Put YOUR Assumptions to the Test... Interactive Tell My Story

  • Published on Jan 9, 2019
  • This time, YOU get to help tell their story and play along with the video. Test your assumptions by answering poll questions about the daters.
    It’s certainly easier to make assumptions about people than it is to spend time getting to know someone. We wanted to put assumptions to the test to see what we're missing out on because we're so busy assuming we already "know" a person. Join us as we discover why you should never judge a book by it’s cover in our series 'Tell My Story.'
    We are all conditioned with certain biases. In this experiment, we challenged these biases by asking people to guess their blind date partner's interests and past experiences based only on their partner's appearance. When they learned their partner's real answers, they were shocked by how wrong they were.
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  • Gamp Lane
    Gamp Lane 6 hours ago

    I always hate that part about dating each other

  • Junaid Hashmi
    Junaid Hashmi Day ago

    That does not happen often in a man's life.

  • Hannah P
    Hannah P Day ago

    Um..... can I date him? He sounds great.

  • Paula Andrew
    Paula Andrew Day ago

    Just the way he posses is attractive.😍

  • Katelyne Hallock-Harker


  • Piyush Wagh
    Piyush Wagh 4 days ago

    He is damn hot😍
    And that accent, ugh😦

  • stephen dresler
    stephen dresler 5 days ago

    Why did they do this dude like this? That women is a 3 in the face (with makeup), and a 4 or 5 in body. He is a pretty decent looking guy, at least a 6 or 7 in the face and looks like an 8 or 9 in body. Just a cruel setup......

  • S s
    S s 7 days ago +1

    who's favorite holiday is 4th of july? I thought everyones was christmas or halloween lmao

  • Deja Brown
    Deja Brown 7 days ago

    I wonder what type of dance he does

  • Mariello
    Mariello 8 days ago

    Ooooo baby he fine as wine

  • GP Garage
    GP Garage 9 days ago +3

    Nothing like making light of abortion to brighten my day

  • Adrián Durán
    Adrián Durán 9 days ago

    Mardi Gra is the American version of Carnival same reason both things are done (catholicism)

  • Orlando Florida
    Orlando Florida 9 days ago +2

    I think she’s beautiful - I’m sorry but he seems into the physical which he said he was against 🤦🏻‍♂️

  • Uygulana Danilova
    Uygulana Danilova 9 days ago

    on a thumbnail he really looks like Jon Bellion

  • kate carew
    kate carew 10 days ago

    Horribly matched

  • Grainne Salino
    Grainne Salino 10 days ago

    These two are perfect for each other. I don’t know why he isn’t feeling it.

  • mostafa hafiz
    mostafa hafiz 11 days ago +1

    i am quite attracted to redhead skinny girls with these face features
    in a scale of 1 to 10 she get 1000

  • Bluepolo3
    Bluepolo3 12 days ago

    I mean he may look attractive but he acts and sounds gullible, he's the type of guy that would believe in more than 2 genders

  • Boxing Supraves
    Boxing Supraves 13 days ago

    Attack on Titan women

  • Boxing Supraves
    Boxing Supraves 13 days ago

    No titas or azz. dodged a bullet fam

  • Simrit Sandhu
    Simrit Sandhu 13 days ago

    These questions and medium of communication between the two people in these videos need to change . They aren’t truly interacting because the limits on what they can talk about are given to them . And this construct feels kind of forced upon them and can two people really connect in just 10-15 minutes ? They should take these people into nature and have them interact with each other .

  • Preeti Shetty
    Preeti Shetty 13 days ago

    Before I started to watch this I predicted he'd say no and she'd say yes. But I was hopeful.
    He just didn't think she was hot enough for him.

  • Samira Abukar
    Samira Abukar 13 days ago

    I've seen this sort of man. Trying to achieve perfection and wants everything in his mental checklist. They become tiring to be around. It's truly when you step out of what you are used to that sometimes life shocks you with so many amazing and new ways of thinking . He wasn't attracted to her...which is ok but then don't say you're not about things that are superficial. Attraction to someone can start from deep within. I was married to an Italian man and now I remarried to who is my best friend.

  • Shadae  Williams
    Shadae Williams 14 days ago +1

    When he said thank you 😂😂 I knew he didn’t like her them Italian women are so beautiful lol

  • quirkycreator
    quirkycreator 15 days ago +1

    The Italian man holds himself very well. The look on his face made it clear that he had been married before when that question came up. These two do not seem compatible. She was changing her answers to suit him. There by not being totally authentic probably because she wanted him to like her do to his attractiveness. She insisted on being friends with him after even though he rejected her. Woman do that a lot and it's not good for their self esteem. Being an artist myself I certainly understand a need to be understood as an artist but you can feel understood without the person having to be just like you.

  • Roshni Magain
    Roshni Magain 15 days ago +1

    Girl : " I was a dancer"
    Guy : and I oop-

  • Alexia Cardenas
    Alexia Cardenas 15 days ago

    He’s so fine 😍

  • aanasmira
    aanasmira 16 days ago

    You can take me dancing, but Halloween will forever be on the table.

