How To Raise an Independent, Free-Thinking Child | Dr. Justin Coulson | Goalcast

Both my Parents were in the National Guard for most of my childhood so the less I saw my Parents the more Independent I became.
Even after they got out they weren't there for us and for the most part they never listened to us anyways.
I was raised to believe I'm all alone in the world that if I'm stuck on something I just have to suck it up and do the best I can do.
I've had Teachers teach me that lesson too when I raised my hand for help and they just ignored me.

Im surprised he still has all his hair

I love it. I’m curious though what the outcome would be if she said yes let’s rethink the rules.
I’m curious for pragmatic purposes.

“Force creates resistance”. That’s so true. What parents need to realize is the should be examples to us. You teach your child right from wrong and trust they will go down the right path. Control does not work at all!

This is a biggest croc of bullshit I've ever heard from an expert. Not only it is doubtful that such a conversation ever took place, he doesn't even practices what he preaches. Rules are no means of influence and point to complete lack of trust, Protectionism teaches absolutely nothing and only hurts the kid because it denies children the valuable lesson of learning by your own mistakes.

Do you have this very video subtitled in Spanish? I would really appreciate your help with this

Strange... Talks like an prude, weird and conservative - probably religious - american while having this accent...

Idk man im crying halfway thru thid bcs my parents always use force 😩😩😩

My dad sucks and is lazy, and I mostly parented myself on my behavior and I did a great job

Dear Dr. Justin Coulson, please wear boxer briefs. Your crotch is distracting.

Great video💯

great

You reap what you sow. Similarly, parenting matters a lot to raise children with good values.

This is so funny for some reason🤣🤣🤣

I have strict Asian parents

I once missed a party because my friends told me the party started at 9pm when it actually was supposed to be over at 9pm. Deciding it was too late to stop by I went home after work. The next day several classmates were missing. They had been arrested (underage drinking, fighting and loud) at the party which was taking place while parents were not home. I never looked at parties the same after that.

fantastic!!

“Force creates resistance”. YES I apply this every day when I’m with my kids. I set rules firmly but allow them to have experiences. Life is so short you can guide them so much but ultimately just be there for them❤️

This father is amazing 😭❤️

What are the 14 that didn't like this going through? 🤔

Wow... Force creates resistance

Wow

Experience have shown us that it is at around 21 years old that most western women tend to experiment the most. It's a good thing she did not get drunk and stoned and have one night stand at 17. So that she can at 21 xD

That is an utterly amazing story and I want to be a great parent as u are keep it up-never give up and keep moving forward

Do you have this video with subtitles in Spanish? I need to show it to my family

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Letting a child discover the world with a father and mother as a coach. Thats the way to raise independent kids. Don't score the goal for them, but make sure they do their best.

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If the family 👪 were born all girls it indicates there are patriarchy domination. If the boys vice versa

Keep the rules as long as if they mean doing good for yourself and of course others, I see no problem with that!

White people shit parenting techniques. No wonder most become whores. You just beat their ass. If u don't even have control over ur family, u r not a man, u r just a pussy..

Please Get Turkish subtitles 🖐️

I would so love to have this video with Spanish subtitles.

Congratulations sir. Nothing more.

This was great, so much value to be gained for parents

I wish parents actually thought before giving punishments. Like if you caught your kid smoking weed, you *should* send him to a rehab center or get him to a doctor to help with withdrawals, ask him why he did it and how you can help with the problem that made him do that, inform them of the dangers, *THEN* ground them for 1-2 months. That’s what I’d do. these parents these days, they just spank and ground, when their kid could be going through withdrawals, crying themselves to sleep because of the problem that made them go to weed, and lacking motivation, desperately trying to find a way to satisfy the withdrawals.
Parent smart please.

Yasssss

Damn I wish my parents were like this guy I mean damn he’s pretty loose

We are 4 sisters and we love each other soo much😘😘

Is someone that much of an asshole that they have to dislike the video. Legit 1 dislike how sad can you be.

Amen well spoken !!

Critical thinking is so important

I was the first dislike

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Girls These days ain't loyal they don't want true love they don't want happiness they are all hoe

From the moment I became a father I am thinking about this. I came to a conclusion: If you wish to raise strong and successful children, teach them:
To be honest
To be courageous
To be independent
To be curious
To be hard workers

great video!

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Raising successful confident children is every parents dream.

Put them constantly in situations that are problematic and they have to come up with solutions to go out and play video games...

Lovely

Indeed, The more you trust them the more influence you have over them 😊😇

*I have never let my schooling interfere with my education.*