I Found Out I Was Adopted And It Broke My Heart

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    Hello everyone, this is Andrew. Sometimes, a family is not what it seems to be. We all have our secrets, and when they're revealed, it can change us completely - and not necessarily in a bad way. But let’s start from the beginning:
    Andrew's life was never anything special - his mom and dad were simple people with regular jobs. They never had any big fights, but it wouldn't be true to say that he was close to them either. They didn’t talk much except about ordinary stuff like school, grades and what was for dinner.
    By the time Andrew's 15th birthday approached, his parents wanted to have a party with all their family friends and their children. Andrew was very annoyed, because he wanted to have fun with his friends. But his parents insisted, so he HAD to accept. During the party, one of the guests, who was a friend of his parents, said: “It’s amazing how much you look like your parents despite your situation.” Andrew was confused, and he immediately asked: “What situation?” “Oh…” the guest said, “...you don’t know…"
    The rest of the party proceeded normally, but for days afterwards Andrew couldn’t stop thinking about what he had meant. One of the things that sprang into his mind was that maybe he had been adopted. It could have been true, because he’d always noticed small differences between his parents and himself. So one day at dinner, Andrew asked the question straight out. His parents just stared at him with a worried look on their faces, not saying anything. And at this moment he realized that he'd found out the truth. And it made him ANGRY. It turned out that EVERYONE knew except him. And it hurt, a lot. Andrew kept asking himself: "Who I am? What do I do now?" It was a very confusing and scary time for him.
    He almost started a rebellion. He spent a lot of time outside late at night, and his grades at school went down.
    The thing he just couldn’t understand was why they refused to talk to him about it. Why did they try to act as though everything was normal? And what was even worse was that they got angry at him when he stayed out for too long, and tried to control him. They weren’t even his real parents, so what right they had to do that?
    One evening, when he got back late, his father started shouting at Andrew for being spoiled and ungrateful despite everything they did for him. So he turned straight around and left the house.
    He didn’t know where to go, so he just walked through the dark streets. He doesn’t know how long he walked for, but it felt like hours. Andrew couldn't stop thinking about how nobody really cared about him. His real parents had probably left him, and it seemed that he was nothing more than a nuisance to his adopted ones.
    He couldn’t go back home, so he went to his favorite childhood place - a pond where he had loved to look at the ducks when he was little. Andrew sat there, cold and sad, and cried. He was completely lost.
    Suddenly, he saw his parents' car drive up next to the pond. His mother got out of the car. She looked scared and worried. She came up to Andrew and hugged him.
    “We were so worried! We didn’t know how to find you, so your father said that we should try looking for you at the pond”.
    Andrew still couldn't stop crying, and he started asking his mother questions - why did his real parents leave him? Why had they never told him?
    His mother sighed, then finally started answering his questions: “To be honest, darling, your real parents just didn’t want you. But we do want you. And we love you. Both me and your father. We decided not to tell you, so you would have a normal childhood. But I guess we were wrong. I’m sorry. You are the best thing that ever happened to us.”
    The only thing Andrew couldn’t understand was why his father was still just sitting in the car and hadn't even come out to talk to him. He looked through the window...and noticed that he was crying as well. Andrew had never seen his father cry. In fact, he rarely saw him showing any emotion. And his tears revealed more than his words could ever say.
    “Let’s go home,” his mom said. And he did.
    Andrew realized that his parents weren't perfect - they didn’t always know how to express their emotions or how to do the right thing. But they did love him. And it didn’t matter if he was adopted or not. They're still his parents, and he loves them despite all their peculiarities. Being loved is one of the best feelings in the world. And he was loved. And for that moment, that was enough for him to be happy again.
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  • ACTUALLY HAPPENED
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  • nasko ivanov
    nasko ivanov Day ago

    This is like story booth

  • Isabella Vlogs
    Isabella Vlogs Day ago

    I have the same feeling just that my mum cares about my brother more

  • Peter Parker
    Peter Parker Day ago

    Nobody should find out their adopted... EVER

  • Piano Kid
    Piano Kid Day ago

    This channel always makes me almost cry

  • Alexandra YDM
    Alexandra YDM Day ago

    STORY TIME
    Hello! I’m adopted from Mexico into a family from Northern Ireland. I was totally fine about being adopted. I got told at a young age but I love my parents like they’re blood related. 😄 My real parents were not together, I was born from a one night stand and my biological mother couldn’t afford an abortion. She didn’t have a proper home, and already had other children that she was trying to put up for adoption. When I was born, I was adopted at three weeks old, but couldn’t leave the country. I lived in Mexico for a year and one month. When I went to Northern Ireland, everything was fine, and I loved the long flight. The knowledge of being adopted was a daily thing, but I didn’t care. Today, I’m fourteen years old and still live in Northern Ireland. I still love my parents like blood relations. I’m teased now and again about being Mexican and adopted, and I only struggle with anxiety. My parents are very supporting, and they help me with every step of the way. When I turn eighteen, I’m going to apply to become an airline pilot. My parents completely support me in it, and sometimes even help me with my studies. And even when I bicker with my parents, I stop and remember all they had done for me, more than what biological parents could do. I love my parents no matter what! 😄

