How To Raise an Independent, Free-Thinking Child | Dr. Justin Coulson | Goalcast

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  • Published on Nov 26, 2018
  • Dr. Justin Coulson recounts a simple yet touching and powerful tale about his daughter that narrows in on what it means to be a good parent and how to install values in your children

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Comments • 68

  • Chaos Primordial
    Chaos Primordial 15 days ago

    Both my Parents were in the National Guard for most of my childhood so the less I saw my Parents the more Independent I became.
    Even after they got out they weren't there for us and for the most part they never listened to us anyways.
    I was raised to believe I'm all alone in the world that if I'm stuck on something I just have to suck it up and do the best I can do.
    I've had Teachers teach me that lesson too when I raised my hand for help and they just ignored me.

  • mike
    mike 17 days ago

    Im surprised he still has all his hair

  • Dan Druff
    Dan Druff Month ago

    I love it. I’m curious though what the outcome would be if she said yes let’s rethink the rules.
    I’m curious for pragmatic purposes.

  • Vanessa's World
    Vanessa's World 4 months ago

    “Force creates resistance”. That’s so true. What parents need to realize is the should be examples to us. You teach your child right from wrong and trust they will go down the right path. Control does not work at all!

  • Greek Dandy
    Greek Dandy 5 months ago

    This is a biggest croc of bullshit I've ever heard from an expert. Not only it is doubtful that such a conversation ever took place, he doesn't even practices what he preaches. Rules are no means of influence and point to complete lack of trust, Protectionism teaches absolutely nothing and only hurts the kid because it denies children the valuable lesson of learning by your own mistakes.

  • Mau Gonz
    Mau Gonz 6 months ago

    Do you have this very video subtitled in Spanish? I would really appreciate your help with this

  • GrundGenug
    GrundGenug 6 months ago

    Strange... Talks like an prude, weird and conservative - probably religious - american while having this accent...

  • Hana Melinda
    Hana Melinda 7 months ago +2

    Idk man im crying halfway thru thid bcs my parents always use force 😩😩😩

  • renee singh
    renee singh 7 months ago

    My dad sucks and is lazy, and I mostly parented myself on my behavior and I did a great job

  • nitara
    nitara 7 months ago

    Dear Dr. Justin Coulson, please wear boxer briefs. Your crotch is distracting.

  • Arya .A
    Arya .A 7 months ago

    Great video💯

  • Kainat Fatima
    Kainat Fatima 7 months ago

    great

  • Ritesh Puri
    Ritesh Puri 7 months ago +5

    You reap what you sow. Similarly, parenting matters a lot to raise children with good values.

  • You are my senpaiii
    You are my senpaiii 7 months ago +1

    This is so funny for some reason🤣🤣🤣

    I have strict Asian parents

  • Therese Ward
    Therese Ward 7 months ago

    I once missed a party because my friends told me the party started at 9pm when it actually was supposed to be over at 9pm. Deciding it was too late to stop by I went home after work. The next day several classmates were missing. They had been arrested (underage drinking, fighting and loud) at the party which was taking place while parents were not home. I never looked at parties the same after that.

  • Archana Harikrishnan
    Archana Harikrishnan 7 months ago

    fantastic!!

  • Hey Huda
    Hey Huda 7 months ago

    “Force creates resistance”. YES I apply this every day when I’m with my kids. I set rules firmly but allow them to have experiences. Life is so short you can guide them so much but ultimately just be there for them❤️

  • Hey Huda
    Hey Huda 7 months ago +1

    This father is amazing 😭❤️

  • Daughter of The King
    Daughter of The King 7 months ago

    What are the 14 that didn't like this going through? 🤔

  • doc agk
    doc agk 7 months ago +7

    Wow... Force creates resistance

  • Marco Azz
    Marco Azz 8 months ago

    Wow

  • Fabzil
    Fabzil 8 months ago

    Experience have shown us that it is at around 21 years old that most western women tend to experiment the most. It's a good thing she did not get drunk and stoned and have one night stand at 17. So that she can at 21 xD

  • parambir barry
    parambir barry 8 months ago +3

    That is an utterly amazing story and I want to be a great parent as u are keep it up-never give up and keep moving forward

  • YOSOY ANITA
    YOSOY ANITA 8 months ago +1

    Do you have this video with subtitles in Spanish? I need to show it to my family

  • Lvl18 Abilities
    Lvl18 Abilities 8 months ago

    👏👏👏👏

  • Your Favorite Lifecoach
    Your Favorite Lifecoach 8 months ago +9

    Letting a child discover the world with a father and mother as a coach. Thats the way to raise independent kids. Don't score the goal for them, but make sure they do their best.

  • Onsing
    Onsing 8 months ago

    bit.ly/2qytFUG?-manifestation-meaninggg

  • Lacoste Lacoste
    Lacoste Lacoste 8 months ago

    If the family 👪 were born all girls it indicates there are patriarchy domination. If the boys vice versa

  • Nqoba Zibuko
    Nqoba Zibuko 8 months ago +4

    Keep the rules as long as if they mean doing good for yourself and of course others, I see no problem with that!

  • N D
    N D 8 months ago

    White people shit parenting techniques. No wonder most become whores. You just beat their ass. If u don't even have control over ur family, u r not a man, u r just a pussy..

