I Found Out I Was Adopted And It Broke My Heart

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  • Published on Nov 2, 2018
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    Hello everyone, this is Andrew. Sometimes, a family is not what it seems to be. We all have our secrets, and when they're revealed, it can change us completely - and not necessarily in a bad way. But let’s start from the beginning:
    Andrew's life was never anything special - his mom and dad were simple people with regular jobs. They never had any big fights, but it wouldn't be true to say that he was close to them either. They didn’t talk much except about ordinary stuff like school, grades and what was for dinner.
    By the time Andrew's 15th birthday approached, his parents wanted to have a party with all their family friends and their children. Andrew was very annoyed, because he wanted to have fun with his friends. But his parents insisted, so he HAD to accept. During the party, one of the guests, who was a friend of his parents, said: “It’s amazing how much you look like your parents despite your situation.” Andrew was confused, and he immediately asked: “What situation?” “Oh…” the guest said, “...you don’t know…"
    The rest of the party proceeded normally, but for days afterwards Andrew couldn’t stop thinking about what he had meant. One of the things that sprang into his mind was that maybe he had been adopted. It could have been true, because he’d always noticed small differences between his parents and himself. So one day at dinner, Andrew asked the question straight out. His parents just stared at him with a worried look on their faces, not saying anything. And at this moment he realized that he'd found out the truth. And it made him ANGRY. It turned out that EVERYONE knew except him. And it hurt, a lot. Andrew kept asking himself: "Who I am? What do I do now?" It was a very confusing and scary time for him.
    He almost started a rebellion. He spent a lot of time outside late at night, and his grades at school went down.
    The thing he just couldn’t understand was why they refused to talk to him about it. Why did they try to act as though everything was normal? And what was even worse was that they got angry at him when he stayed out for too long, and tried to control him. They weren’t even his real parents, so what right they had to do that?
    One evening, when he got back late, his father started shouting at Andrew for being spoiled and ungrateful despite everything they did for him. So he turned straight around and left the house.
    He didn’t know where to go, so he just walked through the dark streets. He doesn’t know how long he walked for, but it felt like hours. Andrew couldn't stop thinking about how nobody really cared about him. His real parents had probably left him, and it seemed that he was nothing more than a nuisance to his adopted ones.
    He couldn’t go back home, so he went to his favorite childhood place - a pond where he had loved to look at the ducks when he was little. Andrew sat there, cold and sad, and cried. He was completely lost.
    Suddenly, he saw his parents' car drive up next to the pond. His mother got out of the car. She looked scared and worried. She came up to Andrew and hugged him.
    “We were so worried! We didn’t know how to find you, so your father said that we should try looking for you at the pond”.
    Andrew still couldn't stop crying, and he started asking his mother questions - why did his real parents leave him? Why had they never told him?
    His mother sighed, then finally started answering his questions: “To be honest, darling, your real parents just didn’t want you. But we do want you. And we love you. Both me and your father. We decided not to tell you, so you would have a normal childhood. But I guess we were wrong. I’m sorry. You are the best thing that ever happened to us.”
    The only thing Andrew couldn’t understand was why his father was still just sitting in the car and hadn't even come out to talk to him. He looked through the window...and noticed that he was crying as well. Andrew had never seen his father cry. In fact, he rarely saw him showing any emotion. And his tears revealed more than his words could ever say.
    “Let’s go home,” his mom said. And he did.
    Andrew realized that his parents weren't perfect - they didn’t always know how to express their emotions or how to do the right thing. But they did love him. And it didn’t matter if he was adopted or not. They're still his parents, and he loves them despite all their peculiarities. Being loved is one of the best feelings in the world. And he was loved. And for that moment, that was enough for him to be happy again.
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  • Ashlie plays
    Ashlie plays 17 hours ago +1

    I just found out I was adopted today, my parents kept this from me for 13 years 😢😭

  • chris mutapay
    chris mutapay 22 hours ago

    i lost my friend

  • Fosmin Clorin
    Fosmin Clorin 2 days ago

    You really should appreciate that you were adopted. Would you have liked instead to live in an orphanage? And they are your parents because they've raised you and loved you, not like your biological parents who couldn't bother to take care of you. Friendship is a state of affection and so is parenting.