  • Lexie Fam
    Lexie Fam Day ago

    Well being adopted isn't bad cause people actually want u...

  • Jacob Camerupt
    Jacob Camerupt Day ago

    This kid is a brat

  • *joejoemac 9*
    *joejoemac 9* Day ago +1

    Who holds up food, Closes there eyes and just stares at it?

  • Donut Ritter
    Donut Ritter Day ago

    One of my good friends is adopted

  • AndyPlayZ
    AndyPlayZ Day ago

    I litarlly cryed durninig this

  • Cathy The SexyWolf

    Ik what it's like to be adopted. I'm adopted just like you. I was in the same mindset as you were but, I was a lil girl when I was told I'm adopted. Your story is really inspirational.

  • BreannaUnicornz
    BreannaUnicornz Day ago

    k. you have 2 white parents and lOOK AT YOuR SeLF

  • Betty Beiblin
    Betty Beiblin Day ago

    Oh my god! This is a mix of happiness and sadnesses! Sappiness!

  • Maria Jennifer Chon
    Maria Jennifer Chon 2 days ago

    A family isn’t by blood,it’s by heart....

  • Magic Man
    Magic Man 2 days ago

    Tf? They were awesome parents!

  • Lt_Outlaw
    Lt_Outlaw 2 days ago

    I swear this is the Tracy Beaker Animation

  • love times
    love times 2 days ago

    Its fun to have a family that love and cares about you💙💙💙

  • Cruz Florero
    Cruz Florero 2 days ago

    Hold up an F- exists?

  • Just another random youtube account

    In sovient union YOU adopt people

  • The Flip Book Boy
    The Flip Book Boy 2 days ago

    Whoa

  • CryztZee
    CryztZee 2 days ago

    So your sad that you had a family that chose you, and fed you. Be goad you were adopted and not out on the streets ;/

  • Just Izel
    Just Izel 2 days ago

    People who are adopted pls dont get angry at ur parents cause u r blessed they adopted u and they let u study and eat so pls dont get angry at them pls

    And here is the reason why they didnt tell the truth when u were a kid because u wouldnt understand and for u not to think about it :) your welcome

  • Raining Penguins
    Raining Penguins 2 days ago +1

    I would feel so mad that I would kill myself if my *parents* said I was adopted..........

  • Jesus Esparza
    Jesus Esparza 2 days ago

    I thought he had turrets, i didnt hear it

  • Chloe McEnroe
    Chloe McEnroe 2 days ago +1

    I dont understand why people feel so sad and shocked that they were adopted. I would be happy if i was adopted. I would be grateful that my parents took care of me when my real ones didnt!!

  • MrS ViDa
    MrS ViDa 2 days ago

    Shit, you should appreciate the love and happiness you were receiving.
    Think: If u were to be with a family who dont want you, imagine how horrible ur life would be.
    Its okay to be adopted. Especially if the family who took u in LOVES THE SHIT OUTTA YOU!!

  • Kevin Qerimi
    Kevin Qerimi 2 days ago +1

    That’s just a bit ungrateful tbh, of course they care, they adopted you, at least you have people, some people don’t, always be grateful for what you have.

  • Wolfie animations
    Wolfie animations 2 days ago

    Congrats

  • Muhammad Rizwan
    Muhammad Rizwan 2 days ago

    Uhm but I don’t think these stories are real

  • HxperKiim
    HxperKiim 3 days ago

    :o I seen this on story booth’s channel, but the dad was talking and said a different story.

