Put YOUR Assumptions to the Test... Interactive Tell My Story

  • Published on Jan 9, 2019
  • This time, YOU get to help tell their story and play along with the video. Test your assumptions by answering poll questions about the daters.
    It’s certainly easier to make assumptions about people than it is to spend time getting to know someone. We wanted to put assumptions to the test to see what we're missing out on because we're so busy assuming we already "know" a person. Join us as we discover why you should never judge a book by it’s cover in our series 'Tell My Story.'
    We are all conditioned with certain biases. In this experiment, we challenged these biases by asking people to guess their blind date partner's interests and past experiences based only on their partner's appearance. When they learned their partner's real answers, they were shocked by how wrong they were.
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  • D.H. Withers
    D.H. Withers 20 hours ago

    The second he opened his mouth I was like "THIS GUY SALSA DANCES"

  • clockwork red
    clockwork red 7 days ago

    Closes his eyes

  • **adembasou**
    **adembasou** 8 days ago

    at first i liked him but i was blinded by looks, when he said that he is pro abortion he became ugly af+he is shallow and he has no clue what true friendship is and PLUS that, that the foundtion of every true love is being best friends!!!!

  • Ellie Pena
    Ellie Pena 9 days ago

    am i the only one who isnt so keen on the guy? I just kind of have a gut feeling that hes not being totally genuine

  • Ashley Aldeza
    Ashley Aldeza 9 days ago

    The guy is cute. I would date him.

  • Hassan Rabat
    Hassan Rabat 11 days ago +1

    Lol she ugly she not his type more like sexy thick women with black hair brown eyes like Middle Eastern women or Kim Kardashian type lol

    MATVA A 11 days ago

    She was Nice person

  • Marcelina
    Marcelina 12 days ago

    I think she’s beautiful though

  • Flora Nogales
    Flora Nogales 13 days ago

    being french,we know something about the italians."i need someone who is more in the arts".yeah,right.this guy is worse than a diaper.

  • lemonhead7641
    lemonhead7641 17 days ago +1

    I can't believe I am the first to say this but his voice is incredible. Not just the accent, it is deep and he speaks very calmly. I pay a lot of attention to voices and his is sexy.

  • toronto peace zone
    toronto peace zone 17 days ago

    He is fine AF!!!

  • maher daibes
    maher daibes 17 days ago +1

    i dont understand why in western society its that simple to kill an unborn child if you like to have sex fine who dose not but be responsible and if you dont want to keep the baby fine but kill it in my opinion that is fucked up no one have the right yo take a life unless it endanger the the women's life

  • Nowhere Girl
    Nowhere Girl 20 days ago

    The cringeeeeee is real omg

  • Manish Singh
    Manish Singh 23 days ago

    Haha! the world is full of politically correct liars.

  • The 5-9 Grind
    The 5-9 Grind 25 days ago

    Lool I love how she had to add that “I used to be a dancer” at the end because he said he’s into people who like performing arts 🤣

  • A True Love Official
    A True Love Official 26 days ago +1

    You both seem like nice and genuine people. I hope you will find someone who you are looking for and have that instant connection.

  • Phoenix
    Phoenix 26 days ago +1

    He's not interested with her since the beginning and her good personality didn't change anything

  • Cece Princess
    Cece Princess 27 days ago

    hes picky

  • Septimius Severus
    Septimius Severus 27 days ago

    I give her 10 mins before she breaks down crying

  • Lauren Pedrosa
    Lauren Pedrosa Month ago

    will he date me

  • Samaira Kaif
    Samaira Kaif Month ago

    They remind me anjelina jolie and brad pitt looks wise

  • Kparso01
    Kparso01 Month ago +1

    I think he just thinks shes boring honestly. Although he was pleasantly surprised at her career.

  • Amana
    Amana Month ago

    Resultado óbvio.

  • Tshwanelo Fokazi
    Tshwanelo Fokazi Month ago

    She tried shooting her shot at the end LOL

  • Esra Dogan
    Esra Dogan Month ago

    He is so attractive ! Where can I find him ? Too bad I’m in Australia

  • shi shi
    shi shi Month ago

    damn, he's hot

  • hellio ringos
    hellio ringos Month ago +2

    He is hot but I wouldn't date him, he is interesting but sounds narcissistic, kinda egoist and selfish, he's the type of guy who just leaves you when he changed his mind in an instant or kinda escapes problems, that's just my personal opinion, just my impression of him, no hates.

  • magiesq
    magiesq Month ago

    Europeans are very nonchalant about religion likes its a 'thing you do' and not a 'part of your life' so I get his sentiment. They are very secular. Then he mentions abortion, europeans are weird in an unfortunate way.

  • Fabulous_As _Felicia

    I just knew he was married once. I got that mature vibe from him. I knew he wouldn't date her cause seriously there was no chemistry and also when he was ranting she wasn't paying attention so that might have made him awkward.