  • Brawl God Brien
    Brawl God Brien 2 days ago

    Anyone else hate this guy

  • Michelle
    Michelle 2 days ago

    Hey Andrew guess what.
    You’re adopted 🤠

  • Kayleigh Scholtz
    Kayleigh Scholtz 2 days ago

    I am also adopted

  • SunsetFireRose lists

    What's wrong with being adopted?

  • Marina official
    Marina official 3 days ago

    Sometimes I want to be adopted. but my face totally look like my dad 🙄

  • Red Eye
    Red Eye 3 days ago

    did you tried to contact your biological parents?

  • Gladys  De Leon
    Gladys De Leon 4 days ago

    We have the same story!! Im cryinggg

  • feona macdonald
    feona macdonald 4 days ago

    1:50 why does his hat look like a poop?😄💩 your welcome

  • Charlotte Pentelow
    Charlotte Pentelow 4 days ago

    You should have been way more grateful they took you in

  • spidey wtf
    spidey wtf 4 days ago

    Is F- actually a grade?

  • OILFIELD HQ
    OILFIELD HQ 5 days ago +1

    wow like that is so rude about when they never told him that he was adopted. LIKE BRUH. can't they do any better. LIKE WTH

  • Jessica A
    Jessica A 7 days ago +1

    I was adopted too and told from the beginning. I still struggle with it though because I still have unresolved issues with my past and things that anger me. I’ve never had anyone to talk with about it so I’ve always kept it inside. My parents give me a good life even though I have problems within my family. I still feel depressed about being adopted because of the background and how my parents were.

  • Sksksks Sksksks
    Sksksks Sksksks 8 days ago +1

    I was in foster care for YEARS and I finally got adopted at about 12, he’s blessed that he got adoptive parents from the beginning.

  • Santiago Rossi
    Santiago Rossi 8 days ago

    Lul, this was uploaded at my birthday

  • Baby Leah
    Baby Leah 8 days ago

    I’m NOT adopted or maybe I am and I don’t know
    And even if one day they tell me that I am
    I WILL NOT CARE because they ate the best people in my life and I wouldn’t change them for anyone
    Like this if you love your parents and go get up and give them a hug ❤️

  • Alfa and Bumkop
    Alfa and Bumkop 9 days ago

    Your vid amazing

  • Hannelore Gyselinck
    Hannelore Gyselinck 9 days ago

    Same here...

  • Calla Nightshade
    Calla Nightshade 9 days ago

    I'm a birth mother. To a beautiful baby girl whom I love more than anything in the universe. I wanted her, I wanted to raise her, but the situation I was in I couldn't. I made the choice to place her with a mom and a dad and two brothers that love her and adore her. I still get to be in her life because it's an open adoption. She and I have a relationship, a bond, she's only a year old now and doesn't fully know I'm her birth mom. But that doesn't stop her from smiling when she sees me. She's happy and healthy and I get to be in her life as she grows up. Her parents love me and my family as well. She's the link that brings too families together into one. And the one thing we all say about the situation "children can never have too many people who love them"

  • Nicole Gracie
    Nicole Gracie 10 days ago

    It’s hurt when you know your real parent don’t want you :(

  • Bryan Castaneda
    Bryan Castaneda 10 days ago

    At least you where wanted

  • Adrian Bem
    Adrian Bem 12 days ago

    I cried because
    the video

  • Diamondgirl_playz
    Diamondgirl_playz 12 days ago

    😭😊😣😢😊☺

  • Sheryl may Cabaron
    Sheryl may Cabaron 16 days ago

    Wow

  • Raymond Zammit
    Raymond Zammit 16 days ago

    I have a life like you

  • Wentworth james Barut
    Wentworth james Barut 16 days ago

    I dropped my phone in the toilet




    *Actually happened*

  • Rashad Brown
    Rashad Brown 16 days ago

    I know a story on shocking family secrets of man who lived in a town. And every one in it knew he was adopted and did not say a word to him about it.

  • Angela Colonne
    Angela Colonne 17 days ago

    His parents where right.

  • Tamanna Tabassum Mim
    Tamanna Tabassum Mim 17 days ago

    My eyes got watery while watching! :')

  • Naruto Uzumaki And Natsu

    Family Is Family Doesn't Matter about Blood Or not Family Is The Need to Love Someone Family is A Unision Of Love That is what family is!