  • GalacticHearts
    GalacticHearts 3 days ago

    If I found out I was adopted I would be happy I was adopted in the first place

  • RyleeWins
    RyleeWins 3 days ago

    Small differences??? Bruh your a black dude and your parents are white... what the hell did you think you were biological dude why weren’t you like aware of your situation... oh wait

  • #internettroll I trigger people

    It wasn't his place to say "you don't know?" And say something like that. What are parents suppose to do? Tell you when your 5. Watch teen wolf when Jackson dad said "Jackson never said he loved us since he found our he was adopted"when stiles kidnapped Jackson.😭

  • Kyle Elliott
    Kyle Elliott 3 days ago

    That happened with me

  • Shay Washington
    Shay Washington 3 days ago

    I was adopted at 1 I know my parents love me

  • FBI Fortnite skin
    FBI Fortnite skin 3 days ago +1

    Ali a

  • JARXD 15
    JARXD 15 3 days ago

    Ungrateful I would not get mad at someone who wanted me and loved me.

  • Aya Bazzi
    Aya Bazzi 3 days ago

    Weird flex but okay.

  • Denise Flynn
    Denise Flynn 3 days ago

    😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭MY FRIEND IS ADOPTED 😪😪😪😪😪😪😪😪😪😪😪😪😪😪😪😪😪😪😪😪😪🤫🤭

  • Cynthia Poananga
    Cynthia Poananga 3 days ago

    that was sad

  • Jake N
    Jake N 3 days ago

    I’m not crying, you’re crying!!!!!!

  • Amy Duong
    Amy Duong 3 days ago

    I swear some of you guys didn't watch the whole video. He's happy and grateful with his adopted family now why are you still complaining about his attitude? And it makes sense why he was mad too stop blaming him jeez.

  • Fabians Faints
    Fabians Faints 3 days ago

    My sisters are adopted from china :D

  • Yemon44
    Yemon44 3 days ago

    My parents told me when I was really young, and I had no idea what it meant for a long time since I was little

  • Sofia Guerra
    Sofia Guerra 4 days ago

    This made me cry

  • William Lynch
    William Lynch 4 days ago

    That’s sad ☹️

  • D D
    D D 4 days ago

    Best to be honest from the beginning. Some asshat always spills the beans.

  • PGM038
    PGM038 4 days ago

    I feel u... I found out I was aborted...

  • Crazyllama Fortnite765

    I wish I was adopted

  • Spray Panter kid
    Spray Panter kid 4 days ago

    Theres a reason they do it at fifteen or older...cuz they will under stand better.

  • Anime Abby
    Anime Abby 4 days ago

    I feel how angry you would be, but they loved you, and did everything for you

  • Sonia !!!!!!
    Sonia !!!!!! 4 days ago

    sis someone tell me why I cried

  • Brooklyn King
    Brooklyn King 4 days ago

    That story made me cry

  • Tyler Chapman
    Tyler Chapman 4 days ago

    This is lagging

  • Charles The King™
    Charles The King™ 4 days ago

    This is fucking retarded

  • Des&Val Vlogs
    Des&Val Vlogs 4 days ago

    The way he said angry tho

  • Love M&M for life
    Love M&M for life 4 days ago

    the plus to being adopted is you accualy know you were waned

  • Maša C
    Maša C 4 days ago

    If i found out I was adopted I would have probably kill my self

  • Jason Paues
    Jason Paues 4 days ago

    Im a teenager and i cried😭😅

  • PokeCheatzzz _
    PokeCheatzzz _ 4 days ago

    my dick is a massive 1 whole inch

  • Rahul TRM
    Rahul TRM 4 days ago

    I'm always lied to..HAHHAAHAHHAHAAH......HA.

  • BurntRoses
    BurntRoses 4 days ago +3

    My parents : Your Adopted
    Me: ok

  • MY movie
    MY movie 4 days ago

    I have a story...
    I have three brothers,they are from mom's brother.
    They share a mom ,and she is my grandmother...
    I love how we almost every weekend go see her.
    With my three brothers.
    Every Christmas and Easter and more we go celebrate at her house.
    And my uncle has a bit more money than usual pople... So somebody followed us...He couldn't find my and my uncle's family so...He brooke in my grandmother's house...He took everything:our photos,money,food...We wore scared...My grandmother and grandfather are now okay but we lost so much family stuff and money that we will hardly recover...

  • Sherbet_Bomb
    Sherbet_Bomb 5 days ago

    You don't need to be related to someone by blood to be considered family/kin. Parents are parents. Siblings are siblings. If they love you, take you in and raise you as their own, that's what matters.

  • Jufri Haji Ibrahim
    Jufri Haji Ibrahim 5 days ago

    same im adopted!

  • Millo_ _
    Millo_ _ 5 days ago

    He said him and his parents aren’t close. Weird because why would u adopt a child then barely show affection

  • MiniCatholic Nerd
    MiniCatholic Nerd 5 days ago

    Is that a beanie? That you were wearing

  • Juanita Contreras
    Juanita Contreras 5 days ago

    Please don't read ?