  • Belle O
    Belle O Month ago +1

    Oh lordt he didn't liked her at all. Whewww brutal to watch...

  • ladybugmerringue
    ladybugmerringue Month ago +1

    She's so pretty and sweet

  • Sourav Jagati
    Sourav Jagati Month ago

    Sherlock Holmes would have killed this series 😂😂😂

  • Love Made
    Love Made Month ago +1

    Aww she really liked him, but he was definitely not into her. I feel like she tried to be what she thought he'd like though, not just be herself.

  • Conchudasos DelAño

    man bon? what

  • Pickles S
    Pickles S Month ago +1

    This guy is very attractive however as he said, you can see he still holds on to the emotional baggage of loosing his brother..it’s still very fresh in his head. I’m surprised as an Italian that religion is NOT important.

  • Natalie Christine
    Natalie Christine Month ago +1

    He seems like an asshole , and she seems very submissive to whatever he says

    • Rukhsana Zaidi
      Rukhsana Zaidi Month ago +1

      Lmao I kinda got the same vibe. She was way too willing to please the entire time. Poor thing really really liked him:(

  • Golden Girl
    Golden Girl Month ago

    If he's still looking for a date, better yet, if he's looking for a soulmate, I fully volunteer.

  • D V
    D V Month ago +1

    I Think he isn't ready for any relationship yet ! May be because of his baggage with his past relationships.?!

  • Be my Dad
    Be my Dad Month ago

    Them: **having a civilized conversation**

  • Stephanyy_Okwueze
    Stephanyy_Okwueze Month ago

    His accent got me pregnant.

  • Emira B
    Emira B Month ago

    what type of dance is he doing ?????

  • Candi Soda
    Candi Soda Month ago +2

    He looks like the dude that says "STOOOOOOOPID MURICANS"

  • Artoria Pendragon
    Artoria Pendragon Month ago

    His pro abortion stance scared me off so much 🚩🚩🚩

  • Skinimin Onochie
    Skinimin Onochie Month ago

    Typical...I do possess everything you want you just don’t know it except the natural chemistry he’s looking for.

  • AC DC
    AC DC Month ago

    She is quite superficial, I would have thought she was plain stupid if I were in his position.

  • SarahRose
    SarahRose Month ago

    Omg at 4:45 so cute!! "I killed it" hahaha

  • SarahRose
    SarahRose Month ago

    I'm convinced all Italian men are hot

  • Daisy Mendez
    Daisy Mendez Month ago

    ugh he is so handsome!

  • Sophie love
    Sophie love Month ago

    He's got good looks but i wouldn't say he's hot or anything. And i am not a fan of him wearing that nice button up shirt with ripped pants..??!!

  • LandonNorris
    LandonNorris Month ago

    Don’t like either of them 👎🏻

  • Stephanie Galvez
    Stephanie Galvez Month ago

    lol boring

  • miranda George
    miranda George Month ago +2

    "I could definitely get rid of Halloween" with that accent I knew I need to watch the whole thing

  • Kathy Bates
    Kathy Bates Month ago

    Omg his accent is freaking great

  • Amir J
    Amir J Month ago

    Why aren't you telling us how to get on here, I want to participate

  • Carlita Bonita
    Carlita Bonita Month ago +1

    I could tell when he saw her he wasn't interested. She's not his type. .not about the arts lol

  • Camilla Silva
    Camilla Silva Month ago +1

    this guy is way smarter than her

    • A
      A Month ago

      Camilla Silva nah

  • Cussy Richards
    Cussy Richards Month ago

    You know you've truly made it as a man when you start friend-zoning girls.

  • Ameen Omar
    Ameen Omar Month ago

    "If someone touches what is the most precious thing to you, you'd be willing to kill."

  • It's ya Boi
    It's ya Boi Month ago

    LOOOOVED the interactive part but i want to be in on all the questions!!!

  • Amber J-W
    Amber J-W Month ago

    Please bring this show to Dallas. I want to be on the show. 😁

  • Olivier Nunu
    Olivier Nunu Month ago


  • Allegra Chloe Sivalingam

    He's so yummy.

  • mji245
    mji245 Month ago

    Her vagina made the decision. TBH if I had one and heard that accent coming from that then I'd always make the same choice.

  • Toni Monet
    Toni Monet Month ago

    Octavio....I wasn't ready. Italian men....

  • roxanee chandule
    roxanee chandule Month ago +1

    Ok tell us the Truth,This is a show to mismatch people right? I mean y'all are doing an amazing job
    Let's see how many people we can keep single,right 🤷

  • Eliza Brienne Romero

    ok i love how progressive he is

  • chandler bing
    chandler bing Month ago

    I get so upset when they say I would not date you.i think they should say I would even if they wouldn't.just to be nice :(

  • chandler bing
    chandler bing Month ago

    He is so........damn good looking

  • princessafshana
    princessafshana Month ago

    That poor girl...she seems like such a nice girl! It was the guys loss really!