  • Shuizhen Huang
    Shuizhen Huang 18 days ago +1

    I feel bad for you

  • It’s me Again
    It’s me Again 18 days ago

    Eh, What a party pooper

  • Ruby Torres
    Ruby Torres 18 days ago

    U should be happy because they love eventhou

  • Bape Boi
    Bape Boi 18 days ago

    1:28 Nani

  • mei keumalahayati
    mei keumalahayati 19 days ago

    People said that I'm adopted. But my parents didn't tell me yet. And I can't ask them about it too cause I worry about the answer . I don't want tobe broken heart if I know that my birth parent don't want me.

  • kitty rocks
    kitty rocks 19 days ago

    You know what's weird I have been adopted

  • I loveMyself
    I loveMyself 19 days ago

    lol.. if it were me... I would ditch off and run away when my parents find me in a place like that.

  • Galactic Viz
    Galactic Viz 19 days ago

    I don’t know how u did not suspect u were adopted. 😒

  • Elisha Loveland
    Elisha Loveland 19 days ago

    Your...your...adopted



    Lol

  • Kechelle Jackson
    Kechelle Jackson 20 days ago

    How can you find out your adopted by a family member? cause I think I’m adopted by a family member

  • The lyrics
    The lyrics 21 day ago

    Tbh

  • SSSnowyWolf Gamer
    SSSnowyWolf Gamer 21 day ago

    OMG, this is so sad, I don't know what I'd do if I found out I'm adopted. But I'm not because I saw my baby pictures

  • Blackjack
    Blackjack 21 day ago

    leave a like if you cried when you watched this

  • Dr. Green
    Dr. Green 21 day ago

    Ha this kid is adopted

  • Alina Kostina
    Alina Kostina 22 days ago

    I'm happy I'm adopted because I wold not like to stay in the kids shelter it's really rough in there one of the kids hated me so much that he tried to hurt me but the people who work there saved my life Soooo then I got adopted andI have a mom,dad and an annoying brother but I still love them and treet them with respect I also have 8 pets 4 cats and 4 dogs Sooooo ya thats my story. Write to me, did you ever go to the kids shelter? How was it? Did it go bad or good? I LOVE MY NEW FAMILY:-D

  • Lps Arctic Fox
    Lps Arctic Fox 23 days ago

    THATS REALLY UNGRATEFUL!If my parents would have told me i was adopted i would love them even more because i would know they wanted me and not like other kids that were mistakes or unwanted

  • Caty Hosch
    Caty Hosch 24 days ago

    i cried

  • Jonathan Nrnj
    Jonathan Nrnj 24 days ago

    That is so sad 😢😭😭

  • Walid Nachar
    Walid Nachar 25 days ago

    😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😖😖😖😖

  • Lord of Memezz Addict
    Lord of Memezz Addict 25 days ago

    Sorry son, hope you are happy with your new parents

  • DJ Lucario
    DJ Lucario 25 days ago

    Who ever ditched him I will shoot em with my AR-15

  • jose joe
    jose joe 25 days ago

    I got adopted when I was 5 im now 9 and i have a brother and a girlfriend ._.

  • J W
    J W 26 days ago

    Let's stop being judgemental! Some people are more sensitive than others so just because you didn't care when you found out you were adopted doesn't mean it didn't majorly impact someone else's life. "who cares about your biological parents" ," Your parents are the ones that raised you." All you assholes can piss up a tree and jump off a bridge cuz you ain't walked a mile in my shoes.

  • Vitamineq
    Vitamineq 26 days ago

    It's one of the saddest videos I ever watched on USclip.

  • saastamoinen1000
    saastamoinen1000 26 days ago

    beautiful story.

  • Unleashthebeast
    Unleashthebeast 26 days ago

    What an absolute ungrateful piece of shit.

  • :Dillon Wingull
    :Dillon Wingull 26 days ago +1

    I had to tell someone I loved they were adopted too.



    Swim Shady was SHOOK.

  • Think Mint
    Think Mint 26 days ago

    Why he look like Jughead but with black hair tho?

  • HiHp_GabZedZIG -
    HiHp_GabZedZIG - 26 days ago

    I'm bursting to tears

  • Valcanos Gaming
    Valcanos Gaming 27 days ago

    Oh god i cried a little

  • Liliana Gridley
    Liliana Gridley 27 days ago

    Bro your voice sounds like Cris Pine!