  • efrain sandoval
    efrain sandoval 16 days ago

    They were so not similar

  • Uchiha
    Uchiha 16 days ago +1

    does no one know him from "are americans smarter than the rest of the world"-vid ??? like i remember him not knowing what the black plague was in englisch so he said it in italian smfbjbdj

  • Vegan With Love
    Vegan With Love 16 days ago

    The conversation about getting pregnant made me very uncomfortable. Both of them were only thinking about themselves, their career, if they want to be with that person, how THEY feel, they never payed a second thought to the baby. Like, doesn’t that child get a choice? It’s not all about you. It’s all about you when you’re having sex and you’re unmarried. You take that risk. Then it’s about the 3 of you. And the unborn baby should at least get a thought. At least

  • Yoonmin Fanatic
    Yoonmin Fanatic 19 days ago +1


  • naya b
    naya b 19 days ago

    the end is SO awkward awh they were sweet but :(((

  • Keke Green
    Keke Green 19 days ago

    What are all his social media accounts? Asking for a friend...

  • whitney smith McIntosh

    Super disappointing

  • C
    C 23 days ago

    why did he say consukt a doctor for the if you got pregnant lol perfect joke setup

  • Bethany Chavez
    Bethany Chavez 23 days ago +1

    I hate him

  • Lara Anne Pinter
    Lara Anne Pinter 24 days ago

    can someone get me a hot Italian guy? pls help me

  • AddictedToSpeed
    AddictedToSpeed 24 days ago

    wow shes damn sexy

  • Nur ayos
    Nur ayos 24 days ago

    Director : " don't speak "
    Me: lmaoooo dead

  • Baratheon Mustard
    Baratheon Mustard 26 days ago

    I'm good at reading people

  • a clk
    a clk 27 days ago

    Don't pity! Goodness!

  • Lina Abdullah
    Lina Abdullah 27 days ago

    What’s his @

  • Bhavesh Rana
    Bhavesh Rana 29 days ago

    Guy looks super calm and mature. He is not getting impressed easily !

  • you’re right but
    you’re right but Month ago

    Why did this feel like a dialogue from a Woody Allen film lol

  • mollkatless
    mollkatless Month ago

    in his assumptions about her, it appeared he thought of her (perhaps unconsciously) the way certain western europeans would think of as an "average American" - which was mildly irritating. Imagine if she had taken that same route in thinking of him as a stereotypical Italian "this is your story: your mother weighs 300 pounds is constantly trying to feed you, she also has hair growing out of the 14 moles on her face and neck. your father is an unemployed and bitter Marxist, your needs are taken care of by "family" members who know how to get things done - legally or otherwise. Since as a people it is scientifically proven that you cannot drive a car - you are a danger to yourself and others even if you are in a car as a passenger. you have 12 bothers and sisters, and if any of your sisters ever even looked a black man, you and your brothers would kill him

  • Winter Sonnet
    Winter Sonnet Month ago

    I knew he wasn't going to find her attractive even before they sat on the chair. Too bad, he might be missing out. But I liked his honesty.

  • Winter Sonnet
    Winter Sonnet Month ago

    The return of the man bun. They couldn't just find a dude like that like last time?

  • k1 master
    k1 master Month ago

    how i feel everytime a hot chick friendzone me for being a good guy

  • Not 670
    Not 670 Month ago

    His jeans look terrible and so do her shoes.

  • Mira Pimen Hernan
    Mira Pimen Hernan Month ago

    dumb girl and superficial

  • Rayo Rayo
    Rayo Rayo Month ago

    Thank goodness that didn't work. The lady should find a real gentleman. A good man who's head is screwed on.

  • Blaire Patrick
    Blaire Patrick Month ago

    Rejection is imbarrising. I'm going to stick to my self until I'm approached. Is that spelling g correct?.

  • Blaire Patrick
    Blaire Patrick Month ago

    I would date him.

  • Blaire Patrick
    Blaire Patrick Month ago

    I would date him.

  • Aaron Lewis
    Aaron Lewis Month ago

    He is a great guy

  • Hestia Demeter
    Hestia Demeter Month ago

    she irritates me, I don't know what it is...

  • Melanie Eskew
    Melanie Eskew Month ago

    Brooo she got him at the end when she said “I could teach you, I was a dancer” lmaooo

  • AC DC
    AC DC Month ago

    *wouldn't mind being banged by him*

  • Jayla Ashlynn
    Jayla Ashlynn Month ago

    10:56 exactly!!!

  • cynicallygreen
    cynicallygreen Month ago

    God damn he is SO attractive!

  • Nefeli Blossom
    Nefeli Blossom Month ago

    This chair is making his back looking that it's disappearing 😂

  • megcdixon
    megcdixon Month ago

    why didnt they show what he answered for cultural/ethnic background?