  • Francis King
    Francis King Month ago

    Both awesome. Just no chemistry

  • Aj Altringer-Kurdi
    Aj Altringer-Kurdi Month ago

    “I don’t have the desire towards you that goes beyond friendship” MY LIFE WITH EUROPEAN MEN ALWAYS

  • Thunder Strider
    Thunder Strider Month ago +4

    He looks more middle eastern/Persian Iranian than Italian tbh. I look like this guy lol

  • char charles
    char charles Month ago +5

    She seems like a really nice lady, but her choice in clothing, especially for a special occasion like this, was not good. She was dressed like a teen on her way to the mall.
    That top she was wearing does not look good on her, and she either wasn't wearing a bra, or the bra provided no support. First of all, with breasts that small, she shouldn't let them sag like that, but, instead, wear a push-up bra because they obviously are sagging, which isn't attractive. (It really makes her look like someone 'played with them too much' and now they're sagging. In other words, it makes her look like serious second-hand material, which is probably one reason this guy's initial impression was 'no.') Secondly, that top just doesn't go right with her. It looks like the female version of the 'beater' shirt. It shows too much of her shoulders, which are droopy because she tends to stoop. At best, it's an exercise top that should not have been worn on such an occasion and, in her case, not without a good bra!! Her hair and makeup were well done, though.
    The Italian guy's physique is near perfect, so he would look good in just about anything. The shirt he was wearing was extremely nice, and fitted him well. Maybe it was an Italian shirt! Personally, I don't like pants with holes in them, but my attention was drawn more to his nice shirt! He figured it out right, because during an interview where both are seated, it's the top that gets more attention. Unfortunately for her, even though her skirt was OK, her top was so unflattering that the rest of her outfit could not compensate for that.

  • Kirpal Singh
    Kirpal Singh Month ago

    I feel girls with confidence and energy are cool so I get where he's coming from. I think there's something about living in US where weve had a culture of pretty, docile girls even though that's changing in the modern US. Theyre becoming more independent. But anyway, there's something about living in other countries that opens your mind about what women can be and how beautiful it seems

  • Ayushi Gupta
    Ayushi Gupta Month ago

    I would say ..she was too intelligent fr him.
    So got rejected

  • Akash Swami
    Akash Swami Month ago

    Who us that guy?

  • Whitetomato27
    Whitetomato27 Month ago

    Ottavio seems really cool, I feel like he could be great to have as a friend.

  • Lupo Lucio
    Lupo Lucio Month ago

    Real italian stallon

  • Shubham Chauhan
    Shubham Chauhan Month ago +1

    Dude doesn't want waste his cum... On the chick...end of life , end of desperation.

  • Wise One
    Wise One Month ago

    People in the comments act like she was hideous but she really looks good

  • Amina
    Amina Month ago

    Poor girl

  • Paris 87
    Paris 87 Month ago +5

    I feel like he is a Traditionalist and he doesn't like her wishy-washy answers. All the important topics- marriage, kids, religion she gave a 50-50 answer nothing was definitive... Hard to date people like that. You have to be assertive in life and KNOW what you want.

    • A
      A Month ago +1

      Paris 87 I think it was more so he wasn’t physically attracted to her

  • Maddie 0009
    Maddie 0009 Month ago

    Omg the awkward cringe at the end. So embarrassing for her.

  • Law of Attraction Manifestations

    Why is this in my recommendation....I don't watch anything related to this

  • Al B.
    Al B. Month ago +2

    He's high maintenance that's for sure. European guys that come from upper class families are like that. Guy wears a shirt so tight, that it's glued to him. He didn't like her at first sight because she doesn't have big breasts, fit body, the "perfect face". I feel sorry for her because she is gorgeous. His loss! 34 years and counting lol

  • iCorrupt
    iCorrupt Month ago

    the laugh she done at the end, is the laugh i do when someone says something irrelevant to me lol

  • JAXX
    JAXX Month ago +1

    how does one work in hospitality?

  • BJ D
    BJ D Month ago +1

    can somebody drop his insta or smth. for research!! Just kidding, for my pussy

  • Aman Rathore
    Aman Rathore Month ago

    I'm currently growing my hair. Hope I can have a man bun in few months.

  • Naya Moukhtar
    Naya Moukhtar Month ago

    I felt that rejection so bad, it burned my heart.

  • ivette
    ivette Month ago +5

    I'm a straight girl & I would date her🤷‍♀️In my opinion she seems like a good soul, intelligent, with a positive go-getter vibe that I'd enjoy having around. Can't say the same about him. He seems more of the type with very little substance, that takes life as it goes & rolls with it, agreeing to everything you say just to not make you upset. I'd be bored. He's cute but looks don't last forever. Next.

