come to me!

  • Yashash Dave
    Yashash Dave 5 days ago

    Burned ! Were dem feminist at !

  • Lx A
    Lx A 5 days ago +16

    I could never do this LOL I would just dissolve into the ground once the guy said ‘when I first saw you I would.... not date you’.