  • Raining Storm
    Raining Storm Month ago

    lol i am gay, but i fly so bad for her , i felt i have to date her, she seemes a good person and deserve all the best

  • Claire Nelson
    Claire Nelson Month ago

    looks SO MUCH like Jon Bellion

  • Ami Mourad
    Ami Mourad Month ago

    Maybe he is gay .. maybe he is looking for so more attractive

  • joline sabrina
    joline sabrina Month ago

    You can tell she is into him when she starts to match her answers with his!! Yeah "I am not that into religion either" and karaoke is terrifying" poor thing!

  • Alice Lilith
    Alice Lilith Month ago

    This happens when you put a 10 to a 4....of course (even if we won't believe in it) 99% of the population still looks first for the look of a person and then maybe for the character!

  • Dr D. Natarajan
    Dr D. Natarajan 2 months ago

    While the guy is hot and beautiful with tolerance, the way he put forth, who wants to face problems put me off ...

  • Pash
    Pash 2 months ago

    I want to sit on him 😂

  • plantec smiths
    plantec smiths 2 months ago

    Bad matching? Why didn't they give him a gal a bit younger, like 26?

  • Honest Opinion
    Honest Opinion 2 months ago

    I love his accent 👍🏼 I think that’s what makes him extra attractive

  • Vadimovna
    Vadimovna 2 months ago +1

    Damn he is the perfect man to me.

  • Debjani Das
    Debjani Das 2 months ago

    The guy is so sweet.....loved the entire conversation.

  • Andrej Hatzi
    Andrej Hatzi 2 months ago +1

    Oh, the lives of the ordinary!

  • ariel
    ariel 2 months ago

    what’s his @ 🤲

  • mackscreativeness112
    mackscreativeness112 2 months ago

    He sounds kind of like the guy who played Evan in Evan Almighty
    What was his name
    Steve Carell ...?

  • Noella Atango
    Noella Atango 2 months ago

    ''Will she hate Karaoke'' Well, if you'd jump right ahead to the clip we would know right away, SoulPancake.

  • lilbette1
    lilbette1 2 months ago

    Even though it doesn’t matter if they decide to date or not. I still get so uncomfortable when one person says yes as the other says no. Haha

  • September Maeve
    September Maeve 2 months ago

    I always ruin these by reading the comments

  • gypsychild11
    gypsychild11 2 months ago

    He's... beautiful.

  • Ryan Zad
    Ryan Zad 2 months ago

    Her name is JJ no wonder he wouldn't date her lol

  • Elly R
    Elly R 2 months ago

    11:15 the personal freedom rule only extends so far.... what about murder, paedophilia, fraud.....

  • Alessiaa
    Alessiaa 2 months ago


  • Kevin Lange
    Kevin Lange 2 months ago +1

    They banged it out for sure

  • haider hridoy
    haider hridoy 3 months ago

    I bet she had orgy

  • Cheya Cunanan
    Cheya Cunanan 3 months ago

    God this guy's gorgeous!

  • Nina Habib Khan
    Nina Habib Khan 3 months ago

    Italian guys are hot! He's even hotter with all that decency and brain.

  • D.H. Withers
    D.H. Withers 3 months ago

    The second he opened his mouth I was like "THIS GUY SALSA DANCES"

  • clockwork red
    clockwork red 3 months ago

    Closes his eyes

  • **adembasou**
    **adembasou** 3 months ago

    at first i liked him but i was blinded by looks, when he said that he is pro abortion he became ugly af+he is shallow and he has no clue what true friendship is and PLUS that, that the foundtion of every true love is being best friends!!!!

  • Ellie Pena
    Ellie Pena 3 months ago

    am i the only one who isnt so keen on the guy? I just kind of have a gut feeling that hes not being totally genuine

  • Ashley Aldeza
    Ashley Aldeza 3 months ago

    The guy is cute. I would date him.

  • Hassan Rabat
    Hassan Rabat 3 months ago +1

    Lol she ugly she not his type more like sexy thick women with black hair brown eyes like Middle Eastern women or Kim Kardashian type lol

    MATVA A 3 months ago

    She was Nice person

  • Marcelina
    Marcelina 3 months ago

    I think she’s beautiful though

  • Flora Nogales
    Flora Nogales 3 months ago

    being french,we know something about the italians."i need someone who is more in the arts".yeah,right.this guy is worse than a diaper.

  • lemonhead7641
    lemonhead7641 3 months ago +1

    I can't believe I am the first to say this but his voice is incredible. Not just the accent, it is deep and he speaks very calmly. I pay a lot of attention to voices and his is sexy.

  • toronto peace zone
    toronto peace zone 3 months ago

    He is fine AF!!!

  • maher daibes
    maher daibes 3 months ago +1

    i dont understand why in western society its that simple to kill an unborn child if you like to have sex fine who dose not but be responsible and if you dont want to keep the baby fine but kill it in my opinion that is fucked up no one have the right yo take a life unless it endanger the the women's life