  • Aigerim Sarsenova
    Aigerim Sarsenova Month ago

    To be honest, I don't feel like the guy deserves to be with her anyways... yes, he is good looking but it doesn't compensate the fact that he's passive aggressive and a bit emotionally unavailable(?) While, she just seems very pleasant to be with

  • Sara Cornish
    Sara Cornish Month ago

    Love them , there both sweet people. Was bummed with him. His loss

  • char charles
    char charles Month ago +2

    The divorced Italian guy is probably going to 'dick around' for years, hopping and dropping gals. Then, right before turning 40, is going to find a woman in her 20's and marry her. You know why I sense that? Because his attitude exudes superficiality as being his primary marker for whether to go on a date or not, AND, the fact that he was so superficial with the Catholic religious rite of Confirmation that he dropped religion right after that. Clearly, he was just doing the Catholic rites at face-value too. I wish his parents or the Bishop who confirmed him had found out, and 'unconfirmed' him. He is so full of himself.

    • char charles
      char charles Month ago

      +Thunder Strider You're right in some cases, but there is a big difference in marriage potential between the sexes when they wait till 'the wall', as you say. When men wait around until their 40's, their choices of potential mates INCREASES: He can attract and reasonably marry women in their 20's. When a woman waits around till the mid-thirties and beyond, her choice of potential marriage partners DECREASES drastically: While she could marry men a few years younger, it's not that probable that men in their 20's would be interested in a woman 10+ years older.
      Men 'playing the field' and waiting decades to get married end up with more options, whereas women 'playing the field' and waiting end up with less options--not to mention the fact that female reproductive physiology changes drastically from 30 to 40, which is not the case with men.

    • Thunder Strider
      Thunder Strider Month ago +1

      Yes cause women dont whore around til their 30s and then marry right before hitting the wall

    • Allen Sickle
      Allen Sickle Month ago

      +char charles
      I doubt the Vatican doesn't realize that.
      Making kids do it at 11/13 years old is a blatant mistake.
      (I was wrong. I just checked and that is the usual age, not 16.
      Apparently, they do it because temptations start at that age.
      Here is the source, if you're interested:
      Just paste the link on Google Translate.)
      They should do it at 18 or, better yet, allow people to do it on their own, rather than making it a "journey" that you feel you have to complete due to social pressure.

    • char charles
      char charles Month ago

      +Allen Sickle Well, maybe your analysis should go straight to the Vatican! Unfortunately, I do believe you. At least you mentioned 'It's wrong.'

    • Allen Sickle
      Allen Sickle Month ago

      +char charles
      I know what it is.
      I'm just telling you that here that logic doesn't really apply.
      I was one of the two kids in my High School class who hadn't received Confirmation and yet we were all atheists except for one guy.
      I've only ever met three people my age who are actual Catholics.
      The problem is that going through Confirmation is part of our culture, so it's a given that one does that and nobody ever thinks about it.
      Here it's even called "Cresima", which is a name that means nothing, so it's just another way to further cause confusion.
      The Church is in it to increase their numbers on paper.
      The parents are in it to have an occasion to meet the whole family.
      The kids are in it for the presents.
      It's wrong, but what I'm trying to tell you is that this guy is not the exception.
      He's the rule.
      You'll have to work hard to find an Italian younger than 40 who'd actually care if they ever received an excommunication.

  • BB Bluelover
    BB Bluelover Month ago

    *that man has a beautiful voice, i mean NICE voice omgosh!*

  • char charles
    char charles Month ago +1

    This Italian guy is difficult, definitely complicated, and, as I sensed, interested in an initial attraction ('dick rise') based on hormones when he meets a woman. His type of woman is most likely a showy, made-up one, who looks flashy, and wears a lot of makeup and lipstick. This young lady here is really nice, and, much nicer than he is in my opinion. I don't think she's necessarily looking for 'love/attraction at first sight', but would give any nice, decent man who was interested in her a chance to go out with her. He, on the other hand, looks like he wants to find a woman who would 'put out' for him on day one, which is why he most likely wants initial attraction/hormones from the get go. She, however, is a more patient person who looks like she would want a relationship to take its own time and grow. The two are poles apart.

  • Jay Kay
    Jay Kay Month ago

    i know guys like him and they are super picky but super nice its sad lol

  • Hurija El-karim
    Hurija El-karim Month ago

    This guy is really good, i Like his way of thinking Definitely. Just religion is problem, because i am a Muslim. Everything else is good

  • Afomia
    Afomia Month ago

    Is it just me or does he sound like Guru from Despicable me?💀😭

  • Afifa Makeup
    Afifa Makeup Month ago

    Omggggggg he’s so so freaking hot i just can’t 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️😫😫😫