  • Eli Gailey
    Eli Gailey 27 days ago

    I can relate I am adopted to I found out when I was 8 or 9 and I am 11

  • Jack Morgan
    Jack Morgan 27 days ago

    so a brown guy dont realise that 2 white parents are not his real parents at first 👌👌👏👏

  • Jake Mavoks
    Jake Mavoks 27 days ago

    Drama queen

  • M TK
    M TK 28 days ago

    what a whiny little creep. You have two loving parents that accepted you from the very beginning as theirs, for you to not see that makes you a superficial worm.

  • Mareena and Solita
    Mareena and Solita 28 days ago +1

    WHY DOES HE HAVE ALWAYS TO BE SO MEAN EVERY TIME 😡😡😡😡😡 listen to your parents, your parents are more important and don’t be mean to your parents

  • Bayamba Bamba
    Bayamba Bamba 28 days ago

    Big ass ears

  • ZiyaadTV
    ZiyaadTV 29 days ago +1

    What’s that red thing on his head

  • Abdullah Baloch
    Abdullah Baloch 29 days ago

    You're adopted lol

  • Alex Harty Harty
    Alex Harty Harty 29 days ago

    I was adopted

  • Griefendor
    Griefendor 29 days ago +1

    *actually happened*

  • Tasnim Motan
    Tasnim Motan Month ago +2

    I swear this made me cry, oof 😬

  • なぎと
    なぎと Month ago +1

    My dad was an alcoholic and beat his wife and kids


    Ha gotcha

  • Stacey Winning
    Stacey Winning Month ago

    goddammit bob you had to tell him

  • sara Bailey
    sara Bailey Month ago +1

    My mom has videos of me when i was born and my certificate so im good

  • Huong Nguyen
    Huong Nguyen Month ago

    MY name is Andrew!! My nickname is Andy

  • Kevin Plays
    Kevin Plays Month ago

    Well my dad told my dad told me I’m adopted when I was 4

  • DØŁAN NATION
    DØŁAN NATION Month ago

    For every like I will add a 🍦

  • Isaiah Arroyo
    Isaiah Arroyo Month ago

    Can we get a F in the chat bois

  • iL1keTurtl3 s
    iL1keTurtl3 s Month ago

    I know i'm not adopted bcuz no one would pick me lol

  • Doggieslover25
    Doggieslover25 Month ago +6

    I love someone who is adopted.

    MY DOG.

  • tolu tills
    tolu tills Month ago

    Even if you are hurt your adopted father is right you were being very ungrateful

  • mssn316
    mssn316 Month ago

    so many kids from poor countries would love to be adopted. Most adopted kid are dearly loved by their parents. They are actually very lucky people for having loving parents and a good life.

  • Anna Fauver
    Anna Fauver Month ago

    This broke my heart because me and my sister where in a fauster home ever sence we where six but know we llive with are aunt

  • K_k_1481
    K_k_1481 Month ago +1

    My parents:your adopted!
    Me:so.

  • ra7a4 frog
    ra7a4 frog Month ago +1

    Add my story in please

  • B FL
    B FL Month ago +1

    I ate a pickle


    ACTUALLY HAPPENED

  • Adam Elshahawy
    Adam Elshahawy Month ago

    Br

  • ShikaidoPlayz
    ShikaidoPlayz Month ago

    1:57 my grades in school

  • lily234
    lily234 Month ago +4

    I ordered a MacBook and got an Acer
    ACTUALLY HAPPENED

  • Audrey PuppyFire
    Audrey PuppyFire Month ago +1

    I have a sad story, It was the first day of grade one and when I got home I went with my mom to my grandmas, Me and my brother sat down and my mom told me "Your grandpa died". Me and my brother cried, It was so sad we skipped the second day of school, There was police at our house and could not go home, So we stayed at my grandmas house for 2 days.

  • Um ok
    Um ok Month ago +2

    .. I’m adopted and I got adopted when I was a baby. I never seen my real dad or mom or my real family.i honestly do not care so 🤷‍♀️

  • Dai Cho
    Dai Cho Month ago

    On a crying spree from 12:00 in the morning. Your story is very inspiring.

  • GumClouds Boyfriend

    What’s an f- 😂😂😂😂😂

  • Pink Diamond
    Pink Diamond Month ago

    That's so ungrateful what's the difference if you are adopted or not like it is not a really big deal it is not it changes something .You have to be grateful that someone had adopted you!! You still could've been in the orphanage and people in the orphanages are not that nice!

  • Redfather
    Redfather Month ago

    This story reminds me of my son who I have left before he was even born

  • cecoleman30
    cecoleman30 Month ago

    Thats super sad