    You are so close.

    Never mind not even close.

  • The Red Sterling Mc'Bae

    Even if I were adopted, I'd be okay with that. If my parents didn't want me,, screw em'. I got a second chance. I never got why people are so weirded out by adopted people.

  • Seankoopa10
    Seankoopa10 5 days ago

    Ouch... Man... Feels bad.

  • Video Gamer42
    Video Gamer42 5 days ago

    My names andrew to

  • chakawave
    chakawave 5 days ago

    I’m adopted!


    But I love life and I wasn’t sad because of my back story!

  • Thatonefangirl
    Thatonefangirl 5 days ago

    If I figured out I was adopted, I would be kind of happy, considering the fact that someone actually wanted to take me in, and wanted to love me

  • Goofy G. Goof
    Goofy G. Goof 5 days ago

    Wow. Adopted children should be great full that they are even living in a family. They should be great full that they have people who provide and care for them.

  • Nicole Keren
    Nicole Keren 5 days ago

    ... i DONT get it why ppl are sad they are adopted like YOU WERE THE CHOSEN ONE!!!😂

  • Little Missy
    Little Missy 5 days ago

    It’s weird because the only thing I could focus on in that whole entire thing, was how your parents told you how to spend YOUR b-day

  • LAPIS LEE
    LAPIS LEE 5 days ago

    He cheated for another girl and left when I was 2 or 3 year old

  • LAPIS LEE
    LAPIS LEE 5 days ago

    I got adopted because my mom died..So I had to stay with my dad that cheated on my mom..I have no love for him..

  • LAPIS LEE
    LAPIS LEE 5 days ago

    I got adopted

  • anime506558
    anime506558 5 days ago

    This kid is the type of asshole that watches the simpson edits with x musics playing in the back

  • Jj Productions
    Jj Productions 5 days ago

    My sis mom my uncles and I are all adopted too

  • Flash Thunder
    Flash Thunder 5 days ago

    3:58 and they died in car accident (because father couldn't see anything while crying), the end.

  • Clark Johan
    Clark Johan 5 days ago

    Be happy what you have and who you are

  • NakyahPl4ys
    NakyahPl4ys 6 days ago

    Parents aren't parents without love

  • grazey16 playz
    grazey16 playz 6 days ago

    u are stupid u are lucky that they adopted u and u are 15 u don't think idiot I'm only 11 and I think life that

  • Lindsey Hollifield
    Lindsey Hollifield 6 days ago

    I was adopted in Russia!!!🇷🇺

  • THE WEEBOO CULT
    THE WEEBOO CULT 6 days ago

    Boii yall are saying no one loves u..if ur adopted parents didnt love u they would have left u at the adoption centre

  • aleesha _
    aleesha _ 6 days ago

    This story is shocking. I am extremely glad I'm not adopted, I appreciate that I have parents whom love me

  • Jaclyn ble
    Jaclyn ble 6 days ago

    i wasn't adopted. i was abducted

  • Video Gamer42
    Video Gamer42 6 days ago

    I’m adopted sike

  • grace madu
    grace madu 6 days ago +2

    1:57 Since when are there “F-“😂

  • UpTop Roofing & Construction

    My sister is adopted

  • AllOut Cactus
    AllOut Cactus 6 days ago

    I don't get why people get so upset about being adopted. I mean there biological parents couldn't take care of them or want them or there parents died. so someone else who loved them adopted them and at least they have a new loving family

  • Maki Nishikino
    Maki Nishikino 6 days ago

    Hold on


    This is on trending

  • Toni Lou Masterman
    Toni Lou Masterman 6 days ago

    Not all adoptions are positive. I speak from experience unfortunately. I'm happy that there are so many people who DO have a positive placement though!

  • Lilac_Petals
    Lilac_Petals 6 days ago

    3:49 That's how my father is

  • jimforjzs777
    jimforjzs777 6 days ago

    You were chosen....
    Wanted.....
    Unlike the majority of people.

  • londen harts
    londen harts 6 days ago

    I was adopted wen i was. 16 well not basically adopted my dad and mom dye in a car crash so my bffs mother took care of me and now i love her as if she was my mom the only bad part is that my bff is my crush sister so basically im my crush sistet 😒

  • Emmskie Smyth
    Emmskie Smyth 6 days ago

    I Want to adopt a baby girl when in in my twenties. I would bring her up and love her. But I would never keep that a secret from her. She would know, but I would treat her as my daughter