  • Hope Dee
    Hope Dee 8 months ago

    Please Get Turkish subtitles 🖐️

  • With This I Post
    With This I Post 8 months ago

    I would so love to have this video with Spanish subtitles.

  • Don Constantine
    Don Constantine 8 months ago

    Congratulations sir. Nothing more.

  • Practical Inspiration
    Practical Inspiration 8 months ago +7

    This was great, so much value to be gained for parents

  • The Hand
    The Hand 8 months ago +21

    I wish parents actually thought before giving punishments. Like if you caught your kid smoking weed, you *should* send him to a rehab center or get him to a doctor to help with withdrawals, ask him why he did it and how you can help with the problem that made him do that, inform them of the dangers, *THEN* ground them for 1-2 months. That’s what I’d do. these parents these days, they just spank and ground, when their kid could be going through withdrawals, crying themselves to sleep because of the problem that made them go to weed, and lacking motivation, desperately trying to find a way to satisfy the withdrawals.
    Parent smart please.

    • ShadowWolfRtL
      ShadowWolfRtL 5 months ago

      Outside the ridiculous "weed" thing, I would imagine doing such a thing like rehab would push the kid further down the line where you wouldn't want them. Sending them to rehab might sound like a logical thing at first but it just creates the impression that there's something wrong with them and too far gone to be "help" by ones parents. That only professionals can help them.
      I could mention that all the potential ways having a record of going to a drug rehab center can completely wreck their life later on when applying for college or jobs (especially with security clearance).
      Besides, forcing anyone no matter the age but especially teens usually doesn't work.
      You may want to diversify your perspective on things by reading up on multiple creditable sources (preferably ones that give different conclusions on the same topic) and ultimately come to you're own then educated conclusions. No one has the same perspective on anything, reach out to them.

    • Joe Martus
      Joe Martus 7 months ago

      If you know nothing about marijuana consumption, I suggest you not be so hard on your child. 1. You don't need rehab for a teenage pot smoker. 2. There are no withdrawal symptoms from marijuana use.

    • Bammbino
      Bammbino 8 months ago

      You don't get withdrawals from weed. Lmao

    • The Hand
      The Hand 8 months ago

      Sorry was a vent xD fuck

  • Madison Mckee
    Madison Mckee 8 months ago +1

    Yasssss

  • Never Quit
    Never Quit 8 months ago +9

    Damn I wish my parents were like this guy I mean damn he’s pretty loose

  • Priyanka yadav yadav
    Priyanka yadav yadav 8 months ago +8

    We are 4 sisters and we love each other soo much😘😘

  • Chefies Bass Boosts
    Chefies Bass Boosts 8 months ago +2

    Is someone that much of an asshole that they have to dislike the video. Legit 1 dislike how sad can you be.

  • Rachel McNeal
    Rachel McNeal 8 months ago +2

    Amen well spoken !!

  • The Life Formula
    The Life Formula 8 months ago +30

    Critical thinking is so important

  • Leo Fletcher
    Leo Fletcher 8 months ago +2

    I was the first dislike

    • Mohiz Ali
      Mohiz Ali 8 months ago

      @Blejz Good lad

    • Blejz
      Blejz 8 months ago

      I’m the third!

    • Mohiz Ali
      Mohiz Ali 8 months ago

      I am the second!

  • Nicholas Yee Loy
    Nicholas Yee Loy 8 months ago +1

    Always a great video from goal cast keep up the outstanding work. You have continue to inspire me to begin a channel like this. I'll continue to watch all your videos thanks again Goalcast.

  • Millionaire Mind
    Millionaire Mind 8 months ago +4

    Thanks for such video.. Hit like if you love goalcast

  • STARK
    STARK 8 months ago +5

    Girls These days ain't loyal they don't want true love they don't want happiness they are all hoe

    • 30G
      30G 8 months ago +2

      @Espurr there are also rebellious boys that stay in they're mom's basement.

    • Espurr
      Espurr 8 months ago +1

      Mr Stark true lmao hoe ass girl prolly wanted to get laid that night

    • Wei Wong
      Wei Wong 8 months ago +3

      Mr Stark there are still girls want happiness and true love

  • Vlad Mercori
    Vlad Mercori 8 months ago +60

    From the moment I became a father I am thinking about this. I came to a conclusion: If you wish to raise strong and successful children, teach them:
    To be honest
    To be courageous
    To be independent
    To be curious
    To be hard workers

    • Personal Email
      Personal Email 5 months ago

      thats aweaome......youre missing a vital one: to be an individual.

    • Rai Yuki
      Rai Yuki 5 months ago +1

      and the most important be their friend .... so whenever they are in problem or need advice .... u r the first one who they think about .... 💕

  • Dead Children Playing
    Dead Children Playing 8 months ago +1

    great video!

  • Justin Duman
    Justin Duman 8 months ago

    1 subscriber towards my channel means 1 prayer towards pewdiepie

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    Put them constantly in situations that are problematic and they have to come up with solutions to go out and play video games...

  • Noah De N’Yeurt
    Noah De N’Yeurt 8 months ago +1

    Lovely

  • Life Mantra
    Life Mantra 8 months ago +65

    Indeed, The more you trust them the more influence you have over them 😊😇

  • Discover Your Awesomeness
    Discover Your Awesomeness 8 months ago +25

    *I have never let my schooling interfere with my education.*